Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

This is beautiful








The best kind of friend

Is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with,

Never say a word, and then walk away

Feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.





It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it,

But it's also true that we don't know

What we've been missing until it arrives.








Giving someone all your love

Is never an assurance that they'll love you back!

Don't expect love in return;

Just wait for it to grow in their heart

But if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone,

An hour to like someone,

And a day to love someone,

But it takes a lifetime to forget someone.




Don't go for looks; they can deceive.

Don't go for wealth; even that fades away.

Go for someone who makes you smile

Because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

Find the one that makes your heart smile.



May you have

Enough happiness to make you sweet,

Enough trials to make you strong,

Enough sorrow to keep you human,

Enough hope to make you happy.





Always put yourself in others' shoes.

If you feel that it hurts you,

It probably hurts the other person, too




The happiest of people

Don't necessarily have the best of everything;

They just make the most of everything that comes along their way.



Happiness lies for those who cry,

Those who hurt, those who have searched,

And those who have tried,

For only they can appreciate the importance of people

Who have touched their lives.





When you were born, you were crying

And everyone around you was smiling.

Live your life so that when you die,

You're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.



Please send this message

To those people who mean something to you,

To those who have touched your life in one way or another,

To those who make you smile when you really need it,

To those that make you see the brighter side of things

When you are really down,

To those who you want to let them know

That you appreciate their friendship.

And if you don't, don't worry,

Nothing bad will happen to you,

You will just miss out on the opportunity

To brighten someone's day with this message...

2006-10-27 10:09:27 · 6 answers · asked by Sangy . 4 in Friends

okay, i am doing this project about your favorite store.... just pick one of these please.. thanx..
Abercrombie
Hollister
American Eagle
Aeropostale
Others

That would be really helpfull if you pick one. :D

2006-10-27 10:09:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-27 10:08:47 · 18 answers · asked by may 1 in Friends

2006-10-27 10:08:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i babysit my five sibling with my older sister alot (their ages r 10, 8, 6, 4 and 2) and i need some ideas on how to keep them entertained...i don't like putting them in front of the tv the whole time, but whenever i try to set them up w/ something else, like a game, or something the always end up fighting. your ideas?

2006-10-27 10:08:08 · 15 answers · asked by dharma gal 2 in Family

2006-10-27 10:07:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just want to know if women think it's against the law to approach guys. I mean everything doesn't have to be so damn old fashioned. If a woman likes a guy then why can't the woman ask the guy out or something.

It kills me when I see questions on here like " how can i get him to ask me out". What the hell is that. It's 2006 and I think if you like a guy then ask him out and stop waiting for him to make the first move. Sometimes guys are the one's who is shy. Personally I like woman who are aggressive, it's hot. I am not one of the shy types, I am mainly the aggressor but it would be nice for it to be the other way around. SOMETIMES

I guess what I am trying to say is what's up with that? Why can't more women go after what they want?

2006-10-27 10:07:26 · 9 answers · asked by DLB 4 in Singles & Dating

mother always wants to throw his younger brother off on us which is like 14 He is so annoying and I cant say anything about it because me and my boyfriend always fight and almost break up. His brother is so sneaky he never speaks to me when he is over, and my freakin boyfriend ignores me and plays the game. I get so pissed off. I think my boyfriend is just trying to act like his father instead of a brother. My boyfriend puts his family in front of me all the time when i am the one who supports his broke ***. This **** is driving me haywire!!! Someone please respond and let me know what to do

2006-10-27 10:06:59 · 15 answers · asked by kvjacks1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 10:06:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex was violent,aggressive and paranoid-He would leave me for anything for up to a week cos I hadn't cuddled up to him,or once when I asked him to hold the baby-
He was on it for 10 years and smoked it like cigs-He would accuse me of having a go at him when I hadn't actually said anything
We were married and 4 days after the wedding he threw his ring off cos I asked him a question about a motorbike.
He once pulled over on the dual carraigeway,took my baby and walked off with her 10 miles from home-cos he'd been screaming and I ignored him-I had no keys or phone.
I left when he started hitting my daughters
It was always 'bye bi*ch-Once he started screaming at me in a busy pub cos I had wanted to go for xmas lunch,and then told me to *uckoff and find someone else.

I got rehoused 200 miles from him and filed for divorce-I tried to maintain contact and I was told 'leave him alone cos I'm a fruitcake' so I did
I now have to allow him to see her at the contact center on 24th Nov

2006-10-27 10:05:41 · 25 answers · asked by Elle J Morgan 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a married woman and have one kid too. we have a happy married life and i am married to my husband since 10 years now. Four years back, i came across this guy over the net. we both met each other later and eventually our families hv a nice relationship too. i am respected a lot at his end by his parents and other family members. His family has faith in me tht i wud always guide him rightly. i know we are not marrying because for no fault of my family, i wud not like them to suffer just because i developed this soft corner for someone else. This is made very clear between us but then we dont want to part fm each other and want to stay in touch with each other even after he gets married. There has never been a physical relationship between us. But the emotional tie is so strong. We stay miles away fm each other. We dont meet often. We just want to be for each other whenever required in our bad times as good partners to share. dont know if i am wrong, nor do i know wat to do.

2006-10-27 10:05:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i need confidence help...lately ive been feeling like crap because all of my friends are nice and they complament me all the time...but no guys like me...at all and i dont know why...i want to be confident and independent...i just dont know how...i know i dont need a...but all of my friends have guy friends and boyfriends except for me...i feel like my life isnt going anywhere....please answer nicely cause my self esteem isnt good right now. thank you to everyone who helps.

2006-10-27 10:04:17 · 7 answers · asked by model 2 in Singles & Dating

my brother used to be friends with this guy that i never met before and then one day he just got mad at him. today he came to my house and he asked for my brother and he wasn't here so told him i would call my brother for him. then they talked for a while and my brother told him to come visit where he was. i told the guy how to get there and he asked for my brothers phone # "just incase he got lost" and i didn't think about it and gave it to him. after he left i called my brother and told him i gave it to him and he sounded mad but he didn't get mad at me. so now i feel bad about it.
i knew i shouldn't have opened the door.
:(
is there any way i can make myself feel better about that?

2006-10-27 10:04:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok the other day I found an email on my Boyfriends friends email. So anyway my boyfriend had emailed this girl about 7 times (what wasnt in the trash of the email account) through his friends account. The emails were nothing major but in one it said hey sexy and then said the reason im not having you email me at my account is my gf is kinda crazy she likes to know everything. all the other emails where like one liners. I asked his friend about and he said in short oh well they talked online one day and all that talked about was skateboarding. But he does seem overly jealous which I know is the number one sign of cheating do you thing something is going on? The emails were wrote back in May and only lasted for like 2 weeks or so.

2006-10-27 10:04:05 · 6 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3 in Singles & Dating

Question is I still like to go out and drink and dance and shoot pool.....He doen't......When I ask if he wants to go out he says "No...you go and have a good time." Does he really mean it or does he really want me to stay home with him?

2006-10-27 10:03:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It sounds a lot like my life to me, but that's me; what do think it means?

2006-10-27 10:03:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been together for about a month. everything seemed to be fine untill this week. We have only talked on the phone 1 and yesterday he didn't respond to one of my texts except 1 then I called him and he didn't answer his phone. This morning he texted me as usual and then I asked him why he didn't answer his phone he said he was at the bar watchn cards and didn't get service. But he got service for the text???? We talked a little bit today and he says he's happy and that hes not going anywhere. What is going on. Am I over reacting? All I want is for him to hold me, but with the game on with the cards no way i'll get that. any advice? We have had relations to if you know what I mean

2006-10-27 10:03:29 · 9 answers · asked by for_runner0 2 in Singles & Dating

OK. I know I want purple or violet as one of my wedding colors. Normally I pair purple and green, but I don't think it looks right for a wedding. I don't know what other color(s) would look right with purple or violet for my wedding. Please help me. I'm going insane, and in turn I'm driving my fiance crazy as a bat.

2006-10-27 10:03:12 · 18 answers · asked by viva_bamm 2 in Weddings

I made as clear as I could that I am not interested, but he still keeps asking me out, call my mobile, wants to give me presents that I don't accept and so on. It is so annoying !

2006-10-27 10:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by meiguanxi :) 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok heres my situation. im 18 my gf is 16 and she got pregnant with my kid. i said if she had it i would be willing to adopt or take control of the kid if she couldnt yet today she went down and got a abortion anyways. she says she loves and all that but how can i trust her now knowing she took my kid for good and it never had a chance? i told her that maybe its better we dont see eachother anymore cause i cant deal with the pain of knowing she killed my kid even though it was both our faults she got pregnant. should i continue to try and work things out knowing ill never have a kid with her agian because of this or just move on? i have a place with my sister in kansas i can move to till i get on my feet and thats what i want to do but is it right?

2006-10-27 10:02:44 · 7 answers · asked by andy s 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello, I just needed some advice on what I should do. Two years ago, I was a big player, u know, a love em and leave em kinda guy until I met the sweetest girl Iv'e ever met, she made me a one woman man. My family & friends' 1st impression of her was that they liked her, but she had kind of a crazy look in her eye. Anyway everything was perfect for the 1st two years until we got totally comfy with each other and started to have fights a bit. And I noticed when she gets pissed, she loses it.....no, I mean she REALLY LOSES IT. There have been times where she scratched my face bloody, she threw a DVD player at my head,(luckily i ducked and the wall got the dent), she just turnes into a beast (she growls and drools and everything like shes possesed, no joke people), but when she's back to normal shes back to being an angel. But just recently she almost killed us both by pulling the e-brake as we were on the freeway IN THE RAIN!! luckily we spun out to the side in the dirt. help!

2006-10-27 10:02:27 · 6 answers · asked by c_wilson2k5 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 10:02:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anna-Banana 2 in Singles & Dating

my sons mother is american,she does'nt live with him, he is being raised by her parents. I am no longer with her, since i was refused a visa, i desperately want to be there to see my son grow up. is there any way i can get to live & work there to beable to be with my son? He does'nt know who i am, pretty soon he is going to start asking questions, he's going to think he's been abandoned by his mothewr and father! there must be a way!!!

2006-10-27 10:01:21 · 3 answers · asked by chris m 1 in Family

..i'll help pass the time!

2006-10-27 10:00:31 · 5 answers · asked by missy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced for 2 years from my high school sweet heart. I have moved on. Im in a relationship I love my boyfriend but this is my problem. My ex-husband calls me to have sex with him. He is engaged and I like his fiance. I divorced because he was a cheater. Should I tell the fiance whats going on. I have discussed it with my boyfriend. Why would he continue to want to have sex with me? Neither of us were happy when we were married.

2006-10-27 10:00:27 · 16 answers · asked by theresa kay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Two months after my son was born I found out my husband was having an affair with the attorney he works for, and she is 20 years his senior!!! I have since found out that during my pregnancy, he was cheating with another girl from the office,, and she is also married. I asked him to move out because I was so upset by the fact the he had so little regard for our babies health and welfare, out sleeping around and then coming home to me. He could have given me a STD and that could have harmed our baby. He doesn't understand why I am so upset, and tells me I'm crazy. Has anyone else had an experience like this and how do you cope???

2006-10-27 09:59:55 · 33 answers · asked by Don't shop, adopt! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 09:59:40 · 9 answers · asked by justcurious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's face it: guys are stupid and we know it.... Wow, that was a little ironic. Anyway, what are some things that you ladies wish us guys knew, or would learn about if we don't already know? It doesn't just have to apply to relationships or emotions; it can be ANYTHING in the entire world. What do you wish we knew?

2006-10-27 09:59:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 09:59:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when ur boyfriend won't talk to u or tell u what is wrong with him
please help me!!!!

2006-10-27 09:59:09 · 10 answers · asked by soccersam522 3 in Singles & Dating