My girlfriend of 2 yrs is all off a sudden finding mistakes at watever i do.She said a lot of stuff that hurt me.When i ask her if i should wait till she regains normality...she says its up to me .She cant assure me that she will endup with me even if i decided to wait.Her reasoning is"no matter how much u love a person,its not necessary that u will/should endup with that person"I was really taken back when she said this.Is she indirectly trying to convey something?Should i hang on or just let her go??
2006-10-28 15:06:59 · 6 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL. Yes, you should prepare for the worst. But don't worry. That kind of attitude will just go away. Just don't smother her.
2006-10-28 15:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. She might be cooling but doesn't want to confront it herself - or she might be giving you an opportunity to take the initiative. When love is lost it's pointless to try to hang on to it. We usually go through several relationships - even great love affairs - before we find one more permanent. But a warning - if this one breaks up, (a) remember you can remain friends (b) don't jump into another one on the rebound and (c) don't let the end of a relationship frighten you off investing yourself in another. A long relationship of love based on real friendship, companionship and common interests whilst giving each partner room for themselves, is a grand thing. But along the way to that we can learn from every relationship we have.
2006-10-28 22:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this could be one of 2 things. you are hearing but you are not listening and she is getting frustrated with you. In this case, the asnwer is obvious..she is not happy with some things about you and you should listen and accomodate to make her happy. Or, she is not happy with the relationship and wants out. first try the first case scenerio...tell her that you notice that she has not been very happy with you lately and what can you do to put things back on track and go from there. If this prooves to be not working then tell her. Tell her that you have noticed tension in the relationship and ask her if she thinks it is best that you both start giving each other space and if she wants space then do just that...give her space...do not turn around and call her all the time...let her call you...do not go looking for her all the time...let her come looking for you.
2006-10-28 22:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by sadealz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant except some one to wait......but you cant be with someone your not happy with.......maybe she's seeing how far she can push and test your limits or maybe she's having some self issues as well and taking it out on the person she's clostest to
best of luck
2006-10-28 22:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by blondiechick033 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is looking for a reason to break up...
2006-10-28 22:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to let her go but i would demand an explanation first.
2006-10-28 22:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋