Say that you get to know this girl over the phone/nt and you really get along.You schedule to meet her;you agree that she will be wearing a red shirt.so you walk in to the restaurant and you see two girls over with a red shirt over at the area where she said she would be.one look like jessica simpson the other looks like tha charater ugly betty.which do you go to first?
Then same thing happened as before but his time you see that the jessica s. is with someone, but he was in the bathroom or something and just sat back down with her would you go with the ugly betty type girl?
Remember that you already liked talking with her and got along just fine.
2006-10-26 06:48:22 · 14 answers · asked by Me 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think i'd ask her to wear something a bit more detailed to avoid the confusion altogether. I did meet with a woman once i met online but we exchanged pics so we'd know what the other looked like.
In your situation i'd try to find out which was the girl i had talked to so i'd go to whichever was closest and ask them a few questions to see if that was the one. A girl can be drop dead gorgeous physically but if she can't hold a conversation then what's the point? If physical looks are all you care about then one day you're going to find it harder and harder to find someone to spend your life with.
If i was talking with a girl on the phone and we were discussing romance and i saw she was with someone i'd observe them to see how they interacted. If they looked to be romantically involved then i'm no sucker i'd leave. Nothin's uglier than a cheater's heart.
2006-10-26 06:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Remember that men are visual creatures so I think most will talk to the Jessica Simpson girl first (though I don't find her particulary attractive). If the two women were close enough together that I could ask them at the SAME time I would do that.
In your second half/question - YES I would go and greet the ugly Betty type girl. I already KNOW her from talking and THAT is what I'm interested in NOT her looks.
2006-10-26 06:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Scotsman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tricky question, considering that i'm such a nice guy and all…
I would go for Ugly Betty, even if she was not the person, probably because i'm such a nice guy. Any decent, nice, considerate girl who saw me reach out to someone that may not exactly "fit the profile" would notice my sincerity and promptly interrupt the situation. A totally mean person would continue to let me make a fool out of myself.
But i'm a very open individual, and i do actually look for personality first. But in my experience, someone that does not take care of his or herself usually is lacking in the personality department as well.
Inhibitions and insecurity does not bode well for anyone. If you like the guy, make the correction promptly and buy him coffee.
Wish you luck!
2006-10-26 06:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by diagofaldi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to assume that over the course of getting to know each other, you must have traded basic descriptions... In that case, if she said she was blond and had big boobs, I'd say "head to the 'Jessica Simpson' type... If she said black hair and braces, "Ugly Betty' type... No?
2006-10-26 06:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by monie0078 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could have just asked what's more important: looks or personality. And in a perfect world it should be personality. Once a person matures and leaves that high school, college, kiddie attitude they realize that looks are important, but not everything. It would be alie to say looks dont matter, but personality does make a big difference. I have met/dumped hot chicks before because they turned out to be a bic.th/psycho.
2006-10-26 06:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question #1: I would think of the conversations I had with this person and remember what she told me about herself. Trying to specifics about her physical appearance. If that fails, then approach both women at the same time and ask them which one is expecting me.
Question #2: Absolutely. Chances are the great connection we have will be the same in person.
Side note: I would have sent her a pic of me, so she would recognize me.
2006-10-26 06:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn thasa hard q, cz i know the right answer but i can't pick it.
as a generally attractive guy i need a generally attractive girl.
sounds shallow, but if my girl aint hot, my eyes gonna be wandrin.
n pretty soon my heart too.
but f i wasn't all hot sh*t then i would at least sit down n talk to her.
n maybe wed be couple of the year.
but i do have female friends as aren't the sexiest, and their still valuable people to me. i jus never fall in love w them.
2006-10-26 06:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by spoonman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah but talking is one thing, and lying about what you look like is another... im not lying i dont look like my avatar or whatever, but its the best i could do in like 5 mins.... but if i was talkin about meeting someoen i would let it all out and maybe send a pic to them so they know who to look for...
2006-10-26 06:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by J from O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always assume that beautiful girls are stuck-up witches, so I'd go for the "Ugly Betty" one first, and ask her if she knows my friend (or is my friend?)
2006-10-26 06:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Of coarse I would talk to her. Do you think everyone is that superficial?, you must have a low opinion of the world.
2006-10-26 06:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋