when i turned 16 i promise myself that i will not try to have sex till i will got married, but now i have a problem... when i see hot girl walk/run by my buddy down there wakes up and i got very excited and then i remembered what i promise myself.......... and i starting feel guild for it.
2006-10-28 14:42:55 · 18 answers · asked by Luv Bug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude that's what masterbation is for, don't just have sex for the sake of it, you owe yourself more respect than that, you are young and this will happen for a long time to come. its ok to masterbate, EVERYONE does it, no question. i am 26 and lost my virginity when i was 15, wish i could have waited but i don't regret my decisions, you learn from your experiences.
2006-10-28 14:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Princess ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your 'buddy' wakes up down there, just stimulate yourself, you don't have to break your promise of no sex before marriage. I remember being 16, and yes, that is a Very active time for your 'buddy'.
2006-10-28 21:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably u do not feel guilty but u feel that u r missing something. If u like u can modify ur promise. One such modification wud be to have sex only with a person whom u intend to marry.
2006-10-28 21:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your human, those feelings are perfectly normal. Where the problem comes in is, if you were to act on those feelings and break that promise that you made. You have to decide if this is something that you are willing to do until you get married.
2006-10-28 21:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by toya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't feel guilty 4 this..u are a healthy teen-ager... it depends though why u made an abstinence promise 2 yourself...maybe u didn't/don't want 2 make sex 2 every girl u see...maybe u want 2 make real love,no sex.. and maybe u want 2 wait 4 that special girl..when u'll find her..these feelings will disappear....u feel guilty because u want 2 make sex because your body tells u so..not your heart..it is siad that ..at one point ..hormones are responsibles 4 our actions..u feel that u no longer have the contoll..u will regain it...sooner thatn u think.. b patient..
2006-10-28 21:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by mia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stick to that because i wish i had never had sex till i got maryied cause now when i think about it saveing your self for the girl of your dreams is the best way to make that girl to fall even more in love with you so keep it in your pants.
2006-10-28 21:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by punk_rock_freak2011 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN NO PLEASE . i was just just like u and i broke that promise the guilt that u will feel after u do it so so so damn hard dont do it u will fuckin enjoy it in marriage more than a 100 girls if u broke z promise
2006-10-28 21:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by peter prince 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEX can wait MASTERBATE! If you have sex it will open up a giant can of worms that you are probably not ready to deal with. Focus on your school and friends, sex will just get you in trouble.
2006-10-28 21:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by ANDREA K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty. What's happening to you is natural. Try to stick with your decision, you'll never regret it. Then get yourself some porn and some lube and stop feeling guilty!
2006-10-28 21:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by ***&&*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wanted to be a part of the Thieves Guild.......
2006-10-28 21:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋