2006-10-26 06:33:33 · 10 answers · asked by deeburzynski 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, you're probably right. But, it's also irritating too and he knows it upsets you. So he'll continue to do it.
2006-10-26 06:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, so you might not realize this but some people just tend to "get off" when other people are distressed or upset. I am saying this because I have studied Psychological development and also, in a way, I am a little like this as well (*ashamed*) ... It can make aperson satisfied and content to see someone weakened or upset. I recommend you let him know that this bothers/scares you a little and listento what he says... As long as it remains just a "creepy little laugh" and doesn't escalate into him laughing like a hyena if you fall on your face, just accept that his personality is like that and maybe ask him why he does that!
2006-10-26 13:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally will make a laughing sound often when my g/f and i argue. it's not out of humor, but just frustration. sometimes i think the argument is redilculous and there's nothing i can say to help the situation. so i get extremely frustrated and laugh a little. maybe it's similar?
2006-10-26 13:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by fr33kyd33ky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with him and explain exactly what is bothering you. At times you have to spell things out to men. He may be doing it and not realizing that it bothers you, or he may do it to win the disagreement if he sees you droping the subject. Just be open and let him know. Good Luck P.S. And if he says he is doing it to be evil, then you need to do the same to him one time see how he likes it.
2006-10-26 13:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only tell you that it reminds me of my exBF, who I was involved with for nearly 5 years. He would say things to make me cry, then say things to make it hurt more, and sometimes he would laugh. He was abusive, physically and emotionally, but of course, that probably goes without saying. I thought we "loved" each other, and it took breaking up finally for me to realize that it wasn't good love, it was a twisted need. I don't know about your husband, but if it feels good to him for you to be upset, I would question the stability of the relationship, to say the least.
2006-10-26 13:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him understand that even during an argument you both love each other and that he needs to understand. When men have their back up against a wall and no where to run they realize how important people really are. He will care about your thoughts and ideas even during the disagreement but compromise will help.
2006-10-26 13:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he give the evil laugh and then kiss you full on the lips? then there is still hope.
otherwise, dab some chilli powder in his underwear and when he starts screaming, give him an evil laugh.....
2006-10-26 13:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Sister says her Boyfriend does it to.
She hates it.
2006-10-26 13:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not very nice on his part.
2006-10-26 13:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is a jackass
2006-10-26 13:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by kruzluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋