I just wanted to know. My friend has 2 kids from 2 different women, and he can't seem to get a date anymore. Should he not tell women that he has 2 kids from different mothers.
What do the women on this site feel about dating a guy with 2 kids.
2006-10-26 06:42:17 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends on what age he is and the circumstances..if he was quite a young man then yes it would be off putting but if he was an older man and he had been in long term relationships then no...because these things do happen.
2006-10-26 07:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-27 01:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should never deny or hide the fact he's got children. Women don't like that at all, & it would make it really difficult if it developed into a long term/permanent relationship.
Does he still see the children? If he still has contact & supports his children then surely this is a good thing. There are plenty of women out there with children from previous relationshios & by more than one father who can still get dates, maybe he's just looking in the wrong places, maybe he should try dating a single mum.
I don't think women really mind as long as he shows he's commited to them & his children.
2006-10-26 07:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no That's a very complicated situation to get involved with. And, if it is delivered in a complicated way, it will scare most women off. But there are women out there who wouldn't be frightened if it was delivered at an appropriate time and after they really liked the guy already. Not saying it should be hidden, but it's not first date conversation unless it is asked.
Women want a want to themselves and a life of their own. If you can find a woman who isn't dead set on it, I'm sure she'll give your friend a decent chance. He probably deserves it.
2006-10-26 06:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by KeM 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would not date a guy like this, seeing his track record is 1, he doesnt use condoms and that could mean disease city. 2, he loves em and leaves em, even when the kids are involved, and if he tried to say the girl was bad, stupid, a cheater or anything else then 3, he just has really poor judgement and I think the guy I attach myself to needs to have great judgement in life cause one day he could be helping me lead my life and I dont want someone helping me THAT way, lol he may be the nicest guy in the world but hey, a woman needs someone with a good head on his shoulders seeing he will be the one making the decisions that are the hardest and being a role model for our children. I hope this is not depressing to you, but he needs to NEVER lie about the kids or act as if he has none, that would be reason number 4 in my eyes. I hope he supports those kids and loves them and wait for a while to romance someone else, and tell him to start listening to DR LAURA. She will set him on the straight and narrow...
2006-10-26 06:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by cricketwinner@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I used to date a guy who had two kids from two different women. Didnt bother so much the situation but money was pretty tight because he had child support on both of them and he didnt have a high paying job.
As far as to answer your question, no it does not turn me off to date a guy with two kids from two different females.
2006-10-26 06:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dating a guy with two kids is not the issue (not pun intended LOL) But 2 kids with different mothers sends a signal that says...........he's not about to form a committed relationship, he's a have fun and run type. So, any woman who is looking for a long term partner is not going to find you friend as 'good material'.
2006-10-26 07:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dated a guy with three kids, all with different women. I didn't see anything wrong, he is a wonderful man. The possibilities of marriage was lightly spoken of but unfortunately he is now fighting over seas.
2006-10-26 06:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by beautiful_yet_spoiled 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends if he has full custody. I would only be put off if he had full custody, thereby meaning if it got serious then I'd have to take on the kids too. Also, it means most of his weekends will be taken up. I prefer to be the most important thing in my man's life.
Having said this, it will no longer be an issue after the age of 30.
You have to accept that a lot of people will have kids by this age.
2006-10-26 06:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by Zoe J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know any woman that would date a guy with two kids from different women. He obviously doesn't know how to use a condom. I also know plenty of guys that wouldn't date women with two kids from different men. There are people out there that don't mind, though. Your friend needs to keep telling the women he dates about his kids, because eventually he'll find someone that doesn't mind. If he lies or keeps the truth from the women he dates, then when they do find out they will dump him anyway and he'll be more hurt because he wasted too much time with them.
2006-10-26 06:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋