I can see myself with this guy for the rest of my life, I've loved him for so long, And he makes me smile. He's never been mad at me a day in his life and I can cry in front of him, and over him. He's not the "hottest" guy ever he's just amazing. Nobody else can see him the way I do, When I tell them about how we talk to each other, they can't believe it, Which means he doesn't talkto anyone else like that. He knows everything about me and we understnad each other.
2006-10-28 15:53:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone is right.
If you feel the same way when you're older (and I don't mean the arbitrary 18... but I mean young adult-ish... 20-25), then sure. But you seriously don't know what you want yet.
If it was meant to be, then he'll be around later.
2006-10-28 15:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by IceTrojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As people age they have different needs and wants. THe problem with getting involved with someone romantically at this age is that you are basically setting yourself up for failure in the long run.
You and the guy are going to change alot even by the time you are 18.
Its ok to date. Use this time to find out all the things you like and dislike about the guy, or even things you may want and you are not getting from this fellow.
I would also like to add this: If you have sex imagine how hard it will be to explain having a child to your parents or friends in junior high. It will be very embarassing, imagine the pain you will feel at child birth. Don't have sex yet. Don't let anyone talk you into it. Having a child will ruin your life now.
2006-10-28 16:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love at 12. So yes you absolutely can be in love young. No one before or since him has ever made me feel anywhere near to what he made me feel. If you are together then I am happy for yall.
In all honesty it is rare rare rare to see these childhood loves ever work out so enjoy it. And if you end up together then wow. If not, don't fret. I completely did cause I was sure there was no replacing him. and there wasn't, but different things that are just as good, only mature, come along.
If you're in love then totally go for it. Just take it slow, its more fun that way too. Plus if yall really are in love, then it won't matter about the sex til you're ready.
xo
2006-10-28 16:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by anabanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm 14 and was in a similar situation and people say the same thing. well. so what if people say you can't love at 13? i mean, to be realistic, you probably won't be with this guy forever, but until something happens, just enjoy it! make sure you aren't blind to the possibility that it isn't perfect because although maybe you can love, you are still young and there's a long time that you have to possibly be dating all kinds of people and find out what you really want.
2006-10-28 15:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Julia Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , you feel love, and that is great! Lifetime love is more than what you described though , if that is what you are getting at. Forget for a moment what you see and for how long you have had this love. Just imagine.........
Him making you sad beyond belief,Him so mad at you,he will not speak, and you both at such an impass, you cannot understand each others point of view.Then be with each other long enough to survive it.....with great respect and love.....that my dear is lifetime love.
2006-10-28 16:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can luv at 13, its just not recommended cause ur likely to get hurt in some way... if u get married young it will almost be to hard to make it... if u wait til ur 18, well wats the chances ull survive as a couple for the next 5 years of ur life with no commitment... if u do and u end up bein with eachother for the rest of ur life, then im truly happy 4 u
2006-10-28 15:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love at 13, your just beginning puberty. You feel this way now, but when its time to enter into high school you may feel the same way about someone else. Its just too soon to start saying your in love with someone.
2006-10-28 16:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by mrspolish56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CAN love at 13. I loved at 12. I fell in love 3 times. I am 13 now. I am with the best guy ever. And i love him. Don't let anyone tell u your not in love. U r.
2006-10-28 15:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by emilystar25 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
youre still in your 13 percent of your life. you have a long way to go. i did fall in love for the first time when i was 13 too. i look back at it as a good memory. young and sweet. your only tasting the sweetness of love. as you get older. love is bitter and sweet. and that translates to life as well. id say cherish your moments with him right now. later on in life, that moment is something youll sweetly look back at with your future partner.
2006-10-28 15:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by funky_homosapien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no idea what you are saying personally you should not be concerning yourself with love at such a young age concern yourself with school, college, and a career and then think of a guy. Pls. wake up your 13 yrs old.
2006-10-28 15:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋