girls...have u ever??

Question

has anyone ever been "just friends" with a guy u sorta liked but not that interested n then later as u got to know him , started to fall in love wit him. caus i am in that situation n wanna c if maybe in the future it could be possible. if u have , plz share the story,

Answer 1

I have. I met this guy at work and he was really sweet. He didnt really have much family and we became friends. We took my cousin trick or treating together, and i would invite him over and cook, or we would just hang out on the weekends and watch movies. I starting thinking of him as more than a friend a few months later. We each bought each other a movie for christmas and had popcorn and watched them. It was cold outside, and warm inside. We were sitting on the couch sharing a blanket and ended up kissing, and ended up together. It can happen! we are no longer together though. I think he had some psychological problems, he started talking about being able to walk on water and other really weird stuff so i couldnt let myself see him anymore (and he no longer worked where i did). But still...look for signs from this guy you like. if you think he might like you back but may be afraid that you might not feel the same way, or afraid to mess up your friendship he might not want to make the first move. And touch him arm....i saw a survey about what men think is sexiest about a woman. And the number 1 thing was the way she touches him (just touch his arm when reaching for something or pretent he has lint on his shirt and pick it off, touching his neck barely when you do it). Maybe he will get the clue then and even make the first move (although technically YOU did). Good luck with him!

Answer 2

Yes, I have been in that situation before. We started off just as friends hanging out every now and then. And the time spent together became more frequent. By the time you new it I had fallen for him. I didn't know if he was feeling the same or he really just seen me as a friend. I hesitated to come around him for a while becase I thought if I told him how I was feeling I would scare him off. So, one day I got the courage to tell him and what do you know he actually was also interested but, thought the same thing. So, my advice is evaluate your situation and really look deep in yourself and see if you really want to take this step and be more than friends.......GOOD LUCK! And always remember "IF IT IS MEANT TO BE, THEN IT WILL BE" even if its later than sooner ;)

Answer 3

well i was friends with a guy for almost 8 years and we always had something for each other - either i liked him or he liked me but never at the same time. Ill tell you something - yes its possible. if he seems into you as well, make a move, talk to him.. if you are not sure wait and see, u never know.. sometimes life surprises you when you least expect it.. don't expect too much from it - but hey if it IS meant to be u guys will be together. u know what they say - friends, make the best lovers.
Good luck hunnie

Answer 4

yes i have. OK so it was like this: i had this guy friend who i though was really cute but didn't think anything of it because he we were such good Friends so i never though of him like that. But then a few months past by and i started to grow feelings for him. at first i got scared because he was the best guy friend i ever had i didn't want to feel this way because i didn't want to loose him as a friend. but then i just decided to take a chance and tell him how i felt, and i got a positive result. it turned out that he liked me too. but of course after being together for awhile we both realize that we were better of as Friends, and surprisingly we stood as good Friends nothing had change just the fact that we knew how we both kiss. OK so I'm not sure how close you are to your Friend and I'm not sure if he likes you, but ill i could tell you is take a chance and tell him how you feel<3

Answer 5

I have sorta been in that situation. But from my experiance it doesn't work. You two know way to much about each other, so everythings already laid out there. You know his fault and history as he does yours. Do you value your friendship, cause if you do I wouldn't try it.

Answer 6

I have girl and right now it is still going on for us. If he has given you indication that he is feeling you, then let him know that you really want him to feel you, get what I'm saying. Let him know that you like him and see where he takes it. Don't give him everything all at once slowly work to it all. Good Luck.

Answer 7

Yea sure. Just remember one word "communication". Tell em gurl. Life is too short. Good luck. And stay positive.

Answer 8

yes im in that situation right now hon and i tell you what just go for it if he is sending you signs that tells you that he mite be head over heels in luv with you to tell him how you feel. good luck!

Answer 9

yeah, 4 sure

Answer 10

yea