i need confidence help...lately ive been feeling like crap because all of my friends are nice and they complament me all the time...but no guys like me...at all and i dont know why...i want to be confident and independent...i just dont know how...i know i dont need a...but all of my friends have guy friends and boyfriends except for me...i feel like my life isnt going anywhere....please answer nicely cause my self esteem isnt good right now. thank you to everyone who helps.
2006-10-27 10:04:17 · 7 answers · asked by model 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have this feeling that you must be very young. Either that or in your early thirties and feeling your internal clock ticking away.... But if is the former option------ ENJOY BEING SINGLE!!!! High school or even college--take the free time to do things you are really interesed in!! Having a boyfriend can be fabulous, yes, but so can NOT having one!!! Take a karate lesson, help out your mom in the garden, learn a second language, spend some quality time with your grandparents while/if you still have them!! Whatever interests you, take advantageous of the fact that you have time to kill (which is probably why you are feeling lonely in the first place) and utilize it!!! Even if you have nothing you'd like to do, help out your family or do something nice for a neighbor- heck, mow lawns for money!!!!! Hope this helps....lately i've been wishing for less boyfriend time, and more ME time!
2006-10-27 10:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by love this site! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the exact same thing when I was younger. from past experiences, the key is confidence. you must elevate your body and mind to another level. think beautiful thoughts about yourself. be more outgoing. act out some of your wildest dreams (not too wild lol) but you get the picture. take really good care of your appearance.
If you don't believe in yourself, no one else will. good luck and take good care of yourself.
2006-10-27 17:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by WAKE UP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~hugs~ sounds liek your feeling low girl. You are right you don't need a man to make you happy, the key is loving you first then loving others. Listen to the Pusscat dolls song I don't need a man when you start getting low it pretty much says that a woman who is in charge oof her life can make it with or with out.
2006-10-27 17:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Varacha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to decide what you really want and then go after it-----if you dont take chances in life---theres only wanting hoping dreaming and stagnation------im not saying be a hooch or anything, just speak out or up a little more--------guys arent mind readers they cant tell if you like them by shy glances and sighs
2006-10-27 17:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might need to interact with some boys. 'Cause boys don't just come up to you and say i love u
2006-10-27 17:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Kenneth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mind occupied on other things. It will happen for you in time(the guy thing) , probably when you least expect it!
2006-10-27 17:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by Risedvn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they think you are too beautiful and they get scared off thinking that they aren't good enough for you.
that happens alot..
2006-10-27 17:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋