My ex bf of 2 years has pulled his last stunt on me. I told him he had one more chance to **** up and he took it. So, now I have released him, but he still doesn't accept that I am through with him. I don't call him, I have not given out mixed signals. I just don't understand what he wants from me.....I've had enough for every woman!
2006-10-26 06:55:00 · 17 answers · asked by Lady T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex used to do that, kept treating me like sh*t, dumping me, then coming back around about a month later. This happened about 5 times and I just got tired of the drama and lies and mental abuse, emotional abandonment, being used for sex. He tried sniffing around for a 6th time and I sent him a text message that went something like "I need you to come to grips with the fact that I hate your guts and will NEVER trust you again and want nothing to do with you. I don't want or need you in my life, I'm MUCH happier without you. You've turned into a complete white trash drunk and I deserve better than your sorry a**." He still kind of tests the waters now and then, but even though I still have feelings for him I know it's not worth the heartache and that nothing will ever change. So I continually shoot him down and treat him like garbage.
2006-10-26 07:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advice that I can give you is to not answer calls from him if he calls. Delete e-mails if he sends them. Tell someone else to send him away if he comes over and just all out ignore him. If he still dosen't get the picture, just continue what you are doing. And think about it, you've been with him for 2 years! Obviously he is not used to being alone and wants to be with someone. And it should make sense that if he really cared about you then he wouldn't have messed up with the stunts he did.
2006-10-26 06:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by angels_killed_me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in case you've already been served then there is not something to do yet save your courtroom date. the best information is in case you in basic terms had a verbal settlement then thet could have a puzzling time proving that you owe them something in any respect. the most damning evidence they could have will be any archives of you paying them out of your account on a daily foundation contained in the previous. with a bit of luck, lots of the lease became paid by your ex's charges. locate all the archives you are able to on how lease became paid, even if by your economic corporation or his and so on. and go over them. Then, in basic terms secure in courtroom that the residence settlement became made with their son, not you and so that you at the instantaneous are not to blame for it. you'll ought to pay something in the adventure that they could teach that you've been the only which paid it many times till now. maximum IMPORTANTLT: do not contact his father and mom. do not deliver e-mails or messages or something. they could use this adverse to you in courtroom. i'm hoping issues workout consultation for you and that i'm hoping I helped.
2016-12-05 06:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by louttit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read about a website that can dump someone for you, or why not just send him a telegram or even better a singing telegram and arrange for it to be delivered whn he is with his mates. That way everyone will know he is dumped and hopefully he will get the message too!
2006-10-26 06:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by dan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya, i just went through this not too long ago, if hes still calling you-block his number, and tell him that you let him go and you dont want to deal with his drama anymore.
2006-10-26 06:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by rufioluver22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, get a new number or block his, get a peep hole, call the cops if he comes by the house and knocks on the door... just cut contact completely, next try and find a replacement for the time being, then move on
2006-10-26 06:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by J from O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were being honest about not wanting to be with him anymore! It seems to me that your ex-boyfriend won't accept the fact that you don't want to be with anymore! You need to talk to him and tell him specifically that you don't want to be with him! You moved on with your life and he needs to do the same thing!
2006-10-26 06:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder then words......It just takes time for men to understand that. It looks like he is hard headed so it make take him even longer to understand. Just keep that brick wall up towards him and MAYBE in time he will understand.
2006-10-26 06:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer your phone, home or cell. Don't have any contact with him at all. I think eventually he will get the clue. Good luck, this must be hard for you, but better take a stand now, than be so sorry later.
2006-10-26 06:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by june clever 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a restraing order from the police
2006-10-26 06:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋