I feel as if if I went out with a guy for a while, even a long time, I wouldn't care when we broke up? I see all these other girls that morn over thier bfs but I am like 'so wat'? am I being mean, or is it okay?
2006-10-28 15:53:23 · 15 answers · asked by All Of the Above 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That doesnt mean you dont have feelings, just somewhat emotionally detached. Nothing to worry about, im pretty certain if the right person rocks around that will change.
2006-10-28 15:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I suppose most will tell you it's ok, and you have the right to your feelings, but I'll tell you it's not ok from some mens' perspective. You're basically telling any hopeful boyfriend that he's ultimately insignificant, Unless you both only want sex, any man that knows your attitude would be a fool to date you. You've about told them what they are worth.
I know this is not a sensitive answer, and if people want to rate this answer poorly, fair enough, but this is how I feel.
2006-10-28 23:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever been in a romantic relationship? I was the same way. I always thought my friends we're stupid for crying over guys and stuff but when I finally got a boyfriend and I started to love him I couldn't imagine myself without him. So no I don't think it's abnormal or mean for you to think that way. But wait until you have a serious relationship and see if you still feel that way.
2006-10-28 22:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by LolaCola 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is okay...I find myself not caring, most people are over dramatic and in need of attention. Kind of like when my grandfather died, we all hated him and didn't speak with him for 16 years, but sure enough everyone there was crying and screaming "WHY!" It was disgusting display. Everyone there was lying and for what? He was dead...it's not like he cared. Then soon after they made some money from him and were happy again.
2006-10-28 22:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Theresa,
you have a Problem,I don't think you where ever in love,if you where,it would change your feelings,so go on and find the right person,Good Luck from Canada
2006-10-28 22:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by karl s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its OK ,you may have not met someone you really care about yet ,but if you feel its more than that ,if you feel you are cut off from the world then I would see a councilor ,a lot of people who grow up in diffusional family's feel like this ,especially if they were abused.
2006-10-28 22:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you havent found the right guy and keep picking ones that dont knock your socks off!
Try again and invest a bit more into the next one. Good luck.
2006-10-28 22:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Alot of humans that dont have feelings end up in prison so be careful.
2006-10-28 22:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Eventually you will find someone for whom you do care. But I understand what you mean, I've been there. It will happen one day, when you least expect it.
2006-10-28 22:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by venusiaint 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I DON'T THINK SO... I think it's just who you are.. like my friends always tells me.."YOU HAVE NO FEELINGS AT ALL"...but i do u know what i mean...but I think it's cause ur not attached enough?
2006-10-28 22:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋