ok i have been talking to a guy and have gone out a couple times, he's talked about having sex but no strings attached what is a kind way to tell him that its not what i want (he's been thru a hard time and is over his ex but still has to see his ex because of the kids) i dont think he wants a relationship because of his ex but yet he wants a sexual relationship with nothing else. dont wanna hurt his feelings but dont want to lead him on either. theres no way out i see it just going to have to tell him right out and not be friends anymore...or does anyone else have idea if its happened to u
2006-10-28 14:29:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him that you won't do that, and tell him it is either a whole relationship or nothing at all.
2006-10-28 14:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, look at it this way. If you dont will you be alone and single? This is what I would do if I were in this situation:
-find out if he is clean, make him get tested.
-get on birth control
-only hang out when you are free and bored
-have sex, kiss a little. leave.
-only call to go over
-dont get involved with his kids or anything else, dont be nosy
-dont talk to his friends.
-dont talk to him, except in sex.
he will come around if you do this and want you to stop being so cold towards him and he will try to get you to change and love him. usually girls cant handle this and get clingy but if you hold strong i promise he will come around, you will drive him crazy and you will be satisfied sexually and still have time for whatever you want. a boyfriend is another appointment, another thing to work around, a sexual partner no strings attached is convenient and only as time consuming as you want
ONLY STIPULATION---SEXUALLY THERE CAN BE NO OTHER GIRLS AND NO GUYS FOR YOU. THIS IS HOW STDS SPREAD.
2006-10-28 21:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is illogical to have a relationship based just on sex. He is trying to just use you. Say no and that way you shall retain self respect for yourself.
2006-10-28 21:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Arjun C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you're looking for a deeper relationship not just sex.
2006-10-28 21:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't see any other way but do tell him soon the longer you wait the harder it will be
2006-10-28 21:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to take a hike
2006-10-28 21:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by mr. fancy pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say: "I think you are a fruity monster :D"
Then dance.
2006-10-28 21:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋