should i trust or believe him?or break up with him?
2006-10-26 06:40:22 · 13 answers · asked by Luscious tj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi
look to be honest with you, you should depend on your feelings for this guy. i've been there b 4 and i'm there now. is he treating you right? is he loving you with all his interest? do you think he could be the one? if not hold on just a little bit longer. not that long OK! and if he stops doing things differently BREAK IT OFF!!!! and don't regret it! be careful with yourself. do whats best 4 U!!!1
2006-10-26 06:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Miz Precious C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I depends.. are they friends because they have kids?
If not... then what they really mean is:
"I'm seeing you but on occasion I like to sleep with my ex".
However.. no matter what the answer to the above is I would say break up with them. Why? because you already have a trust issue to the extent that you don't really trust what they are saying or accepting any answer they give you. When the trust level is that low you either need to get into counceling or break up. Since you are not married I'd just move on as I'm sure there are other people out there that would intrest you.
2006-10-26 06:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one, but I agree with trusting him until you have a reason not to. I trusted my BF (now ex) when he said said he just talked to his ex on the phone every once in awhile and then I found out it was ALL the time and that they were hanging out too, which he lied to me about. But, on the other side, I'm great friends with a guy I was once engaged to and it's completely platonic.
If your bf is friends with his ex, why can't you be friends with her too? Ask him to set up something where the 3 of you have dinner or something. If he's nervous or comes up with excuses for not doing that, then you might have reason to be concerned. Good luck!
2006-10-26 06:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't have any ties together like a child then he doesn't need to keep in contact with her. If the shoe was on the other foot he would have a real problem with you keeping in contact with your ex. I wouldn't get rid of him until you have expressed that this is a problem for you, and then if he does'n't stop the contact then leave his *** alone.
2006-10-26 06:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by Tammi R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It CAN happen. I'm still friends with my ex-husband. Matter of fact we make better friends than spouses. I guess it all depends on what's involved in the friendship and what kind of time he spends with her and talks to her. For example, is he always going to see her alone, does he talk to her on the phone in front of you or go to another room? Just depends on what kind of "friendship" they have.
2006-10-26 06:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex gets in the way of friendship with women. Tell him your the only friend and bestes friend he ever going to have or need.
Ditch the ***** of leave
2006-10-26 06:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by froggerty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe him it's more to cause he can;t let go . Start talking about you ex-boyfriend and see how he handles it.
2006-10-26 06:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by gail w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..show him that you trust him at first but when things get fishy or until you have solid proof of something going on..then yip! show him the door
2006-10-26 06:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by dusty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd trust him till he gives you a reason to believe otherwise.
2006-10-26 06:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're called "EX" for a reason.
Jumpship before you sink!
2006-10-26 06:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by NEWTOME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋