My friend broke up with her boyfriend quite a while back, well the whole break up thing really hurt him and after a long time he was able to "get himself back together" but she really wants him back now. He hasn't said no, but wants her to work at it.. Any ideas on what she should do? The reason I ask is because she won't stop talking about it.... so really HELP ME!!!!
2006-10-28 15:51:24 · 12 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he really likes her which it seems he does then all she has to do is stick to it. he seems smart and doesnt wanna be hurt again but he'll go back to her if she proves herself. tell her to go to his house a lot and even if she pleads. it sounds desperate but thats all he needs to know is that she is desperate to be with him again and that hopefully she knows that she wont leave him again. which can also be a lot of pressure on anyone.
2006-10-28 15:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people won't want to go back with someone who hurt them so badly - and she's being unfair on him by treating him this way - does she not know what its like to be hurt? she needs to back off and give him some space.. then start to get to know him again as a friend, and see if she still feels the same way about him a few months down the line, rather than jumping right back in to being g/f b/f again.
2006-10-28 22:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Frankie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should have ur friend make her wait 4 a lil while since it took him a long time 2 get himself 2gether.Or if hiz heart tells him it's time 2 move on or 2 get back wit her.It's hiz choice but I recommend he make her wait becuz it took him a long time 2 recover.
2006-10-28 22:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by Colts Chick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this means that probably he ISN'T 100% together. a girl once rejected me for a druggie, and that hurt enough to make her have to try for me. she should be pretty romantic and whatnot, not just the "friends who kiss" type of relationship. she should try not to let herself take anything for granted. in time, he'll probably be the one working for HER. however, I'm well over the girl who hurt me, so don't delay, be bold, otherwise he may get another GF faster than she thinks. best of luck :)
2006-10-28 22:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Ese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you stay out of it and have her sort out her life. Suddenly you could find blame coming your way and you don't know how you got mix up.
2006-10-28 22:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by nothing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. Set up a date for them. Let them talk to each other.
2006-10-28 22:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by Question 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do'nt know if you ever heard this: "never **** and step back in it"... Think about it, do'nt go back, she seems very undecided about herself and her feelings. I think she needs to take time to get to know what she wants......
2006-10-28 22:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to say srry ALOT to her ex. That might work
2006-10-28 22:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it! None of your business.
2006-10-28 22:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Princess ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her she ****** up. If he doesn't want to get back with her then she should realize thats her own fault. tell her that.
2006-10-28 22:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋