Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

me and my boyfriend are arguing more than usual. He gets mad at something I say and then he tells me that I am getting on his nerves and that I am getting annoying and all this things. I understand that i could be annoying at moments because i like to play around alot. but the problem is that he says he's getting tired of me. and i am really not doin anything to make it better. Sometimes i feel that being single is the best for me right now. But me and him share things. We both get along with each others parents and we do nothing else but be together the whole weekend. I want to work things out and I want to fall in Love all over again because really i am loosin love for him. But i want to make it work so bad!!

2006-10-26 07:30:29 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

39 year old husband having affair with 22 year old for three months. they are sexual and seem addicted to each other. we have four children under the age of 4. husband is not seeking divorce, I am because he will not end it with her and try to work on us. however, he states he wants to just separate because in the future he knows his affair/relationship will fail and he wants me there to pick up the pieces. I think he is just covereing all his bases so he will never have to truly be alone. he is narcissistic and has ADD and is enjoying his "freedom and spontaniety" and of course sex with his new relationship. One of the reasons he states he left me was because when I became a mother and my body changed he couldn't be intimate with me the same anymore..he claims he respected me too much as a mother and couldn't see me intimately as his wife. BTW, I am 5'8" 130 lbs. Our son was 6 months old when he started this affair, but they have worked together for a year.

2006-10-26 07:29:41 · 25 answers · asked by almostover 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 07:29:38 · 6 answers · asked by queen 1 in Singles & Dating

okay this guy started flirting with me! so when i decide to reciprocate he still flirts. the last question i posted concentrated on my fault...what about him? he started all of this by winking at me. i know the pics would be wrong now, so what to do about the situation? btw..the answer about income and bill paying was the best one!

2006-10-26 07:29:21 · 3 answers · asked by hotmominpa2 1 in Singles & Dating

his name is junior he used to live in madera then he moved to texasever since he was at madera he and i wanted to talk i have two brothers and a dad who are jealous when men aprouch me or my sisters my dad says i cant have a boysriend until im 21 !! anyways junior would come on and off from texas to fresno just to come and see me but i never met him he has met me by pictures he came about six times 2 c me but im not allowed to go out and i cant sneek out my room windows are cheap so they dont open no more.yeah so i gave him my number to call me instead but he insisted on seeing mein person he said he wanted 2 get 2 know me face 2 face i loved that but in texas there was in evacution about a hurricane so he moved to los angeles even closer he came three more times but nothing i told my cuzin 2 tell him 2 call me he told me that he has my number and he always asked for me. but then he stopped coming he only calls my cuzin once every2months i have more freesdom and i want 2 conatact him

2006-10-26 07:29:05 · 6 answers · asked by Lia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend took me out for dinner on my birthday but did not buy me a present. Is this wrong? I've seen him buy presents for other people...

2006-10-26 07:28:49 · 10 answers · asked by DayTripper 2 in Singles & Dating

has anyone ever been "just friends" with a guy u sorta liked but not that interested n then later as u got to know him , started to fall in love wit him. caus i am in that situation n wanna c if maybe in the future it could be possible. if u have , plz share the story,

2006-10-26 07:28:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 07:28:05 · 7 answers · asked by Ash 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

But still keep it a secret from my wife and my fiance too?

2006-10-26 07:28:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 07:27:59 · 9 answers · asked by Barbara 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 07:26:42 · 4 answers · asked by Jill H 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Renting here has gotten high in $'s, I work 40hrs a week and am currently looking for a second job just to be able to keep my head out of the water, sorta speak. Is anyone else going through the same thing? Does anyone else think like me, that we should be able to work one job and be able to live comfortably with all the money circulating throughout the states here in the US? Just wondering.

2006-10-26 07:26:06 · 7 answers · asked by shy&gental 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I borrowed my friends computer last night and he had left his messenger up. There was a window that showed he was cybering with some girl. I read it all and it was some kind of fantasy roleplay where he was this girls older neighbor and....well you can only imagine....I've heard of it before but never done it. He has a gorgeous girlfriend so I know he isn't lonely....Can anyone else relate? Have you done it or tried it?

2006-10-26 07:25:59 · 18 answers · asked by tightlies 3 in Singles & Dating

For instance I told her I was going somewhere I was going a place I go every year kind of a tradition (a place she has never been) and she deliberately went there before me and took pictures of herself at the place and posted them on myspace? Should it bother me?

2006-10-26 07:25:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

anybody esle wish they could do there wedding day all over again? thanks so much

2006-10-26 07:25:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is this normal girl behavior or what ?she wont stop .i ve asked and nothing

2006-10-26 07:24:55 · 34 answers · asked by PETE 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting married a lot lately but he wants to get married in las vegas and I want a traditional wedding with everyone there. I told him a las vegas wedding would be fine, thinking it would make it easier, but I am going back and wanting a real wedding? any advice

2006-10-26 07:24:52 · 21 answers · asked by lil_critter33 2 in Weddings

that you did something more interesting than me at lunch today?

2006-10-26 07:23:24 · 10 answers · asked by marie 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 07:23:02 · 6 answers · asked by Tiffany P 1 in Friends

I am single, 26 and have a three year old daughter. Her mother and I sepperated a while ago and I am getting to the point where I want to date again. It has been almost 5 years since I dated anyone and just want a little advice.
Where and when is it OK to approach a woman, and when is it not? What are some good tips on hittign on a woman without using the ever popular "lines"?
Any advice will b appreciated.

2006-10-26 07:22:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Fiancee surprised me and my son w/an aquarium with turtles and goldfish. I've never owned pets but I always wanted pet fish or tiny turtles. I never bought them cause I don't have time to care for them. He thought it would be sweet to get them 4 me and spent tons of money. I appreciate the sentiment and told him so. I love him a great deal and was floored by this expression of love. Well, a few days later, I found myself without the desire to care for the turtles. I was beside myself--the turtles ATE the goldfish, the tank was stinking up my apartment and I had no idea how to care for turtles, wash the tank, change the water, feed them. I got no instruction and when I asked him 4 help, he told me to call a pet store or look on the net. I really did not want them 2 die in my care and knew they would die. Smell was unbearable & I asked him nicely to come retrieve them cause I couldn't care 4 them, which pissed him off. He got them, but has not spoken 2 me since, what do i do?

2006-10-26 07:21:49 · 17 answers · asked by lawyergurrl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 07:21:37 · 9 answers · asked by scottyirish 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

14 yr old stundent who killed her honor stundent boyfriend david with a knife the took knife to school

2006-10-26 07:21:02 · 1 answers · asked by frinkyjojo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

does the length of the chase matter?how can you tell if a guy is really interested in you rather than the chase?if the chase has been going on for a while is that a good sign that hes interested in you?

2006-10-26 07:20:39 · 10 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my fiancee and he loves me but i keep getting this feeling he still loves his ex.. Sometimes i feel he is comparing us when we talk about something he seems to bring up her name in the conversation and that makes me upset and i've told him about this and he stil doesn't get it i asked him n he said no he doesn't love her he doesn't even want to see her, but i found osme of their old pics on his computer when i went to look for a pic of our baby to email.. maybe i am paranoid, or wedding day jitters, let me know your input..

2006-10-26 07:20:11 · 24 answers · asked by hnyangelfire101 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 07:19:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is because yesterday i called him and he told me that he thinks it was better off as friends and I asked him so u want to break up? And he said NO that Im taking things the wrong way so I want 2 know what does that mean?

2006-10-26 07:19:34 · 15 answers · asked by Jacqueline S 1 in Singles & Dating

do not anser dis question if ur gona say grow up,dont stoop to her level etc..anyways mo frend said nasty and did nasty thngs to my best frend and i, i cant let it go so any revenge tips/stories as lpong as ya want.lol,x

2006-10-26 07:18:32 · 7 answers · asked by gina l 1 in Friends

My wife has been secretly texting her ex boyfriend. and when I asked her about it she told me that she loves me and would never do something like that. last night I lent her my phone and found a sent msg saying that she was sending pictures of herself to him.

I asked her and she admitted that she has been hiding it from me and said she was really sorry. its not the 1st time she has lied about this particular guy, its the 3rd time.

I find it hard to trust her and dont know if I can again.
can relationships survive without trust and should I believe
her she said she won't do it again.

2006-10-26 07:18:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so some people told me some things about my boyfriend and i yelled at him about it!Bt then he emailed me back and i think he dumped me!And i really dont want him 2 leave me i love him so much hwat should i do?

2006-10-26 07:18:12 · 7 answers · asked by i love Amanda kendall 2 in Singles & Dating