ok, do u girls care more for personality or looks? cuz see i dont understand, im an ok guy in looks, i have green eyes 5'11, brown eyes, im average body type, im shy, and nutting, some of the girls dont find me interestin, i mean i have good feelings, im a great student, respectful, and caring,and inteligent can some one plz tell me wat am i doing wrong cuz i dont get it, do u girls go for the looks or personality? for the bad direspectful guys or respectful/ caring guys?
2006-10-28 14:34:16 · 42 answers · asked by carlosofia2000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nutting?
Just because you're unlucky in love doesn't mean that women deliberately go for the guy opposite of you.
2006-10-28 14:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say both.. I wouldnt go out with a HOT guy with an attitude nor the nicest guy in the world if i couldnt stand his face (im just being honest). You seems to be a great guy, nothing wrong with you. maybe u just havent find the right girl. Probably u need to be more relaxed, outgoing and open? Girls like guys with good sense of humour, who knows how to treat them right and also the ones that a bit 'mysterious' (u dont go tell all about u in 1 go...hehe).
I think most girl will go for both looks or personality. We are attracted by looks first and if the personality matches, thats when we started really likeing the guy. hope it helps u! good luck! :)
2006-10-28 14:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by tiiista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a perfect question I can answer to!
Your wondering from girls online what kind of guys they like and not many answer your question correctly... I will show you my background, and you can get another perspective from me.
I like a guy and he's a little shorter than you. He has blonde short hair, and he's more of a built kind of guy, the only thing, he isn't one of those popular guys...what I mean is, I never see any girls talking to him, even just for fun! He isn't those type of guys, and I like him. My friends when I talk about him, they are like "..." Plus, he's a straight A student, and loves to play tennis.
Q: Do you girls care more for personality or looks?
A: I care more for personality than looks. I like that your a great student, respectful, and caring, and intellegent.
Q: Can someone please tell me what I am doing wrong?
A: Your not doing anything wrong! Trust me, a beautiful girl will come into your arms, you just have to wait. Don't date those slutty girls wearing skank clothes! Find a respectful women because she will help you go far.
Q: Do you girls go for looks or personality?
A: Like I said, I rather go for personality than looks. I liked a guy, and he was sure hot... but I noticed he was the rudest guy you ever met! He maybe said some nice things about me, but he's so rude and I learned that it's not all about looks.
Q: ...for the bad disrespctful guys or respecful/caring guys?
A: I rather take the respectful + caring guy because guys like that have manners and know what's right from wrong.
I Hope I answered your questions!
-Shewolf2899
2006-10-29 01:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by shewolf2899 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it matters on how they look so just look the best at all times. Then just flirt a girl is really into her when u flirt but if u don't then she just sees u as just another boy. Then complimnet her just all the basic things a girl want to hear. But when u do this don't do it all at the same time because then hse will think something is up! So just look tight and lfirt and in the end u will either get a girl friend or a friend that is a girl but either way u get aomething out of it and it will be a positive response!
2006-10-28 14:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, For myself I go for personality first. Because if a guy isn't a nice person with the qualities im looking for I wont be interested. I think ladies only look for guys with good looks if the want a 1 night stand, if they're looking for a relationship and they were smart they would care about looks but care more about how the guy treats her and what kind of person he is.
2006-10-28 14:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by ή α τ α l ίϊ ή α 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY THE WAY YOU ARE!!! Young girls tend to like the bad boy type. But once they have had enough of that crap, it's your type they are searching for. Don't worry about the girls that don't give you the time of day. They will definately be seeking a wonderful caring person like yourself, and complaining how there isn't more men like you in the world.
2006-10-28 14:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure your not doing anything wrong, maybe your just trying too hard. girls often go for the looks, some girls dont care if a guy was sweet and bubbly, some girls want the badass with the piercings, and **** like that. some go for personality, i mean i want my guy to look decent, i want him to have a good personality. just take it easy and let a girl come to you, if that dont work than work on your flirting ways, im shy too. :D
2006-10-28 14:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks will get you in the door, but it's personality that will make you a keeper.
Maybe you're too shy. Think of some things that are interesting about yourself, then when you're talking to a girl you'll have some interesting stories right off the top of your head.
2006-10-28 14:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is it depends. if someone is gorgeous but a jerk he will still get some girls...and an average looking guy who is a jerk can also get some girls. If I can assume from your name that you are latino then you should know how to be charming -- that is part of the deal of being de nuestro raza...charm is more important than anything else. If you don't think you are charming hang out with someone who is and learn....because you have the gene in there somewhere, you just need to get it activated...
2006-10-28 14:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so many things that girls look for in guys and I can't talk for all but I'm more interested in how a guy acts Worth and without me being around. also that he's smart, mature, caring, a Lil bit funny.... but looks are not a must for me.... I look for what's inside.... your not doing anything wrong your just being you and there's nothing wrong with it and you don't want to be someone your not so don't worry about it right now your having a dry spell so what you'll get over it......
2006-10-28 14:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by lovargirl158 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i go for the guys personality, but that doesn't mean imma date sum1 extremely ugly. My guy can't be disrespectful, but he do need some respect though. But then again you need to know that each girl is different so some girls look for different things in a men. Just be yourself and soon you'll find your girl.
2006-10-28 14:39:26 · answer #11 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋