Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

Always play games? Act like they want you but then put obstacles up for you and him to be together. Then, emotionally distant themselves but want you to spill your guts. Always making you feel one step behind. Does this call for breaking up?

2006-10-26 17:00:11 · 10 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I would really like to know the answer to this one, because this guy is amazing and I've been told that he "thinks highly of me". What exactly does this mean? Besides what I've heard, he also seems to want to get closer, but as friends or something else?

2006-10-26 16:59:45 · 13 answers · asked by whirliekurlie 3 in Singles & Dating

late i know his ex lives near his work...im confused what do reckon peoples.

2006-10-26 16:59:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 16:59:25 · 4 answers · asked by Glace 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 16:58:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like him a lot and he likes me a lot but he lives in California and I live in Missouri HELP!!!!!

2006-10-26 16:57:36 · 18 answers · asked by dezzynicolaa 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy (he's 38) at my job gave me his number (which i didn't ask for), last friday. He said told me to call, but I didn't..

I'm 21 and i have a man already and he knows it. Today I saw him again at work. He ask why I hadn't called him. He told me that he was single for a whole year, etc. and later on today he asked me to call him tonight...

I really dont feel like talking to him. I don't want to hurt his feelings. I dont want a relationship with another guy at all. What should I do?

2006-10-26 16:56:50 · 12 answers · asked by sweety 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with this girl and she tells me she loves her boyfriend which sucks *** but I don't know what to do know. What should I do?

2006-10-26 16:55:44 · 17 answers · asked by scared! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 16:54:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the guy that i have a crush on, yesterday deliberately talked to somebody on the phone to make it known to mme that he is in a relationship, so it gave me the impression that i was too obvious . therefore today i just kept myslef busy and avoided him. but he was smart enough to realize my avoidance and he stayed away too... did i do the right thing?

2006-10-26 16:53:43 · 19 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been in a relationship for the past15 months to a woman. i am a woman. she has two kids a 4 yr old and a 17 month old who both call me mommy i love her and her children but she has a real jealousy issue i can not go any where i had to give up my job because shes scared i might cheat i stopped talking to all my friends she even told me if i talk to anyone on the internet shed cancel it this is to overbearing and ive told her so she just gets upset and tells me she loves me and im perfect this that and thee other so everyone wants me which is stupid and she doesnt want to lose me i have a good thing with her i want to stay with her but i need my own friends i need other people to talk to besides her my parents and the kids how can i make her understand i dont want to lie and have friends only when shes not around what do i do

2006-10-26 16:53:34 · 4 answers · asked by getcuriouswithgeorge 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 16:53:23 · 6 answers · asked by L 2 in Family

I have dated the same guy for 4 yrs now and between his kids and his ex wife, I feel worn out from the emotional turmoil. The kids are grown, but keep on moving home every little bit. They are 30, 28 and 26 yrs old. Only the oldest has gainful employment.
He pays support in his younger boys and he cannot get his nose out of their mothers business.
He wants me to go on a vacation with him in December, but I cannot imagine being with him every day for 10 days. I think I would go crazy. Sometimes I feel relieved to be away from him.

2006-10-26 16:53:09 · 7 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

He is passive and submissive by nature and has friends who are more take charge types. So whenever they do anything, he always just sits back and lets them take charge.

The same goes for our relationship -- if we are to do anything at all, like even go on a simple date, I have to be the one to plan everything, because he is too passive and submissive to do anything.

The problem is, I am by nature also more passive and submissive. I would prefer for a relationship to be either BALANCED, or else to have the MAN be the more dominant one.

He always claims that I wear the pants in the relationship, that I am the dominant one. But I don't like it. I HATE being the dominant one, and if I AM the one who "wears the pants", it's because I've been forced into the role! If I didn't take charge once in a while, all we would ever do is sit in the house and watch TV.

Can this problem be resolved? Do you think he will ever grow up and be more of a man?

2006-10-26 16:51:13 · 8 answers · asked by cajun m 2 in Singles & Dating

If you saw a guy staring at you and found out that he liked you, and one day he came up to you in front of your friends introduced himself, what would you do????
And what would you do if you were a shy girl, i mean shy in front of guys?

2006-10-26 16:50:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not just a hook up, but someone to settle down with , we all know you like to hook up with hot ones that you would never bring home

2006-10-26 16:48:47 · 12 answers · asked by CURIOUS 1 in Singles & Dating

my future mother in law and her sisters are always on my back about the things that i wear and are always saying that i'm "so skinny" that i should eat more. i weigh 122lbs. i think this is a fine weight but they always tell me im too skinny. also, they always tell me how horrible my clothes are and how little they are; however, i do not wear anything revealing. they think i am ridiculous because i pay good money for my clothes & they cannot stand them because they are, i guess you could say, "in fashion". I think they are ridiculous because what is it to them if i have my OWN money to spend on my clothing? It's not like I'm taking all of her son's money and using it ridiculously. I'm not sure how to approach this problem because I don't want to cause any problems but it is really bothering me and I am not sure I can take the criticism much longer. Any ideas of how to go about this?

2006-10-26 16:48:41 · 16 answers · asked by love. 1 in Family

2006-10-26 16:47:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she spends probably about an hour or less everyday e-mailing a man from the middle east and they claim that they love each other--they've never met!!
i cannot disconnect the computer because she might do something crazy. are there offices i could contact for this sort of help?

2006-10-26 16:46:55 · 11 answers · asked by nina:0_0 3 in Singles & Dating

This girl and i are just starting to go into a relationship. It's not official but it's getting their. We are both in college right now. How often should i talk to her like over the phone and instant messenger. I don't want to bother her so i was wondering how often. Daily, few times a week etc.

2006-10-26 16:46:01 · 8 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 16:45:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had an awkward first meeting with a guy who was always looking at me and one day I went up there and started to talk to him, he looked uncomfortable, got shifty eyed, which made me shifty eyed, and it ended up being a bit uncomfortable. Now I can tell he's avoiding me entirely. I'm going to have to see this guy all year long since he works in the library, what can I do? It's totally obvious he's uncomfortable and that makes me uncomfortable. Its even ruining my concentration since we see eachother all the time.

2006-10-26 16:44:51 · 5 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 35 years old iam divorced and i met a guy that i fell in love with. we have broken off of the realationship alot.. Why to me he is to slef centerd. When i want to talk to him it seems to me he dont lissen to me at all . Becouse he interrups me and he talks about him self right aways after i start talking and trying to tell him how i feel. So now I do love him and all. and the fact he some times tells me how i feel and he tells me how wrong and bad of a person iam . witch iam not that kind of a person at all... but really what should i do? thoes feelings will not go away at all and i wish they would. for 4 years it has not worked out for the same reasons ... Do i go out with him again or do i try to forget about him? Or what you all think about this realationship let me know. thanks. So really are most guys this way?

2006-10-26 16:43:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 16:42:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm VERY VERY happy!!You?

2006-10-26 16:41:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a boyfriend. Recently he brought me to his mom's birthday and he told me that he will bring me to any of his family functions or activities in future. I juz wanna know... if a guy bring his girl to his family functions means what? Is it he wants serious relationship or he juz want me to accompany him?

2006-10-26 16:40:54 · 14 answers · asked by WaiYee 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl a lot and she likes me, but my friends dont like her because she is kinda bitchy and likes to start drama. The problem is IM tired of my friends constantly giving me a hard time about, should I just ignore them or give up and leave the girl?

2006-10-26 16:40:30 · 5 answers · asked by Mike89 2 in Singles & Dating

i find it funny how my sister and her husband split the bills, have different bank accounts and never do anything together. any suggestions on how to make her see that this is not a marriage?

2006-10-26 16:39:14 · 14 answers · asked by nina 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I posted a question a few days ago about struggling w/ feelings for another man. This man makes me feel smart, appreciated, beautiful, and just makes me full of energy. I've never been unfaithful to my husband, but I'm struggling w/ my feelings- I don't want to have feelings for someone else, but my husband is pretty inattentive and selfish. He's not very affectionate, his needs always come first (in many ways), and there are days where I'm just beyond fed up. The most frustrating is that he worries more about himself than me or, more importantly, our daughter. Things are always done on his terms- if he doesn't want to do something, it doesn't get done. When it comes to sex, he's extremely selfish. In the almost 3 years we've been married I've never climaxed during sex because he can't stop worrying about how he feels long enough to see if I'm enjoying myself. I want to work on things- but I don't know where to start. I'd like to get some serious, mature answers from you all. Thanks.

2006-10-26 16:38:34 · 19 answers · asked by JustMyOpinion 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'd like to marry my boyfriend, but I feel that we are very good friends and enjoy many of the same things, but I dont feel like we lust after each other all the time like in the movies. We have good sex when we have it but it's not all the time, maybe once or twice a week . . . is this not enough? Or is this a good thing? I find him attractive and he finds me attractive we just aren't going at it all the time. People are always shocked when I say that we dont have sex everynight. Are we suppossed to be tearing each others clothes off? We make each other laugh and hang out . . . is this a good foundation for marriage? or are we going to someday want some big lustful relationship???

2006-10-26 16:38:08 · 23 answers · asked by Astrid Beau Bega Belda Calixte 2 in Marriage & Divorce