Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

I have known this girl for 5 years, and we dated a few times, but i have been in a relationship for 4 years. She is always hinting that she wants to date me if I wasn't in the relationship. Now I am single again, and we went out a few times. We had a great time and Kissed. Now she is saying she is dating another guy. I ask if I should give her space, but she wants to still see me. What should I do. I think i need to tell her how i feel next time I see her, maybe she is uncertain ? HELP !

2006-10-26 06:55:42 · 9 answers · asked by Richard J 2 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when a guy talks to his parents about you? (good things, of course). i've never met his parents (we aren't even going out) yet they know so much about me. our mutual friend went over to eat at his house, and his parents went on about me as if they've met me and know me. is this a normal thing for a guy to do?

2006-10-26 06:55:18 · 5 answers · asked by obvious 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex bf of 2 years has pulled his last stunt on me. I told him he had one more chance to **** up and he took it. So, now I have released him, but he still doesn't accept that I am through with him. I don't call him, I have not given out mixed signals. I just don't understand what he wants from me.....I've had enough for every woman!

2006-10-26 06:55:00 · 17 answers · asked by Lady T 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 06:54:22 · 14 answers · asked by baski 1 in Friends

Ok so last week was my b-day My then boyfriend took me out to a nice dinner bought me a nice present and wrapped it in paper he made on the computer of all of our pictures put into a collage. Sounds great right? Until yesterday when I get this email.
I'm sorry I haven't been around the phone too much, but... I've been doing a lot of thinking about us, as I do on the weekends it seems, and I think that we need to be apart. When I really analyze "us" it just seems like we both want different things. I've enjoyed our time together very much, but beyond....I can't really see us being together for a long period of time. I think that if we continued to see each other (going to concerts, etc.) it would further lead to feelings being hurt even more in the future. I'm soo sorry if I hurt you, but I feel it's for the best.

Okay guys - I really like this guy. Do I just leave it like this? Do I try to go to him and talk to him? I tried calling him yest. and went to voicemail Help

2006-10-26 06:53:31 · 32 answers · asked by T C 3 in Singles & Dating

I know its 5 months away but never to soon to start planning. I live in the pasadena area and I'm willing to drive almost anywhere. I was thinking a romantic night at a hotel, trip to catalina island, a night away from our 2 year old son. Any suggestions are welcome and helpful.

2006-10-26 06:53:23 · 7 answers · asked by brooksdunn05 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 06:53:21 · 12 answers · asked by mickey15 1 in Singles & Dating

i was suppose to get my period and i didnt but the last time i had sex was 2 or 3 days ago what does that sign mean

2006-10-26 06:52:33 · 17 answers · asked by Diamond 1 in Friends

2006-10-26 06:52:27 · 16 answers · asked by William C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 06:51:44 · 19 answers · asked by scouser 27 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok there is this guy that ive been talking to just as *friends* online & he keeps saying how he likes me so much...but i have a boyfriend...& everytime i say something to him...he always says "well if u & ur bf break up we will be together" & how he wishes he could be with someone...& this this & that......its REALLLY irritating but i am not a mean person & i cant just tell him to stop saying that stuff...what should i do??

2006-10-26 06:50:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I miss my ex-boyfriend. I miss his lips, I miss kissing him, I miss cuddling in his bed. But it never went further than that, we always kept our clothes on, cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. He was 24, lots of previous relationships while I'm 20 and he was my first boyfriend and first kiss. It was only a month, but felt longer cuz we saw each other a lot.
I guess he may have left due to lack of sex, but I'm still not 100% over him. But I don't get it cuz he liked how I was so pure and unique. Also, a lot of guys hit on me and some people even think I look like Angelina Jolie. so I don't get why he would rather be with a skank who puts out, than be with a pure, beautiful girl like me?
Why do you think he left? and yes, I have a good personality, he said I was the sweetest girl.
By the way, he still contacts me on msn sometimes 'just to say hi' but I don't see his point when he dumped me?

2006-10-26 06:50:43 · 16 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the difference exactly between calling myself Ms. or Miss?

2006-10-26 06:50:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-26 06:50:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am close to someone (now 22 y/o) who was raped and molested by her dad as a child. I know that this person is not alone and that other females in her immediate family were molested as well.
A couple of years ago, one of these women tried to come fwd to press charges, but found out that the statute of limitation was exceeded, so she couldn't do anything about it. However, it shedded light on it and 4 of her family members came fwd, claiming to have been through the same thing.
She has a younger sister and nieces and we have reason to believe that he has done it to these girls, too... not only that, but her own mom KNEW about it and did NOTHING to help (she actually walked in on several incidences).
I know this is a touchy subject, but she won't admit it to her very tight-knit family nor herself that this happened (or happened to the others). She continues a relationship w/ her dad and even encourages him to see her children. She talks about how much she "loves him."

2006-10-26 06:49:04 · 12 answers · asked by Nicky G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was on my way home from work and I saw my best friend husband leaving the hotel with a Girl from my neighborhood. They shared a hug and a kiss and when they separate ways. what would you do tell of leave it alone

2006-10-26 06:48:36 · 21 answers · asked by bETtEr ThINg 2 CoMe 1 in Friends

Say that you get to know this girl over the phone/nt and you really get along.You schedule to meet her;you agree that she will be wearing a red shirt.so you walk in to the restaurant and you see two girls over with a red shirt over at the area where she said she would be.one look like jessica simpson the other looks like tha charater ugly betty.which do you go to first?

Then same thing happened as before but his time you see that the jessica s. is with someone, but he was in the bathroom or something and just sat back down with her would you go with the ugly betty type girl?

Remember that you already liked talking with her and got along just fine.

2006-10-26 06:48:22 · 14 answers · asked by Me 6 in Singles & Dating

An outdoor party is planned for this weekend. Now it might rain !! There is no way to move everything inside. Suggestions for a way the party (for adults) can continue (at as little cost as possible) Real answers please.

2006-10-26 06:48:19 · 3 answers · asked by trishopesisters 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

being realistic in your answers and opinions, what makes a good marriage? whats makes it stronger?

2006-10-26 06:47:50 · 40 answers · asked by english_latina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a MAIL ORDER BRIDE to provide all of your wishes. My Mail Order Bride is from Spain and she cooks, cleans & provides all of my sexual fantasies. We have been happliy marred for 2 years and she does everything I tell her to do. MY FRIENDS ARE SO JEALOUS!!! Pretty Good for a FAT, LAZY GUY LIKE ME THAT WORKS AT MCDONALDS. I AM LOVING LIFE.

2006-10-26 06:47:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hurt a girl a long time ago and I still love her. I made a big mistake by breaking up with her. I want to win her heart back, but she has a bf for 5 years now. I really want to show her that I'm sorry and that I'm not the same person anymore. I was wrong and immature back then. I don't know anything else to tell her. I love her with all my heart and we have been friends for the longest. I've always been by her side in anything she does. I really need help. Please tell me what to do.

2006-10-26 06:47:11 · 29 answers · asked by Brandon S 3 in Singles & Dating

to better sex/being a husband an a better father

2006-10-26 06:46:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I believe the date July 7 2007 is a nice day to get married but i cant seem to get my boyfriend to propose. What shoul i do.

2006-10-26 06:46:13 · 39 answers · asked by needanswers 3 in Weddings

my really great guy friend is married and though i like his wife he is constantly telling me that during their 15 years of marriage she has had numerous affairs - -he is no angel himself -- they have two kids

the problem is he just returned home from Iraq he is an officer in the military and the entire time he has been gone she has been seeing another man also an officer in the military (who I might had she was seeing years ago he just happened to move to the same place right before her husband left)

she is acting as if nothing happened even though i know she talks to this guy all the time who is also married but his wife lives in another city/state for now -- and she (my friend) is still finding time to meet up with and have sex with this man whom she says she cares about but has no intentions of leaving her husband

she says she is going to end it with this guy but i don't believe her i feel caught in the middle

2006-10-26 06:46:02 · 15 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What are the good things about turning 18?;)

2006-10-26 06:45:59 · 12 answers · asked by I like Your hairspray 1 in Friends

My girlfriend told me that she's a sucker for flowers, and I've given her flowers at least once every month. I was wondering, as a girl, if you were to get flowers at least once every month, does it reach a point where you're just numb to it or does it make you happy every time you get them? I want to show her that I care, but wonder if it gets old after a while or if it never can get old. What's your take?

2006-10-26 06:45:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im starting to fall for this guy who's my friend. we belong to the same circle of friends so we do see each other when there are gatherings. He does like me too but only shy to confess his feelings (heard from a friend he said he's scared to break our friendship if we become lovers) Also, last month his dad phoned him to say that he's already got a kid back from our country(we're both foreigners working in London) and it was a result of one night stand he had 4 years back - thing he never knew until last month. The other woman is now a lawyer back home and she does not intend to chase for my friend for any support or anything - she just wanted my friend to know. Im really falling for this guy but it scares me to love him even more because of the fact that I'm scared one day this will cause troubles to me and perhaps to our future kids. Im trying to get rid of him from my mind and my heart. Do you think this is correct? Anyone from the same situation? How is it marrying a guy like this?

2006-10-26 06:44:56 · 9 answers · asked by alet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I noticed that when a woman has a problem with her man, everyone's answer is "dump him" ... like come on.. is that the best suggestion anyone can give these women who might be seeking a more meaningful answer... obviously something is bothering her don't give her some BS answer to just dump her man.. advice is better then that ...

2006-10-26 06:44:12 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

let us say hypothetically we were in a relationship and that you said you wanted to fulfill my biggest fantasy and i said it has to do with you another girl m dna on your faces and you two making out with my dna on your faces would you do it? or would you throw me out?

2006-10-26 06:44:05 · 13 answers · asked by satans son 1 in Singles & Dating

I know what I think it is but I want to know what you all think

2006-10-26 06:44:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating