My girlfriend told me that she's a sucker for flowers, and I've given her flowers at least once every month. I was wondering, as a girl, if you were to get flowers at least once every month, does it reach a point where you're just numb to it or does it make you happy every time you get them? I want to show her that I care, but wonder if it gets old after a while or if it never can get old. What's your take?
2006-10-26 06:45:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are concerned about it becoming stale to her why don't you spice it up a bit? Like maybe cut down on the size of the arrangement and instead of those little cards, enclose a gift certificate for a pedicure or a facial? These little gifts will be sure to be appreciated as every girl loves to be pampered. Keep up the great work, sweetie....every gal should be so lucky to have someone as caring as you!
2006-10-26 06:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could get old, but it's also something nice to look forward to. As long as the affection and love is still behind the gift each time, that's what matters and keeps it from getting stale.
Why not change it up a bit? Give her different flowers each time, or surprise her on when they're coming or how she finds them. Give her potted flowers or occassionally mix in one flower with a small gift (like her favorite candy). The little bit of extra effort you put into it each month will keep it new.
(are there more guys like you??) =)
2006-10-26 13:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally love getting flowers. For my 10th wedding anniversary my husband gave me 100 roses. He has chosen to give me flowers for special occasions such as my birthday or anniversary.
During the summer he loves to surprise me with a flower or two from his flower bed. He plants assorted mixes to get an array of flowers. I enjoy the beauty that his flower bed.
I believe that getting flowers on a monthly basis should be something simple like a daisy or carnation, but for really special occasions it should be just as special. Not every man gives flowers. Flowers make each and every women feel special, but most importantly it gives us pride to tell our friends what our man has done.
If you feel that giving flowers may be getting a little boring try adding a stuffed animal or a balloon. A change of flowers would be different, for example if you are give her daisies, try carnations or maybe even a lily.
2006-10-26 14:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by lazyknightanddaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer receiving rose bushes, flower plants and seed. Flowers die, the plants usually don't and give me lots more roses or flowers to remember the special person by when it blooms.
Cut flowers are fine, but don't give the same ones. Make a special tradition though and not do it when she would expect it. Try matching the flowers to the season or months, try cookie flowers, fruit bouquets,balloons, different surprise things that she won't be expecting so that it won't get boring.
2006-10-26 13:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by De 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Creativity is key. The more creative you are, the more you think of her. I love out of the ordinary gifts and gestures. Ever see Hitch? When he sends her a walky talky and the delivery guy brings her a wet suit because she chose the Sunday date, THAT's original and very thoughtful. Flowers every month can get blah and expected. Give her something she's not expecting. It can be simple, but think creative.
2006-10-26 13:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by beautiful disaster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id for sure get bored with getting flowers every single month. I wouldnt get sick of getting something different every month though. But its the thought that counts. Your such a sweet guy! Thats so cool of you to do for your girl. Most girls would die for a guy like you. Your girl is lucky.
2006-10-26 13:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love flowers and my hubby get me some like every week . Dont you dare stop giving her flowers . You know if my hubby stopped ,i would wonder what was up ? he loves me and he knows i am a sucker for flowers and i go ga ga when he brings them and that makes him feel good too. I can see it on his face. good luck and god bless.
2006-10-26 14:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like getting flowers at all. What's the point in having flowers unless you picked them out yourself?
2006-10-26 18:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on your girlfriend but i would say that it never gets old as you are just showing her that she means a lot to you. Your a very sweet guy. If it doesn't work out between the two of you then you know who to call...
2006-10-26 13:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by naomi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a lucky girlfriend! I think that it wouldnt get old.Flowers are flowers and it lets her know that you are thinking about her and makes her feel special. If you think its getting old just ask her opinion.
2006-10-26 13:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by JUDY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋