My bf and I have been together for about a month. everything seemed to be fine untill this week. We have only talked on the phone 1 and yesterday he didn't respond to one of my texts except 1 then I called him and he didn't answer his phone. This morning he texted me as usual and then I asked him why he didn't answer his phone he said he was at the bar watchn cards and didn't get service. But he got service for the text???? We talked a little bit today and he says he's happy and that hes not going anywhere. What is going on. Am I over reacting? All I want is for him to hold me, but with the game on with the cards no way i'll get that. any advice? We have had relations to if you know what I mean
2006-10-27 10:03:29 · 9 answers · asked by for_runner0 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop over reacting before you freak him out and he thinks you are some kind of clingy stalker.
2006-10-27 10:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was married I got really tired of my wife calling me while I was on the golf course. It would be 4 or 5 times a round. Since I played 2 times a month I would have liked a little MARSHALL time without the harassing phone calls from her. Get the point?
I finally got to the point of leaving my phone in the truck. The problem is when she had an emergency I wasn't there to help. BIG issue. SHE didn't realize the reason I left the phone in the truck.
If you want MAN advise. Call or text him then leave it. (unless you really need him) At some point he will ignore you totally. IF you want your text's answer be thoughtful of his time. Give him space when he is out with the boys..
2006-10-27 17:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Marshall Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not call you or text you then go with him to the card game to see what is he is doing
2006-10-27 17:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by Octavio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy his space. If he wants to do cards or a game that is a lot better than him doing someone else if you know what I mean.
2006-10-27 17:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling.. He'll come around if he's interested. He lied to you about the phone service... Show him you may not be there when he wants you and he'll come around.. If not.. Move on.
2006-10-27 17:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by timbill_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is playing strip poker with girls or something. Guys, I assume get bored of their everyday girl and eventually cheats in order to get a rush(adrenaline).
2006-10-27 17:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by Maikeru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to worry about it. The thing with guys is, they tell you when they're mad, none of that passive sneaky crap that girls do.
2006-10-27 17:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by Curious George 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are acting way too needy. This will drive him away.
2006-10-27 17:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lighten up if you smother him hes gone. if im busy i dont answer my phone either.
2006-10-27 17:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋