to what extent is fatherly love acceptable to girls
2006-10-26 07:38:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
there's no extent to fatherly love....he can love hug kiss cuddle and be with them any time, and as much as you want my ex loves his girls so much that he calls them at least 4/5 times a day, he is always spending time with them , he hugs kisses and cuddles them all the time, his girls are all in their 20's, he would be lost without them, there's no limit to fatherly love, love them with all your heart and let them know it
2006-10-26 08:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Fatherly Love is an unconditional Love, not a manipulative, sexual or inappropriate relationship.
A father should hug his child often, kiss them on the cheek, forehead or head or a quick peck on the lips. Nothing beyond that.
A father should tell them often that he loves them, support them in their endeavors and guide them in their growing years.
A father should tell a daughter she is beautiful or pretty and compliment her on the way she dresses but not leer at her.
A father should teach a daughter the ways in which a teen boy or older man might try to take advantage of her so that she can learn to be careful in her choices of company to keep. He should also teach her how to defend herself.
A father should teach his daughter about respect and modesty as well as how to gain self-respect and what a male thinks of a reputation.
A fathers love is sacred, pure, protective, sometimes over indulgent, at times possessive but always unconditional.
2006-10-26 15:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being a man you should already know the answer to this question. If you don't..... you need some serious help.
For a father to have any sort of desires or feelings for his daughter is absolutely wrong!
My father took it too far and I lost my tender innocence at 3.... I lost my father and any respect for men in general for many rears after that. I hated most men and always felt dirty, allowed my self to be mistreated, abused and used because he instilled in me the idea that I was not worth more than that..... he effectivly ruined my life.
If you are having such feeling you need to step back. Make sure you are not alone with her and never give in to the perversion you aer hinting at.
If you do I hope and pray she gets away from you and walks out of your life forever because you do not deserve her or any child!
SEEK HELP NOW
2006-10-26 16:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by mommakaye 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Taken in the context of your earlier question regarding fantasies with a near and dear one, I would say it is not acceptable.
A father's duty - and greatest pleasure- is in providing for and protecting his offspring until they are able to make a life for themselves. Anytime you feel that is not enough and want treats on the side -it is time to pack your bags, and let a nobler man do what you are unable to finish.
2006-10-26 14:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tertia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dad used used to call us "my girls" - as he put his arms around us and squeeze us in a tight bear hug he would say to me "how's my big girl today" or to my sister "hows my little girl today" then he'd ruffle our hair and kiss us on the forehead as if to seal the hug.
When he died someone wrote to my mum and said what a "real gentle man" he was and how he did justice to the word "gentleman" - and yes it showed in the gentle way he loved my sister and I.
No one needs more than that.
2006-10-26 14:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by ShumB 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just read your previous question about fantasies also. I think you might have a problem. In answer to your previous question (judging by this question) I would not fulfil my fantasy you will be ruining your life and alot of other peoples besides. I'll give you one guess as to what would happen to you in prison as that's where yoou will end up. In answer to this question, DON'T TOUCH!!!!! DON'T LOOK!!!! DON'T PUT YOURSELF IN A POSITION WHERE YOU ARE ALONE TOGETHER!!!!
2006-10-26 15:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by sue l 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
5 second hug And a kiss on the cheek. Other than that tell someone!!!!
2006-10-26 14:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
A big bear hug and sweet kiss is about it. If it's more than that I would wonder.
2006-10-26 14:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dont fully understand the q email me and ill tryin give u in answer if i can
2006-10-26 14:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't understand the question try and word it better
2006-10-26 14:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by ladybird 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋