sometimes i get the feeling my husband is cheating what are the signs?

Question

I don't know when he would have the time, he works 7-7 and doesn't go out on weekends?

Answer 1

This is the sign ! When you start feeling he is cheating then you better listen to your feelings !! Ask any woman thats been through it and they will tell you , Listen to your Instinks!! Listen to that feeling cause most likely it is true !! They will find the TIME to cheat you better not think others wise!!! P>S> Don't ask him yet!!! He will only Lie and DENY IT !! You gotta find out on your own !!!

Answer 2

Maybe you just don't get to see him enough? Unless you are really having strong signs of infidelity u might want 2 back up for a minute and think about this. If he is on the other hand having a affair try looking at work. If he is working 7 days a week , and still seeing someone it would figure she works with him

Answer 3

a guy who wants to cheat will find a way. Is he emotionally distant? Has the style and/or frequency of sex and intimacy changed? Is he secretive about phone call and emails? A schedule of 7am to 7pm might be a reality for some folks depending on their commute and type of work. However, too many sudden "deadlines" or "lunch/dinner" meetings is a red flag. By the way, asking him directly is not the best approach. Men who admit to cheating usually do so on their own accord and do so with the intention of either finally ending the marriage or in hopes of reparing the demage. If you ask, you'll just be wasting your breath and working up your nerves for nothin'. It won't make him leave the other woman - he'll only try to hide it better. If you're prepared to leave him if its true, then get an undercover detective and prepare yourself for the truth. Be sure this gut instinct you're acting on isn't a sign of low self-esteem and insecurity on your own part. Go out and do something for yourself! Meet up with friends...treat yourself to some splurging on yourself to feel better, start investing in your future and career, etc. Just don't go overboard with the credit cards! good luck. FYI - women were born with better "instincts" so we can sniff out the rats...

Answer 4

what causes you to have the feeling he is cheating? are you sure he ALWAYS works 7-7?
some signs are lack of interest in sex, acts distant, possibly acts angry towards you more often. finds excuses to get out of the house, showers more often.....
the list is probably a lot longer, these are just a few....

Answer 5

don`t count ur chicken`s b4 they hatch!!you say he doesn`t go out on weekends.why aren`t you 2 doing something together?go to the park(pack a picnic)he can take time for you,i don`t care how many hour`s he works!!go to church sunday morning.you need time together(make the time)if you aren`t getting out,it`s no wonder you feel he`s cheating.you need more spent time together.as for signs of cheating,i would say,showing no interest in you and things you do to spend time together.little time as well as to much time together,can harm a relationship.commucation is a must! hope this helps.best of luck!!!

Answer 6

If you know he has no time then why would you be concerned?
Anyways guys love sex and so maybe turn the heat up in the bedroom and see how he reacts if he is not cheating he will most likely jump your bones watch out for excuses and question him if he gives one. Try him in the morning wake up a couple of hours early and give him a nudge tell him you are so horny that you need his manhood now etc.

Answer 7

Look for change in underclothes, he complains about everything, does not want to go out ,too tired, how is sex? , how does he treat you? the other woman might work wwith him, if you really sense someting ,thenn go hire a detective to put a track on him ,or better yet ,call cheaters, the television show. hugs. good luck.

Answer 8

my instincts told me there was something terribbly wrong that morning he left to go to work out of town, he never worked out of town. after that he began leaving and not saying where he was going, he suddenly got a cell phone,suddenly there were jobs that required him to work evenings,he would go into another room to answar the cell, he would falt find, name call, do things hurtful as if he could have cared less, when i confronted him about his treatment of me he would attack me verbally. he puts you last before family and friends as if your opinion doesn't matter. he no longer listens to anything you have to say, he cuts you off in conversation to let you know he isn't interested in what your talking about. he doesn't do the same things anymore with you,he no longer wants to do house projects with you, and when you ask him to do something, you feel as if you are bothering him. he is distant and evasive, and doesn't include you anymore when he goes to his families house. he bathes alot more. sometimes a strange vehicle will pull up in front of your house, when you wonder who it is, and you tell him a vehicle pulled up, he ask you what color it was, than a few minutes later he says he is going out, and leaves you, not inviting you to go. he says he is going to the store and doesn't return for hours.this was my experience before i learned the truth about why he was acting like this.

Answer 9

Figure out what it is that 'gives you the feeling' that it's happening, then look deeper into that. Maybe it's simply that you're feeling insecure or bad about yourself or simply paranoid, or maybe your intuition is letting you know something's wrong.

Answer 10

If he is constantly asking YOU if you are cheating or accusing you. People try to feed their insecurities and guilt by placing blame on others.