Hello, I just needed some advice on what I should do. Two years ago, I was a big player, u know, a love em and leave em kinda guy until I met the sweetest girl Iv'e ever met, she made me a one woman man. My family & friends' 1st impression of her was that they liked her, but she had kind of a crazy look in her eye. Anyway everything was perfect for the 1st two years until we got totally comfy with each other and started to have fights a bit. And I noticed when she gets pissed, she loses it.....no, I mean she REALLY LOSES IT. There have been times where she scratched my face bloody, she threw a DVD player at my head,(luckily i ducked and the wall got the dent), she just turnes into a beast (she growls and drools and everything like shes possesed, no joke people), but when she's back to normal shes back to being an angel. But just recently she almost killed us both by pulling the e-brake as we were on the freeway IN THE RAIN!! luckily we spun out to the side in the dirt. help!
2006-10-27 10:02:27 · 6 answers · asked by c_wilson2k5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your serious, this will only get worse if she doesn't get some type of help. She might have some kind of psychiatric disorder or just a bad case of PMS. What ever the case may be, you might try to have her seen by a doctor. If she refuses, sounds like your in for a ride, and it may not be pretty.
2006-10-27 10:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiddo, this anger is serious, and I mean serious stuff. Normally I would say she needs an anger management class (with you by her side), but this is beyond that. I'm no expert, but it almost sounds like anger triggers something physiological in her (the growling and drooling), could she have some form of Tourette's Syndrome? We could speculate all day, but here's the bottom line. You both need to see a medical doctor. Don't settle for a GP's opinion, (and you may have to go through several referrals), get to a specialist or as many as you need to see. She sounds like a doll, so getting to the root of this is going to make her life so much better (whether you stay together or not), and since she's even willing to endanger herself and others, (can you imagine what she could do to a child? ) you really need to make sure she gets the help she needs. I wish you luck and success with this.
2006-10-27 17:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by Caper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better leave before she kills you!! you're dealing with a real Dr. Jekyll and Mrs. Hyde kinda situation. There are male abuse support groups that you can join and find your way through this violent mess that you're in. Just talk to someone about the abuse (including her) and see if she won't get some mental help. (I'm being sarcastic in case you weren't picking up on that.)
2006-10-27 17:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she needs some psychological treatment. Maybe some meds.
2006-10-27 17:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy of 5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya that's not good but if you really think you can handle her than stay with her but if it gets worse than leave her.
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-27 17:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is making her this angry ? Is she suspicious that your back to your old ways ? She might need some counseling.
2006-10-27 17:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋