How could you let it be known without hurting the other persons feelings. This person is also the most insecure mate I have ever had in my life. This person is suspicious, nagging and annoying. Its no wonder that this person has failed in relationships prior to ours. I don't even consider this a relationship. He is the most inexperienced man I have ever met to be his age. He's always groping on me like a pervert. It makes me sick! He is very immature when it comes to being. Actually, I am sadden by him. I believe he is a very sick guy.
2006-10-28 15:49:11 · 15 answers · asked by lovinp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd be honest but not mean cuz he probably don't know what he is doing wrong. Tell him that this relationship just isn't working for you.
2006-10-28 15:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And you are the woman who is with the very sick guy. What are you in it for? The money? Let's hope. Of Course he's going to be insecure, You are 20 years younger than him. He's probably afraid you will go off with some younger guy. He probably already knows that you are not sexually attracted to him. It seems what you are looking for is a father figure, not an old man to have a regular relationship with. Thats why his sexual advances are making you sick. Just tell him, if he gets hurt, that's his own damn fault for going out with someone so much younger than him.
2006-10-28 15:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 06:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by rothi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all why did you go out with him to begin with I sure at first sight you were like no I dont think so to yourself RIGHT on the other hand just let him down easy Im sure he'll understand just let him know that he's not the one for you. I myself am dating a guy that is 15yrs my senior and it's ok most of the time I guess it all dopends to the person GOODLUCK
2006-10-28 15:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you like being his "nurse"? I think that's called "enabling." The fact that you're writing says maybe you're ready to consider something better. O.K. Admit maybe you've mostly been freeloading, you've been a chump, you've been accepting a bunch of nothing because that's all you were willing to give, and then get TF out of there! How else is your real man going to find you?
2006-10-28 16:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I date girls in their 20-30 and i am 37 pushing but i had many female lovers 381 and still counting....Age is a factor that needs to be addressed if it is about his healthy and money but for me if you are in sync with the other person then it should never matter...I still snow board, i fight full combat, i seldom drink never smoke but i love sex with many or different people...Sex!!! yes the corner stone of every relationship if he does not make you happy is time to leave....contact me and tell me how it went
2006-10-28 15:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put an end to the 'relationship'. Tell him it's for personal reasons and leave it at that. If you refuse to elaborate, he'll just have to deal with it.
Or tell him the flat out truth. Maybe he isn't any better intimately because no one has bothered to tell him that there's a lot he needs to learn.
2006-10-28 15:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by Empy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me guess.. you're 65 and he's 85? You say pervert like its a bad thing. Try watching some porn together.I think he wants to be disciplined. Maybe he wants to try bondage. Ask him if he would be okay with a 3some. Try covering yourself with peanut butter before sex. Do it in a public place, like in a gas station restroom. When are you getting married?
2006-10-28 16:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by dan_in_la 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well honey you need to tell him how you feel.You shouldn't be with someone that you are not attracted to.If you can't do it to his face then leave him a nice letter telling him.I wish you the best
2006-10-28 15:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by silly_girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im confused. In the question u said ur in a relationship, then in the details u said u don't call it one. make up ur mind
2006-10-28 15:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by coolpotatoeslive 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋