It seems that my older daughter (16) often 'spanks' my younger son (12) on his bottom. It doesn't seem like it's out of anger, but rather just for fun or whenever she 'feels like it.'
Is this something to be concerned with? Does anybody have this in their family, or had it done to them/done it to anybody else?
2006-10-28 14:31:40 · 8 answers · asked by Kelly C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think I would tell her to stop it...it doesn't matter if it's for fun..it is inapproiate for a girl 16 to "spank" her brother at 12!!!..it just says wrong all over the place. This must embarrasses the hell out of him..if it doesn't , I'm afraid he may be getting his kicks..(he is getting sexual at that age...most likely feels it in a pleasurable way).....she needs to keep her paws off of him!!!...ewwww
2006-10-28 15:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, does the 12 yo like it? If he's just playing around too, then leave them alone. So what if you have a budding dominitrix in the house. Spanking is a form of sexual play. Didn't you do any sex play as a kid? Be glad its being done in the house, under your nose, and not in secret. It's very likely that whatever games are going on, she'll grow out of it.
2006-10-28 21:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this is a new one for me. I am not a doctor or licensed to give specific advice, but from what it sounds like your daughter may be exercising some aggression or hidden emotions that are negative and have been held in for along time. She sounds like she likes to be in control and maybe you can find signs of that. I don't know for sure but this is a psychological thing about the human mind. When it comes to teen girls, all I know is that they usually tend to hold things in and act them out in whatever way they feel is appropriate just as boys do. I think she is okay upstairs but you should also ask your son what he thinks of it and to be honest about it too.
2006-10-28 22:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 year old girls always are spanking something. In all seriousness too. I can't even walk into my school without seeing a girl spank something!
2006-10-29 01:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by Nickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of kinky family do you have? Joking of course I'm studying children and their education currently and I'd say you have nothing to worry about their just playing around, i could see where your concern is though!
2006-10-28 21:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to talk to her or get some counseling. Something doesn't sound right to me. I have never had this in my family.
2006-10-28 21:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by toya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to knock it off! If she persists, a little counseling might be in order.
2006-10-28 21:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry!!!
Nothings wrong!
2006-10-28 22:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋