if a girl u like says no to u asking her out becuase she says she doesnt know u well enough yet and it would be better to be just friends now...how can i show her that i am a really sweet guy and prove it to her instead of just saying it. this girl gives me butterflies just thinking about her. how can i prove to her that i am the guy she is exactly looking for? i think she wants to give me a chance but is still afraid of commitment. she is single n shy BTW
2006-10-28 15:13:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She does not want to go out with you...
She just does not want to hurt your feelings...
2006-10-28 15:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
If she's shy, it might be a better idea to listen to her when she says she just wants to be friends. I used to be that way, and even when I liked a guy, if he pushed it with me, I would become terrified and run for the hills. Once that happened, there was no way to win me back. Be her friend. The more she gets to know you, and the more comfortable she is with you, the more she'll let her guard down over time. Once she lets you in, it'll be completely. If you want to show her that you are the sweet guy she's looking for, then listen to her and respect her wishes. I know it's difficult when you have strong feelings to hold off, but trust me, if you want her, take it slow.
2006-10-28 22:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want to prove your love to her, respect her wishes and back off. She has told you already where she stands with you and to chase her will only push her away, further from you. Become the kind or type of man she is looking for to increase your chances of catching your "fish".
2006-10-28 22:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she might not ready for a relationship yet . just give her some time and be the sweet attentive fella you are now and she'll let you know when the time is right . Enjoy the friendship you have as of now
2006-10-28 22:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Actually, she is just blowing you off kindly. She sounds like a really nice girl. Continue being yourself and when she is ready, she will come to you. You sound really sweet, she would be blind to miss something like that. But respect her wishes. Be friends with her. She'll figure it out.
2006-10-28 22:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if she's shy - ask her out to something that will bring her out of her shell - i.e ice skating, paint balling - anything fun that requires messing about - so no having to force conversation.. will take the pressure of so you can both relax and she can get to see your sweet side (i.e helping to pick her up if she falls down, offering your jacket if she gets cold etc.)
2006-10-28 22:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
doing what she asks would be a good start. showing her that your willing to be her friend and be there for her is the best way. she needs to know that if she ever needed you your going to be there for her.
2006-10-28 22:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude you Dont Have no Clue if You are the Guy She is Looking for? Don't be ridiculous.
2006-10-28 22:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Call her on the phone twice a week and talk and then if she talks a lot start to call more often.......and as you talk on the phone you will get to know each other and she will open up to you..................and maybe take walks at first......Talking opens the door to a lot of getting to know each other.............
2006-10-28 22:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by ginny3282 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take her and some of her friends out (group date). Usually, if you can get in good with her friends, you will get in good with her!
2006-10-28 22:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait like she asked you to...why is it that men cant just listen, she said not yet she wants to get to know you, so doesnt that answer your question...theres no secret, you cant make her like you, just listen to her and wait
2006-10-28 22:19:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋