my friend recked my party?

Question

ok so.. yesterday i had a halloween party all was well than an hour into the party we disided to have a water fight we were playing and having fun 4 friends and i desided to gang up on 2 other people as soon as we throw 4 balloons we relized that they dint want to play anymore so i yelled stop they stoped and the to girls started crying the other guy desided he was going to go home but it was far away so i walked with him and i got him to come back to the house we than relized that one of the girls was threting to kill her self now half of my friends hate me and i dont see why iv asked everyone they say cause i kiked tham out when my mum made me tell tham to go home now there all angry and what did i do NOTHING! it was all her fault and they HATE me for it what can i do to get over this and how to make friends with tham i dont see why i should say sorry to the girl ither cause it was her falut not mine please plase plase reply i need help
thanks, love caitlin

Answer 1

Give it some time and let people's feelings cool off a little before you talk to anyone. Right now, they're upset and probably not willing to listen.

I would tell them that you're sorry because things got out of hand and that they were upset by what was going on. You didn't mean for things to happen the way that they did, and you hope that they'll understand.

That way, you're not apologizing for what your friend did, but the other people will see that you're upset, too. Good luck, sweetie. . .I hope everything works out just fine for you and your friends.

Answer 2

I guess they find it easy to blame u because it's was ur party and at ur house. But it's not ur fault, u did stop the water fight after u notice they didn't want to play. U can say ur sorry once more more and after that u shouldn't because u did try to resolve everything so to heck with them if they want to keep being mad at u.


The young lady who wants to kill herself has deep issues and those issues have nothing to do with u. And if everyone wants to be mad at u over it then they were never ur friends from the start because as they're friend they should know u would never do anything to cause trouble with anyone.

So let them be mad at u and the next time u have a party don't invite them.And find ur self new friends who will stick by u

Answer 3

You do have some responsibility for what happened since you were part of those who decided to have the water fight. Regardless of the fact that your intentions were not for it to get out of hand, it did. Take responsibility for your part which was getting it started.

Also, you can tell your friend that you are sorry that she feels badly. That is what friends do. Because they really do feel badly for their friends when they are sad and I'm sure you never would have suggested it get started if you thought she would get her feelings hurt. And let her know that you care how she feels and if there is anything you an do to help her get over this.

If you handle it right, they will like you more than before you had the party. But you have to let them know you care about them and their feelings.

Answer 4

well not to "yell at you" but its true, u shouldnt have left your own party thats just asking for trouble they coulda done anything at u coulda got into major trouble--next time dont let it get outta hand

and the next thing id like to say is to all the ppl who keep making the grammar jokes-get a life seriously no offence

Now for my advise, just apologize for what they think u did, admit u were wrong (even if its not true) if they dont wanna forgive u, give it time forget about it they rnt gonna hate u forever b/c u had one bad party

maybe after it blows over try talking to the suicide girl ask her y she said what she said just so u can prevent it from happening again and apologize to her personally

let it blow over--i hope everything goes well with u and ur friends

Answer 5

You shouldn't have left your own party; you should have been there to supervise so messes like the suicidal girl don't happen. Anyway, don't say sorry to anyone who doesn't deserve it, and everyone will eventually get over what happened, whatever it was. Good luck.

Answer 6

Sound like the problem is you want them to apologies to you. but see some times this happens to me and i have to a say sorry and know that it wasnt my falt so try that and if that dont work then let me know just im me or e-mail me . [e-mail]

Answer 7

Whew! What a long sentence! 11 lines!!!!

Ever heard of a little thing called GRAMMAR?

I hardly understood what the hell you're talking about!

Answer 8

you sjould say sorry, even if you dont mean it. you should try to make some less-violent party activities. :)

Answer 9

What you need are grammar lessons.

Answer 10

You spelled wrecked wrong....