his name is junior he used to live in madera then he moved to texasever since he was at madera he and i wanted to talk i have two brothers and a dad who are jealous when men aprouch me or my sisters my dad says i cant have a boysriend until im 21 !! anyways junior would come on and off from texas to fresno just to come and see me but i never met him he has met me by pictures he came about six times 2 c me but im not allowed to go out and i cant sneek out my room windows are cheap so they dont open no more.yeah so i gave him my number to call me instead but he insisted on seeing mein person he said he wanted 2 get 2 know me face 2 face i loved that but in texas there was in evacution about a hurricane so he moved to los angeles even closer he came three more times but nothing i told my cuzin 2 tell him 2 call me he told me that he has my number and he always asked for me. but then he stopped coming he only calls my cuzin once every2months i have more freesdom and i want 2 conatact him
2006-10-26 07:29:05 · 6 answers · asked by Lia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my bad ill give more detail his name is junior his 18 yrs like me. i never gave him pitures he saw them at my aunts house which her son is my cuzin and juniors friend anywho i posed an ugly way he wanted 2 meet me way before that but never had the guts to ask my cuzin about me. anyways there was a party at my housr i mean litterally we have a ranch and about 300-400 people come so theyres no way i would of noticed him he said he told my cuzin he asked me to dance but i didn't notice him i have to attend everyone and plus i didn't knowhe was going to come.? I know some what about him his only into long relationships like me . And he has older brothers and one sister and ect. in his last relationship he lasted about a year me i lasted 3 yrs. but i mant 2 meet him b cuz i dont want to stay with the thought it could of worked out if i would of tried harder . i go to college now and i have more freedom and i know i could have a chance if not as a relationship as friends.
2006-10-27 07:46:53 · update #1
contact him he might have gotten mad since u didnt see him but he might have moved on.
2006-10-26 07:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you do something? The guy wasted several trips trying to see you and you would not do something about it. A man can only do this kind of thing for so long. I know you think it is not your fault, but you could have at least sent him a message saying to stop trying to visit because there is no way I can get out the house (which I find hard to believe). He probably does not believe you either. He probably thinks that you were just messing with his feelings by allowing him to visit, and then not doing nothing to see him. He probably thought that you were not interested enough in him to make an effort to see him when he visited.
2006-10-26 14:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by jasonheavilin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw a red flag about this guy in your post. "He insisted on seeing me in person, he said he wanted 2 get 2 know me face 2 face."
He said that when you gave him your number and asked him to call you. If his intentions with you were honorable, and honest, he would have understood about not getting to meet you, he would have called you as you requested him to. If you thought that if he called that you wouldn't have been allowed to speak with him, I doubt you would have given him your number seeing there was no since in it. But, you obviously knew you could so you did give him your number. This man is coming off as NO GOOD to me. He wants one thing from you and one thing only. Sex. You don't need some guy in your life that is only out for that and then has no intentions of really getting to know you. You never say how old he is, but with all the traveling he does, I would say he is older then 20. This is not a good situation and you would be doing yourself a favor forgetting all about this guy, and finding other young men to date. You have to be careful meeting men on the internet. You have good guys that get on here, but you also get petafilers and rapists and abusive men too. You are young and precious. I am glad you have your father and your two brothers to protect you. They are not jealous honey when guys approach you. They are being protective, and with good reason. They love you and your sisters and they want to see you all with GOOD men, not evil, using, abusing, hurtful men. Be proud and happy that the men in your family love you so much and want to keep you protected as long as they can. Please, stop contacting this guy, Junior. He really sounds like he up to NO good. He could hurt you badly. Blessed be.................................
2006-10-26 14:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't even seen this guy face to face. Just because you sent him pictures of yourself, how do you know he thinks that is really you when he hasn't ever seen you. This is a waste of time and you sure shouldn't even try to sneak out of your room window. Remember you never met this man face to face and you probably don't know to much about him. You need to let this person go and stop wasting your time. You cant be with someone you never seen, he don't even know how you look just off of some pictures. Give yourself time you will be able to date. You have a long life adhead of you sweetie.
2006-10-26 14:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people need something real. Pics and phone can't really make the connection if there ever was going to be one.
2006-10-26 14:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a bj that will cure all!
2006-10-26 14:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by johnnynutzsc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋