Broke up a month ago, and have been in contact the whole time. Still go out and usually spends the night. We broke up because she needed space and was starting a new job and needed to figure her life out. We have always been good together. The first person she comes to with her problems is me, I am the same way also. I just don't understand what the want's to be "us", without being "us" means. We both haven't dated anyone else, not even looking. So I really don't understand what she means by all of this. Any info would be greatly appreciated. She is 23, and just started her first post college job. I don't know if this has anything to do with it either.
2006-10-28 13:39:44 · 12 answers · asked by john 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say that she wants the companionship, but perhaps it was going to fast. Perhaps you should ask her what it means though, you sound like its still good to talk about it?
2006-10-28 13:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I stopped watching anime for like a year or two cause I was starting to get insanely good at predicting the plot twists it was getting ridiculously boring. Most follow an extremely cliche and predictable style of storytelling Robot mecha anime mostly spew nonsense with a few references to Biblical or Mythological things to sound "deep" and philosophical when it's not to cover up the confusing and incoherent plot High school drama is the most predictable of all. Some nerdy guy who's not-so-secretly perverted will clash with a hot girl who will most likely abuse him but he'll enjoy it just because he has no backbone. They will eventually get together b/c the girl will realize this dude will get her past her emotional problems. Fighting anime are usually a completely undisciplined and cocky underdog that somehow beats opponents with decades of experience with a burst of emotion and training from a pro. They will eventually hit a blockade, and get better training and rinse and repeat I started watching cause I saw some Death note on TV and thought it was something finally at least sorta original. I went online and started d/l ing it
2016-05-22 04:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that is asking a lot from you,, if she wants you to wait then you should know the real reason she incapable of being committed to you like you were before. If she truly wants to be with you she will get off the stick and make up her mind! You cannot fix her but you can support her.. So just ask her the REAL REASON!!
2006-10-28 13:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Hun...just give her a little space. She's stressin'....new job and all....we do that sometimes. As long as she's still right there in your life, enjoy it and take everything a day at a time...if it's meant to be, love will blossom in its own time!! Good luck!!
2006-10-28 13:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask her what u just asked us.Talk to her and find out. Thats the only way u can really find out.You can get comments from us but that will just drive u nutts..You need to go to her and find out what is really going on..Good luck hon.
2006-10-28 13:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realy don't know myself... but i did have a thought...
She just finished school, and is looking to start life over... she doesn't know if she wants to stay with you, a hold over from her last (during school) life, or if she should find some one new??
Like i said, i don't know, this was just a thought...
2006-10-28 13:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants to be "us" without the commitment. Starting a new job can be a stresser, so I guess it's what you want to do. If you want to be the booty call, then so be it. If not then you should tell her how you feel and be prepared to give ultimatums.
2006-10-28 13:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by freeme529 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means...she wants to still talk and be friends, but not be together in a relationship. Basically guy she's moved on, started dating again. She wants to still talk buddy-buddy, call about her problems. BUT she doesn't want you to get your hopes up thinking you guys are bound to be back together again!
2006-10-28 13:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by Nerds Rule! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ouch...sounds like she's getting the benefits but not putting in the commitment or title...my suggestion would be to move on and/or stay friends before you get played, because sooner or later, it sounds like that's what's going to happen.
2006-10-28 13:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by <3 <3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its is nothing just ride it out stand back Little bit and when she needs u be ready
let her do her its just she looking @ her options and working some stuff out
2006-10-28 13:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by dan_ny221 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋