Everytime we have sex, he always try to go down on me, which i actually like it too, but i cant take it too long, as it tickles me sooo much and i just couldnt take it and told him to stop. It feels good but tickles me so much at the same time that i have to stop him. Lately i think it annoyed him as he thought i just dont enjoy it. I told him but he doesnt seem to get it. Is it something wrong with me? I really want to be able to fully enjoy it.. any help? :(
2006-10-28 15:57:17 · 13 answers · asked by tiiista 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm . . . maybe you should try giving him advice about how to do it better. Like maybe he's going too fast or something. If it's not that, just tell him you prefer conventional sex to oral sex and that should set things straight. He probably doesn't care for it either, and is just doing it because he thinks it's what you want. Good luck!
2006-10-28 16:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes gurl something is seriously wrong wit you because many ladies will kill for a man who loves going down. My advice to you is to tell him to be a little just a little bit rougher and not so slow because that's why it tickles. And if this doesn't work gurl just get to giggling and hollering.
2006-10-28 23:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by ADVICEGURL101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the tickling from his facial hair.....I know I get that way sometimes with stiff facial hair on men. I can't concentrate and enjoy the stimulation. I have even stoped them and told then to shave before resuming.....
maybe you could try that if it is the facial hair that tickles your thighs
2006-10-28 23:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should invite your hottest girlfriend over, have whoever "he" is (you never said who he is: boyfriend, husband, cousin, etc...) sit down where he can have an excellent view, then have your girlfriend go down on you while he watches and explain to him step by step on what's she's doing and how it feels. I think that's the only way he's ever going to know. That goes for all you ladies out there!!! Thats the only way us guys are going to learn!!! Yes, THE ONLY WAY WE WILL LEARN!!! : )
2006-10-28 23:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by WTF?!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard on a guy's ego as every guy likes to think they are the best at it, but you need to tell him what feels good and what is too intense. Let him develop a technique that works for you.
2006-10-28 23:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If at some point it begins to become uncomfortable for you, there is nothing wrong with saying, "STOP". There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It is your body and you determine who, what and where you would like to be touched and also how often. Do not feel guilty!
2006-10-28 23:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by lovinp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if he is tickling you while doing that ...he aint doing it right....he needs to learn how to eat your Pu$$y ....cause it aint supposed to tickle
good luck......the other alternative is 69 so your mind is off the tickling
2006-10-28 23:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the right track by telling him how you feel. now continue on that track and coach him thru it.....tell him how you want him to do it so you enjoy it.
2006-10-28 23:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be firm with him and say you don't like, but, if he gives you time, you will try to find a way to enjoy it, and say, please don't rush me, give me time on this.
2006-10-28 23:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iv seen this before, hes pushing ur threshold, just clench ur teeth, scream watever, but let him keep goin and im sure ull be glad u did
2006-10-28 22:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋