I borrowed my friends computer last night and he had left his messenger up. There was a window that showed he was cybering with some girl. I read it all and it was some kind of fantasy roleplay where he was this girls older neighbor and....well you can only imagine....I've heard of it before but never done it. He has a gorgeous girlfriend so I know he isn't lonely....Can anyone else relate? Have you done it or tried it?
2006-10-26 07:25:59 · 18 answers · asked by tightlies 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a friend huh? ssssuuuuurrrreeee.....
nope never done it.
2006-10-26 07:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by Bistro 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with roleplaying if both members are consentual adults and comfortable with the things going on.
Role playing is just another way of expressing your sexuality, and some people are more interested in it then others.
As for the it wasn't his girlfriend part, that's another story, but we have no reason to think that she isn't aware of it and alright with it, so it's really more his business than anyone elses.
2006-10-26 14:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Role playing within a relationship between consenting adults is perfectly healthy. Outside a relationship would still be called infidelity. Bet the girlfriend would not be too happy about this.
Tried it? Yeah, why not - it puts some spice in your relationship.
I hope your buddy is really talking to a girl, instead of some big hairy guy named Bubba in prison somewhere...
2006-10-26 14:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by zdrgnslyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've tried the roleplaying thing and found it didn't do a thing for me. Actually, after I've said something during the role play, sometimes I laugh 'cause I can't think what to say and what I've said sounds so goofy.
2006-10-26 14:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure when I was in College I would talk to people online all the time and role play with them.....I think it is cheating if you have someone....it called Cyber sex.
2006-10-26 14:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE NEVER DONE IT ON THE COMPUTER, BUT IN REALITY, ITS NOT ABOUT BEING LONELY ITS SAFE NAUGHTY FUN. HE WILL ONLY BE CHEATING IF HE MEETS THIS GIRL!! A ROLEPLAY IN REAL LIFE WITH SOMEONE YOUR WITH AND FANCIE IS FABBBBBB XX
2006-10-26 14:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by RUBY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I can relate alright - had the same exact thing happen to me. That dirty rotten SOB! I get the feeling you may be interested in trying this too, take my advice - don't do it dude. It can ruin ur life!
2006-10-26 14:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by hottie4trina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different strokes for different fokes! Sometimes you just need to have some fun and mess around. It isn't anything serious!
2006-10-26 14:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Nkeadle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there....it's just the fantasy of it. Just like you said...
it's so easy over the internet because there is no commitment.
You can easily become whoever you want to be, and not be held accountable.
It's fun...that's all there is to it.
2006-10-26 14:28:16 · answer #9 · answered by Flower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooo ...not for me that nonsense , imagine that , chatting with a complete stranger knowing he was beating his meat ..ewww
2006-10-26 14:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it....My husband doesn't show me enough attention in that area...so you rather do it online then in person..It doesn't matter how gorgeous his girlfriend is maybe she lacks in the room...
2006-10-26 14:29:19 · answer #11 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋