A guy (he's 38) at my job gave me his number (which i didn't ask for), last friday. He said told me to call, but I didn't..
I'm 21 and i have a man already and he knows it. Today I saw him again at work. He ask why I hadn't called him. He told me that he was single for a whole year, etc. and later on today he asked me to call him tonight...
I really dont feel like talking to him. I don't want to hurt his feelings. I dont want a relationship with another guy at all. What should I do?
2006-10-26 16:56:50 · 12 answers · asked by sweety 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that your current relationship is serious and long-term and that you're currently happy with your bf.
2006-10-26 16:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him under different circumstances u would have jumped at the chance but u are already in a relationship. DO NOT CALL HIM. Throw his number away so u wont get the urge 2 call him in the time of need.
2006-10-27 00:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by sexyla06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already have a boyfriend, why is there even a question about calling this dude? Never feel bad about saying such a small word like "NO"... Be strong!!! No one would ever be able to make me cheat on my boyfriend whom I love dearly. No guy can ever make me have a guilty conscience about being faithful; because if you call this guy, it will be a form of cheating. Be firm & stand your ground when you repeat your self & tell him you have a man. Ask him how he would like it if someone came on to his future girlfriend or wife & she went along with it, because she felt too guilty to say no... I guarantee you that he will respect you for your decission.
2006-10-27 00:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you would not feel right calling him, since you are in a relationship with another guy.
Or, that you consider him a friend and work associate, and that you would feel best keeping this a professional relationship.
2006-10-27 00:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by star22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be a broken record and keep repeating that you have a relationship and aren't available to make calls to other men.
If he keeps bothering you about it...then you may have to bring attention to it through your job. Whatever you do..DON'T be wishy washy about it. Just tell him basically he has no chance.
Don't worry about his feelings. As long as you aren't being rude or mean to him....his feelings on the matter don't really count.
Yours do. Take care of yourself always.
2006-10-27 00:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be frank with him. Let him know that if he's looking for a girlfriend you are not available. (What the heck could he want, you are 21 and he's 38. What do you have in common? NOTHING!!!) lol!!
2006-10-27 00:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the number to your friend let him call .This man has no respect for you.He knows you are seeing someone .He is only out for him self
2006-10-27 00:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call its not worth ur man finding out
2006-10-26 23:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by CURIOUS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop harrassing you.
2006-10-26 23:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him down nicely hes too old for you!!!
2006-10-26 23:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by dezzynicolaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋