I miss my ex-boyfriend. I miss his lips, I miss kissing him, I miss cuddling in his bed. But it never went further than that, we always kept our clothes on, cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. He was 24, lots of previous relationships while I'm 20 and he was my first boyfriend and first kiss. It was only a month, but felt longer cuz we saw each other a lot.
I guess he may have left due to lack of sex, but I'm still not 100% over him. But I don't get it cuz he liked how I was so pure and unique. Also, a lot of guys hit on me and some people even think I look like Angelina Jolie. so I don't get why he would rather be with a skank who puts out, than be with a pure, beautiful girl like me?
Why do you think he left? and yes, I have a good personality, he said I was the sweetest girl.
By the way, he still contacts me on msn sometimes 'just to say hi' but I don't see his point when he dumped me?
2006-10-26 06:50:43 · 16 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want cuddle...god...you sound perfect...probably the guy needs to get off...some guys just cant control it...ofcourse he could always use his hand.
but anyways he will see what he is missing when he is with the skank on crack street and here you are be able to wear the white wedding gown proudly.
go girl!
2006-10-26 06:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good thing u started with a simple question :-D
Your first relationship will always be something special, love, lust, crush, etc. It will take you some time to get over, but it will happen IN YOUR OWN TIME. And it will always be your first, and you will never forget that.
He is 24 and as you implied, he is looking for sex. You sound like the person that he (and many people) will want to marry, but that is not now, that is when they are ready for marriage. He is in the state of his life that he wants a physical relationship and whatever else comes along with that...comes along too.
Have faith in yourself, and in your choices. All you really have in life is choices. Control the things that you choose too and don't beat yourself up for those things that you can't. Everything will be fine. Keep smiling and being a beautiful person.
2006-10-26 07:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by Charly Bravo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. You'll find guys out there that are closer to your age that are religious and waiting to have sex until marriage. I know a bunch of them. He obviously thought sex was very important in the relationship, and he's right- it is for some people. If you keep looking (in church especially) you will find guys that know the importance of waiting, though. The only reason you are stuck on this guy is because he was your first boyfriend, but he may know what he's done with other women and think that he's not the right one for you, and again, he's right. You can find someone much better with your same values.
2006-10-26 06:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, to be frank and earnest, were too good for this airhead. He, like most shallow, immature, weak, human men, was only after one thing. I think that your pureness is to be commended. I think you are a fine human. The skank is simply that, a skank. The man was obviously controlled too easily by his libido and not his heart.
I am afraid that in this day and age, beauty might always lose to skankiness. You might be beautiful and easy to look at, however, your former boy(not man) wanted to feel instead of look.
I am sorry he has caused you so much angst. If I might say something to make you feel better, if you look like Angelina, you will find someone in no time flat.
2006-10-26 06:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by Obi-wan Kenobi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be a virgin and give him head! I think he cared about you but instead of cheating on you to fulfill his needs he left when he realized he had no shot of getting "anything" with you. You know why Nuns really don't have boyfriends?... cause they don't put out at all! You could have spooned naked or something to hold his interested but u acted like a chick from the stone age! You want opinions and that is an honest one!!
2006-10-26 07:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What were his reasons for dumping you? Girls like you are so hard to find...it's like finding the holy grail...ya don't let go of it cuz you'll never get it back...if he gave all that up for sex, then he gave up a lot for a world of nothing...if all he had to do was wait...it would of been worth it in the long run, but that's just my humble opinion...many guys are like that...there is no define reason why...they just like sex and that is what drives them
2006-10-26 06:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Maestro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really awesome how you were pure for so long. It's a little hard to answer that question, other than that guys are just jerks sometimes. I don't see how any guy could just do that to a girl that he could spend the rest of his life with.
2006-10-26 06:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by Robyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah guys like that your pure, not intending to keep you that way tho, come on he is 24 and his friends are proabbly asking him hows it going and if he had gotten wit you yet, and he is like, no not yet, and its basically peer pressure or straight up loser aspect that made him leave ,who knows give him a shout and ask him the question your asking us, cause if he says yes he is obviously didn't know what he was missing, cause you always remember your first... that is if you were eventually say a few weeks down the line ready to sleep with him?
2006-10-26 06:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by J from O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wasn't ready for a true, permanent relationship (marriage) yet. Maybe thought things were going too fast.
2006-10-26 06:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Shaula 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he left u cauz he was only after sex ...a player doesnt stick around if he doesnt get what hes after cauz he knows hes gonna get it somewhere else....hes a ho and everything he said was a lie just to get into your pants
2006-10-26 06:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋