Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

I have responded to my exboyfriend msg, i didnt tell my husband about it, even when he asked i denied and told him i love him and i never would do it to him.He found out and he is very upset. I know he has right to feel cheated and hurt, becuse it was not the first time i did it.
I am very sorry about it. The possibility of losing him over it made me realize how much i love him and how stupid i was to jeorpadize our relationship. I know its hard for him to trust me again. But i dont want to lose him. He means world to me. How can i make it better?

2006-10-26 07:44:16 · 30 answers · asked by zu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and i talk about marriage all the time so we know its happening, but its been 2.5 years and he hasnt proposed yet... what in the world is he waiting for?????

2006-10-26 07:43:57 · 17 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

I just recently had plastic surgery and it made a huge difference. I also purchased new clothing and began applying makeup to look more attractive. My question is Do you guys think it's possible to change a first impression? Like say someone thought you were unattractive but now you are attractive, Do you think those past thoughts are ingrained in their minds or when people see someone that is attractive they knew before they forget about what they use to think of them?

2006-10-26 07:43:41 · 3 answers · asked by DianeDiane 2 in Singles & Dating

not even a minute more like 40secs lol

2006-10-26 07:43:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering and did you scare the delivery guy when you did so…not like I have done this…more then once…
http://www.myspace.com/juleette

2006-10-26 07:43:14 · 3 answers · asked by Juleette 6 in Singles & Dating

a daughter is writing an insight resume for a college application and tells a story how she was beaten by a boyfriend, and how her mother thought it was a blood disease, and how she told no one- and didnt tell her mother till two years later. However she emailed it to family friends, and the director of her play which is also one of the mother's co-workers. Does the mother have the right to say her daughter crossed the lines?
Lets through another bit of information, the mother doesnt like her pictures taken, and doesnt allow her daughter to write anything bad about her, but the daughter has heard the "they arent your friends they are my friends" over and over again, and should know better. Who is in the right, and who is in the wrong?...who actually, is the bitchy one?

2006-10-26 07:43:04 · 3 answers · asked by Aria 2 in Family

the guy i use to flirt with a lot, broke up with his girlfriend. should i move in and help him move on?

2006-10-26 07:42:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My children 10 and 8 are intelligent kids but their grades are slipping. I've tried punishments and taking away priviledges. not working. any suggesstions on how to raise grades in a happy way?

2006-10-26 07:42:29 · 17 answers · asked by lisaj 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay so my boyfriend just broke up wih me and wants to be friends to get to know eachother better and maybe something could happen later and he said hes starting to like a girl who likes him back.. this is the email he sent me.........Do you think anything will happen between us again?? I love him soooooo much and it kills me knowing that he likes someone else now.

THIS IS THE EMAIL:::

okay this is going to make me seem like an @ss and prove people right. ugh i hate this...two things. first of all we rushed into this. i think we should be friends for now and possibly go out sometime later. the other is that there is someone else who i've liked for a while now(since before I met you) and i think i'm really starting to like her...and i know she likes me...and im really ******* sorry and would have preferred to of done this in person...i want to be
friends though and get to know you better. maybe in a while something'll happen

2006-10-26 07:42:23 · 18 answers · asked by Kelsey's Mommy<3 4 in Singles & Dating

What is a good boyfriend like? & what is a first kiss like

2006-10-26 07:42:05 · 5 answers · asked by babygirlwentpreppy 1 in Singles & Dating

have you noticed that many parents literally force their kids to do the things they weren't allowed to? it's so wrong! first you're not letting your child have their own life and have their own dreams/goals..they are doing your stuff! like balet, singing, violen lessons, sat prepp, and sometimes i notice that the child takes courses that parents want him to take.."no you can't take art..take literature instead". i'm not saying that everyone's like that but don't you think i'ts wrong? ya i'm not a parent all right but i know pretty darn well what a child needs..hmm lemmi think...may be it's because...I'M STILL IN HIGH SCHOOL..

2006-10-26 07:41:25 · 10 answers · asked by togamadness 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a 20 y/o college student who's never dated and has very little friends. I am very shy and have Social Anxiety. I want to start dating but I honestly have NO idea how to.
So I have a few questions......
Should I know a girl well before I ask her out?
What does one do on a date?
How do I ask out a girl?

I must have a missing instinct or something because it seems like everyone else already knows this kind of stuff.
Any other advice is welcome.

2006-10-26 07:41:15 · 3 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 07:40:49 · 7 answers · asked by Ω Nookey™ 7 in Singles & Dating

My ex just told me he is completely through with me and it hurts like a muthafucka. Im hurting on the inside but I don't know why. What to do? It hurts ya know? I told him how I felt and he just left. Im so mad. I feel like doing something stupid.

2006-10-26 07:40:35 · 6 answers · asked by PrInCeSs P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I hit a milemarker on Sunday,it was a year since we met. I made a big deal of it,and it seemed as though he forgot. He told me that he didn't forget, he planned the whole night before to buy me flowers and do something special, but said he found it hard hard for himself to express how he feels bc he has never been in a serious relationship, and he doesn't know what to do. Then last night, he tells me he doesn't know how he feels, he wants to be with me, but he doesn't want to hurt me down the rode. Then I had to explain to him I have no interest in getting married any time soon. An hour later, he calls me and everything is fine... as if he didn't even has the conversation with me about questioning his feelings and being unsure of being with me. How do I approach the situation with him so I can help ease him being overwhelmed about being in a relationship? I know that I need to give him space to think... but how much space is too much before he gives up?

2006-10-26 07:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by Amina Z 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I go about commiting my mother,she is really very mentally sick but shes the only one who dosent know it!What should I do to get her screened?

2006-10-26 07:39:51 · 8 answers · asked by Erica B 3 in Family

This person moved away and I don't know where they are... I want to tell them how I feel but I have no clue how. But the biggest issue is... I'm not a virgin, and I don't know how to tell them I'm not or how they will take it.

2006-10-26 07:39:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What other factors might be as important or more important?

2006-10-26 07:38:53 · 9 answers · asked by ragged 3 in Marriage & Divorce

to what extent is fatherly love acceptable to girls

2006-10-26 07:38:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I would like something with more fidelity than the martin-h one.

2006-10-26 07:37:15 · 1 answers · asked by Divorceguy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

in need of more adult q+a

2006-10-26 07:37:03 · 15 answers · asked by ladybird 3 in Family

i complain i cant get it down

2006-10-26 07:36:51 · 9 answers · asked by PETE 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 07:36:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 07:35:44 · 18 answers · asked by Thumper 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-26 07:35:23 · 8 answers · asked by brownskin 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you no if a guy really likes you? can a guy really love two girls @ the same time? although i no that he have to love one more than the other no matter what feelings he may have but i was just wondering? is it possible?

2006-10-26 07:34:05 · 9 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

No smart *** answers! I want everyone to explain to me, honestly, why Sushi is a big deal to people (especially to girls) here in So Cal, and why is it "trendy" to eat it, in general, and on a date? Is this another stupid FAD set by the dumb a**es in Hollywood? Personally, I like Asian food, but I hate Sushi. It's nasty. What is the deal with it?

2006-10-26 07:33:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 07:32:58 · 22 answers · asked by evy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My son and his girlfriend just bought a house, they are having a party in 2 weeks... What would be an appropriate gift from sons parents??????

2006-10-26 07:32:13 · 7 answers · asked by MKM 3 in Family

I stay fit and thin and always dress nice and look good, but my husband is always saying things like, "You better not get big," and "I'm glad you don't leave the house in sweats" and things like that. If I don't feel like going to the gym, he says if I should go anyway or I'll get fat. He was not like this before we got married, and I don't know how to handle it. He is afraid I'm going to let myself go since his brother's wife gained a ton of weight after getting married and so did his best friend's wife. It is making me self-conscious like I'm not "hot" enough for him anymore. He's starting to make me feel like a trophy wife and I don't get where this behavior is coming from. He used to tell me I looked beautiful no matter what, now he's paranoid or something. I don't know how to handle it. In addition, I'm a recovering anorexic and I can see myself slipping back into my old habits because he's always so focused on me staying thin.

2006-10-26 07:31:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce