I am single, 26 and have a three year old daughter. Her mother and I sepperated a while ago and I am getting to the point where I want to date again. It has been almost 5 years since I dated anyone and just want a little advice.
Where and when is it OK to approach a woman, and when is it not? What are some good tips on hittign on a woman without using the ever popular "lines"?
Any advice will b appreciated.
2006-10-26 07:22:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how about this you can approach a woman pretty much at any time as long as you dont use a line.
2006-10-26 07:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by spooner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of women you want to attract. Seeing is how you are a single father, you must be a responsible man wanting to find a respectable woman. I would not recommended you look for this woman in a bar or a scene like that. I have found that it is helpful to hang out with friends who have single friends. This was you can learn a little about the woman before talking to her & know what kind of friends she attracts.Friends tell a lot about someones personality whether it's realized or not. Another idea(if you're into this, if not I apologize!) is to join a church group, like a bible study. BE YOURSELF!!! :)
2006-10-26 07:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one really good suggestion: go to the book store.
Seriously. If a girl is there by herself, she's probably single and bored. You can start a conversation by what she's looking at. Ask her if she's a big fan of whatever book she's looking at. Have a book in your hand that says something about you. If there is a coffee shop in the bookstore, well, you can have your first date right there. If not, you can offer to buy her book and give her your number.
This is a good place because there are a lot of single girls there, they are decent, intelligent single girls, and it's easy to start a conversation.
It is okay to approach a woman if she is alone, or away from a group of friends she is with, looks at you, and is happy.
2006-10-26 07:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by KeM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always approach a woman, just be nice and be your self! And don't approach any woman in a dark alley otherwise it is NOT appropriate! Make any kind of small talk, no lines. Try a dating site, that has worked really well for several people that I know. Good luck!
2006-10-26 07:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It dumbfounds me why guys ask girls how to date! Don't you realize that they are only going to tell you how to make it easier for them!
Here is some real advice! Have a no lose attitude. If you see a girl you want to talk to or ask out, just go strike a conversation and think to yourself it doesn't matter if I get her number or not...I can't lose. don't focus on the result...focus on learning about her. Try to answer this question (to yourself) when you meet someone. What motivates them to do what they do? To find that out you have to really get to know them and in the process you will be the guy that cares about 'who' she is....which is what they really want!
Don't interview her...get to know her!
2006-10-26 07:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with learning how to spell. That's a great place to start. Women like to think that they are getting an educated man, or at least one that can carry on a conversation.
Once you've gotten that down, take it slow and be yourself. I'm sure you have some redeeming qualities that someone will like.
2006-10-26 07:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're on the right track with avoiding "lines." Just be yourself, be friendly, strike up a conversation. Be nice and respectful. And don't underestimate yourself. You seem nice; I'm sure you'll do fine :)
2006-10-26 07:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sooo... married at 21 daughter at 23... and who will be watching the little darling while you are out trying to seduce someone?
where will you go when you hook up with someone? home? with your child in the next room? where?
once you have all of that figured out then you just need to go out and have fun.... someone will come around. the more you do the things you like and have fun doing them then the more chance you have at attracting someone.
If however you just want to hook up.. just wait around until closing time and then just ask someone if they would like to hook up. Pretty simple!
2006-10-26 07:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first get yourself back out there. If you see someone who catches your eye and they are not involved with someone (talking quietly, etc.) just approach them and say hello. Simple as that. Tell them that they caught your eye and you wanted to meet them and say hello..
2006-10-26 07:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing is just be you and go with the flow, don't try to be something you aren't or say things you no you really don't say or do. You will find love again.
2006-10-26 07:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋