he's my bf 4 almost 6 months now..and he told me 2-3 times that he loves me...but when we go 2 one's of his friends party ,he almost leave me alone..& I feel I'm all by myself...I try 2 feel god,2 have a good time..but in the end..I feel so lonely..why is he such a..?!He told me that he has special feelings 4 me.. but at the party he wants 2 b the dj-and he ALWAYS leave me alone.and whn I'm dancing with him..he's looking at the comp....or at something else..and then he asks me why I'm upset.?!!IHe loves me or not..?I don't want 2 admit but.. is ...painful 4 me...please,HELP ME...!I need advice!!
2006-10-28 14:35:15 · 6 answers · asked by mia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2006-10-28 14:37:17
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answered by Anonymous
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if the relationship is hurting you, tell him. tell him how you feel when he leaves you alone, if you seem like he's not caring about you one way or the other, show him your serious and turn the tables and leave him foe a while. go off on your own for a while, make him understand how it feels when you do it to him , if you feel that you miss him go back to him and ask him how it makes him feel, if he got the message and truly does love you then he will come back and behave himself, if you find that your better off wthout him, so be it, theres way to many single people in the world to dwell over if someone is treating you right and if you should just stay and put up with it, move on of it feels right, if you leave and he wont let you back into his life, then that right there will give youthe answer to if he truly does love you, if he does he will miss you and let you back, if nt he doesnt, move on, meet other people, youll find more appreictive people.
2006-10-28 21:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bridgette ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that you have to be confortable being alone in a party, or public place. Does he do this only @ the partys? It seems that he wants attention. More than he is letting on. So you can notice him in a different light. I also think that you should tell him how you feel about the "lack" of attention.
2006-10-28 21:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by Nyltza M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u guys? Young men have a tendency of being what they are Babe..... young. Don't take it personal, as long as he's not flirting or leaving you alone to go dance with another girl!
2006-10-28 21:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by shawnthavirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a long talk with the this man.Maybe he is scared, but either way he should treat you like that. Maybe he is a little unsure.. Talk to him.
2006-10-28 21:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta learn to live without him. Then you could love him even more.
2006-10-28 21:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Maus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋