Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

For the last several weeks, my husband keeps telling me I don't hug him in the middle of the night. He has always been good about hugging me and usually when he turns over, he'll wrap his arms around me. I sleep as if I'm in a coma and maybe throw my arm around him once for about 5 minutes. It wasn't a big deal before but now he's mentioning it every day. He says that maybe I really don't care about him. His mom passed away a month ago and we've been married a year. Our relationship is strong and happy - so what's going on?

2006-10-26 06:43:28 · 12 answers · asked by Rachel 7 in Marriage & Divorce

He still looks her up on the computer, never said anything nice about her while we were dating and all of a sudden she was the best thing that ever happened to him. I feel like i am in a marriage where i will never be good enough and we have only been married for 7 months. I just discovered letters and writtings describing his feeling and he wrote about how I was "ok" and she was just amazing. I have done so much more for him and supported him more than she ever did and yet, there is something about me that makes me not add up in his eyes. It is the most painfull thing I have ever felt.

2006-10-26 06:42:54 · 18 answers · asked by rb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can i get myself, my finances, everything together after my husband disappearing literally and divorcing me...and he started contacting me after the divorce, being raped, being in 2 bad relationships, not having really anybody except 1 parent to count on, being poor...yet im educated...attractive, NICE and am about to move to a new bigger city...i just feel totally lost and alone...and ps is everyone in the world mean and nasty...do i have to be that way to get anywhere...everyone just freakin walks all over me

2006-10-26 06:42:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is currently in hospital recuperating from the eye surgery..He loves to make his family and friends feel at ease, so he jokes all the time. It is also his way of dealing w/ the seriousness of the situation. I can't think of a single humorous line , let alone a joke..

2006-10-26 06:42:19 · 5 answers · asked by thewizard 1 in Friends

I just wanted to know. My friend has 2 kids from 2 different women, and he can't seem to get a date anymore. Should he not tell women that he has 2 kids from different mothers.

What do the women on this site feel about dating a guy with 2 kids.

2006-10-26 06:42:17 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the following scenarios:
1. Meeting Mom
2. Going out with you and your guy friends
3. To a sporting event
4. Out in the evening just the 2 of you

Just curious....

2006-10-26 06:41:58 · 18 answers · asked by Barbara 6 in Singles & Dating

I used to live with my husband until we separated. But we’re still seeing eachother and not living together. It’s a long story. If I decide to live with him again, my daughter’s going to take his side and tag team with him against me. Like when we were living together, and I tell my daughter it’s time to eat, her father encourages her to talk back at me, by saying, “Tell mommy that you’ll eat later because you’re playing a game with daddy.” Also, when I used to put my daughter to sleep, her father walked into her room, while I washed the dishes, and wake her up… during school nights. His excuse was that he went in to give her a goodnight’s kiss to tuck her in bed.
Fine but why not do it before I put her to sleep. He laugh and never answer my question. No matter how many times I tell them that it’s not funny and it hurts me not to be heard and respected, they say sorry and then they do it again. Sometimes he used to amuse himself by telling her to hit mommy on the butt, while I washed the dishes. It bothered me and I let them know that. He answered by saying, “Come on, we’re just playing.” Of coarse he laughed. But I don’t find it funny. Once a week I can handle it, but not everyday. There are certain things I put up with, but not the constant tease of humiliation and disobedience. I’m glad I’m free of him now…but I’m still having trouble controlling my daughter. Whenever I tell her, “Let’s do homework…it’s time to eat….Let’s get ready for a bath, sleep, etc.” She would say “No, I don’t want to. Don’t you see I’m busy playing with my toys…I’m too tired”. She also wishes we live with daddy again.

2006-10-26 06:41:30 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa2006 3 in Family

My ex wife and I agreed to a dollar amount for child support before we recieved paperwork from the court. The amount the court ordered was in my favor, but I kept with our agreement for the past 15 years and payed more. Now she wants to take me back to court for more money. What are my rights?

2006-10-26 06:40:47 · 4 answers · asked by bickleyscott 1 in Marriage & Divorce

should i trust or believe him?or break up with him?

2006-10-26 06:40:22 · 13 answers · asked by Luscious tj 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 06:40:20 · 13 answers · asked by losman762003 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 06:38:01 · 12 answers · asked by losman762003 1 in Singles & Dating

I just thought I should clarify that an ANNIVERSARY is annually... once a year.

So when you celebrate like your first month together... it's not called your ANNIVERSARY. Just call it like your MONTHIVERSARY. Then your second month together, it's called your 2-MONTHIVERSARY. Or just plain say "We celebrated our first month together." Just PLEASE don't call it your anniversary. You're fooling yourself and everyone else! LOL.

Ok, so I made that word up, but it's better than saying "I just celebrated my anniversary with my boyfriend." My friend said that and I was like, "Aww congratulations!" Later, I found out it was her 7-monthiversary.

I just thought I'd clarify that. Haha.

2006-10-26 06:37:32 · 7 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-26 06:37:32 · 22 answers · asked by losman762003 1 in Singles & Dating

have s_x with another women if no one would ever know.. Thats seem pretty hi. I think. What about you>

2006-10-26 06:37:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cant afford a diamond ring, but i heard that russian CZ is so good that you cant even tell the difference. does anyone own one or know of a good place to buy it? i know of ziamond.com

2006-10-26 06:37:02 · 4 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

i was 13 when we hooked up,3 weeks later,hes cheating,that went on 4 11 months,every 3or4 years,it happens,finally i screwed his boss,now 17 years,2 kids,10,000 heart aches here i am.im stupid

2006-10-26 06:36:54 · 8 answers · asked by pooh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there any adults in the room singles and dating? Some of the questions poppin up seem like its from a lot of teenagers...Maybe I am wrong but dang I dont see anything interesting and now that I am addicted to this spot I need something to feed off of...

2006-10-26 06:36:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all my life i havebeen afraid to sleep alone. i shared a room with my brother and after 18 i had my own room. even then i used to stay awake all night or sleep with lights on. sometimes my parents found me sleeping on the floor of thier bed. this was really embarressing. now i sleep with my hubby but when he is away i stay awake all night. i am scared that i might fall asleep and something or someone will kill me.i was so scared the other day that i called my parents at 3 at night and went to their place with my kids. this happened when my hubby was away. this is quite humilating cause i am 30 now. at day time i forget everything and not a bit scared.please help since my hubby has gone abroad for a week and i dont want to call my old mom.

2006-10-26 06:36:30 · 14 answers · asked by atahsina 5 in Family

2006-10-26 06:36:28 · 8 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

get over feeling like a fool?

2006-10-26 06:36:27 · 18 answers · asked by sneakyfker 3 in Singles & Dating

my marriage is in the gutter, not for lack of trying, I HAVE tried. For over 4 years now, and for awhile I just decided that was that and let it be but over the last year and a half (since the birth of my son) I have started to realize that my husband lack of effort is unacceptable. There is no excuse good enough to not be with your family. I have told him time and time again that he needs to be home more and you know what he did last night.. got his permit and license started to be our county's wildlife trapper (meaning he will be called out all times of the day & night to trap wild animals within city limits) This after I told him we needed him more. But then I get people in my life/on here saying that I cant quit, you didnt get married to quit etc.. but how long do I have to suffer, am I supposed to be this meek little wife sitting in the back waiting for him to notice me & his son? F that. I deserve better, his son deserves better. I set up counseling, we went, nothing changed

2006-10-26 06:35:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You can have one set. Choose.

Happy & healthy but poor.
Happy & rich but ill.
Healthy & rich but unhappy.

Money cannot buy your happiness or health. What do you choose?

2006-10-26 06:34:59 · 24 answers · asked by laneydoll 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my best friend are dating brothers and my boyfriend is always at my house and she gets mad at me because i don't have time for her and i hate that i don't have any time cuz i love her to death bc she's my best friend in the whole world.

2006-10-26 06:34:18 · 13 answers · asked by babygurl89 1 in Friends

Me(21) and my boyfriend(32) have been together for 8 months, we are in total love. I love him so much that I find myself thinking about him and daydreaming about him alll day everyday. Sometimes it disracts me from my work, but I can't help it. I miss him so much during the day. Even at night before I go to sleep just after seeing him, I think about him. I barely even think about anything else sometimes. IS THIS NORMAL? I'm not like obessesed or anything like I don't call him all the time, infact he is the one calling me all the time. I know he loves me cause he tells me he misses me so much and he misses falling a sleep with me in his arms (he recently moved in with his aunt, they're portuguese so lot's of rules) So what do u girls think??? Am I crazy, or just in love?

2006-10-26 06:33:58 · 15 answers · asked by . . * h o n e y * . . 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can you please help me find mine? His name is William L Wilson. Middle name Luis (i think that is how its spelled). He was born in Pittsburg PA on Jan. 5th 1963 (so hes 43). He served in the Air Force as an sp and may or may not still be in. I have had no contact w/ him since I was a newborn. Him and my mother were married, then divorced. I was born in Rinteln Germany in 1985. This is all the info my mom knows, no social or nothin. Can you help please or at least point me in the right direction? much love~

2006-10-26 06:33:56 · 3 answers · asked by SheDevil 2 in Family

2006-10-26 06:33:33 · 10 answers · asked by deeburzynski 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

1) wear a thong or G-string, (what do you prefer)?
2) go bra-less and wear a see thru shirt?
3) wear a short skirt and show off your legs?
4) wear a low cut blouse so to expose them?
5) give me your dress ethic!

2006-10-26 06:32:48 · 18 answers · asked by Bobby W 1 in Singles & Dating

i do damn everything everything i know even tried stuff i've seen on movies and she's actin all into it and i'm going on and on and on but she's just not like gettin there

2006-10-26 06:32:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

your partner want to lock you down as in do not want you to go anywhere, but he must go when and where he wants. What should I do?

2006-10-26 06:31:31 · 48 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

in this wet dark evening in Liverpool?

2006-10-26 06:30:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating