I believe the date July 7 2007 is a nice day to get married but i cant seem to get my boyfriend to propose. What shoul i do.
2006-10-26 06:46:13 · 39 answers · asked by needanswers 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Do you love him wholeheartedly or are you in love with the idea of playing house? Does he love you with all his heart? If the answer to both these questions is yes this is what you do, any and everything you know he likes do it and suggest it Never turn him down in the bedroom unless it's uncomfortable to you . Cook and keep the house clean and I guarantee you will hear wedding bells in July or maybe sooner Because that's all the things wives do anyway you'll be ready
2006-10-26 06:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by gail w 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
how old are you? it might seem like a silly question, but it does matter. my boyfriend and i have been together for over 8 years, but i just finished my master's degree, and we're only 24...and yes, we've been talking about getting married "someday" for a few years too...but only recently have the serious discussions started. i think you we're a bit harsh in giving him a deadline...if nothing else, it probably made him more opposed to the idea of proposing before then. and if he thinks you would leave because he's not ready...it might even make him doubt your love for him. sit down with him and calmly tell him how you are feeling...and then ask him, seriously, if he ever plans on marrying you. you've been together long enough to have this type of conversation and to get an honest answer. you should also be able to tell how he's feeling when you talk about it. if he says he wants to marry you, but you don't think he's serious, get out now, don't wait until he 20th of July.
2016-05-21 22:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more interesting question to answer is "How can I find a location to hold a ceremony and/or reception on 07/07/2007?"
As for getting him to propose, I told my guy once that as much as I was ready to marry him, I want to be proposed to because he can't live without me any other way.
2006-10-26 09:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by Church Music Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about marriage. You don't have to propose but see what he thinks about the idea of marriage, I mean do you know that he wants to marry you? And if he does then bring up the subject of July 7th 2007 and say you think that would be a really cool date.
2006-10-26 06:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't proposed yet, then he isn't ready to...don't rush him or else he may get scared and leave. You wouldn't want to push him away. Just give him time and if it was meant to happen, it will...if 2007 isn't looking good, then 2008 might be. I have been with my b/f for almost 4 years and we still aren't engaged...so just give it time.
2006-10-26 09:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to "get him to marry you", he isn't right for marrying. Perhaps he's not ready, perhaps your relationship is not ready. Marriage is a big step, and should not be forced upon anyone. If you need marriage, and have been waiting, either keep waiting or find someone who wants the same things. Good Luck to the both of you!
2006-10-26 06:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not force him into anything. Perhaps he is not ready. Yes 7/7/07 is cool but there will be other days. Forcing the issue could cause far more complications down the line.
2006-10-26 06:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone propose to you. You'll just have to be patient.
Unfortunately, 07-07-07 is a very popular date. I wouldn't be surprised if everything is already booked!
2006-10-26 09:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are forgetting a BIG step here. Your boyfriend isnt something you can "get" to do anything. He is a human with feelings and a heart. The fact you are trying to "get" him to do something he may not be ready to do shows you are not ready to get married yourself. Respect is a key component of marriage and you really arent showing your boyfriend any by trying to "get" him to do something over a date and not love.
2006-10-26 07:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by Cariad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
7/7/07 huh? Quit being so OCD. Maybe you should propose to him and set the date yourself!
2006-10-26 06:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jon C 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋