Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

i have remarried and im now a stepdad to a 15y/o boy and a 7y/o girl. i do my best to treat them like my own(i have a 10yo son)but i cant.whenever im with them i yell at them i call them stupid,ugly,retarded and any other mean word tht i can think of at tht moment.i feel very bad about this.last month i walked in on my stepson crying and have since seen cuts on his wrist.even though their mom truely makes me happy i have been considering a divorce just for the sake of her children. should i go through with it?

2006-10-26 15:58:49 · 37 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Marriage & Divorce

a 45 year old woman here who isn't sure about how to get back into the dating scene...so leary in meeting a man for the first time..I guess cause I don't want to be rejected but would like to meet someone who wants to become friends and see what happens from there.I would like to enjoy my life now and do alot of things with someone.

2006-10-26 15:58:22 · 6 answers · asked by Tammy 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm curious...is it wrong for a married man or woman to have a platonic relationship with someone of the oppisite sex? Seems that older ppl have a problem with it,but not the younger crowd.Any opinions...

2006-10-26 15:58:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Junior year in High School I was in love with a girl who sat in front of me. One day I finally work up the courage to ask her out on a date. However, I had just sneezed before class ended and caught her walking out the door. I had an enormous booger on my shirt that I could not see but would have been hard for her not to see. I did not get the date and then one of my friends came up to me knowing I had just been rejected and was like "Dude, you got a booger on your collar" and proceeded to laugh so hard he ended up puking. Needless to say it was in the middle of the semester...so I had the pleasure of sitting behind her for a while after that..bah!

2006-10-26 15:57:53 · 6 answers · asked by AmplePressure 2 in Singles & Dating

How of you girls out there can accept a situation like that and believe nothing happened?

How many men and women out there can believe that nothing happens when a man and a woman take a holiday together, sharing a room and a bed? Just for budget sake!!!! Can you trust a man or a woman who does that? Can a girlfriend trust a man who does that?

2006-10-26 15:56:36 · 23 answers · asked by Tortee 2 in Singles & Dating

Heeey everyone please i need you help !!?
i want to write al letter for smeone i love but the problem is i don't speak englsih verry well can you help to write it in a nice way i just want to tell him that he mean a lot to me and that i didn't tell him that i love him in fear of losing him.. please can u write some word like this for me if you don't mind please because he is going to travel out side the country and i want him to know that i love him Thxxxx

2006-10-26 15:55:44 · 13 answers · asked by blair 1 in Singles & Dating

She's my Best friend but we lost contact when I moved to my new house and I lost her new address and I'm in Aus.

2006-10-26 15:55:08 · 1 answers · asked by Ally 1 in Friends

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and I've met and hung out with all of his guy and girl friends with no issues. They've all been friendly and welcoming, except for one. She's an old acquaintance, and they almost ended up going out but she wasn't interested. We've met up a few times for a double date with her bf, and the whole time she ignored me and talked to my bf. That made me uncomfortable. Then whenever she seems him, they hug because they're friends, but she nevers says "Hi", "How are you?", NOTHING! Its like I'm invisible to her and she only wants him to pay attention to her. I know they go back, and I want him to have healthy relationships with the opposite sex, but she's the only one who makes me feel that way. What's her deal? I've tried to be friendly and accomodating, but she still seems to have a problem with me. She has lots of guy friends, like I do, but am I a threat to her? Help!

2006-10-26 15:54:09 · 13 answers · asked by Felecia S 1 in Friends

hubby cheated and has since moved in with his gf he is 42 she is 21 they are together 6-7 months now no guilt or remorse on his part for what he has done to me.......in fact he is hurtful at times....and acts like im a bad mom ..its like he doesnt even know me anymore..........can it be possible that he really loves this girl to the point that he has forgotten all about me and the 24 years we spent together?

2006-10-26 15:51:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy, and we have a couple classes together.

Today during one of them, we got a new seating chart. He knew he was going to the wrong seat, but he came and sat by me anyways until the teacher told him to move.

Then he saw that the girl who now sits in front of me is a girl that a lot of people don't like, but I was trying to get to know her and be nice. He said something that made me pretty sure that he wasn't too crazy about her himself.

Later, we got a worksheet that we were supposed to work alone on for the first 10 minutes, and then in groups for the remainder of the time. Me and my new neighbor began working together, and soon enough, my crush came to work with us too.

He sat right nest to me for the rest of the class, and was SOOO nice to me, even when his friends came over and sat by us too.

P.S. ~Whenever he sees me or makes a joke, he looks over to wherever I am and gives me a really big smile.......could he want more than to be friends?

2006-10-26 15:50:49 · 7 answers · asked by in love w/ life 1 in Singles & Dating

i slept with this woman only about 2x and now she wants to leave a night bag what they hell does that mean should i be scared or what

2006-10-26 15:50:35 · 21 answers · asked by draginmud 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, so i like this guy and i heard from another guy that he likes me, but he said this after he knew that i liked his friend. is he making this up or is it true? i never really talked to the guy much,but now it is really awkward. i will give you 10 points if you give me good advice, because i really need this.

2006-10-26 15:50:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 15:49:41 · 3 answers · asked by willjw17 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, and we have a couple classes together.

Today during one of them, we got a new seating chart. He knew he was going to the wrong seat, but he came and sat by me anyways until the teacher told him to move.

Then he saw that the girl who now sits in front of me is a girl that a lot of people don't like, but I was trying to get to know her and be nice. He said something that made me pretty sure that he wasn't too crazy about her himself.

Later, we got a worksheet that we were supposed to work alone on for the first 10 minutes, and then in groups for the remainder of the time. Me and my new neighbor began working together, and soon enough, my crush came to work with us too.

He sat right nest to me for the rest of the class, and was SOOO nice to me, even when his friends came over and sat by us too.

P.S. ~Whenever he sees me or makes a joke, he looks over to wherever I am and gives me a really big smile.......could he want more than to be friends?

2006-10-26 15:49:26 · 4 answers · asked by in love w/ life 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in a 'fwb' situation with a guy for about 4 years. We get all hot and heavy for awhile, but then cool off...and the cycle continues. (We got together a couple weeks ago after not seeing each other for over a year.) The first night we hook-up after being apart he always starts talking about having babies and us getting married, and I start thinking about the 'maybes'. But the next time we talk he says he can't remember saying anything. I feel stupid because I really want all that from him, and I know I'm never going to get it. We've known each other for 15 years and he really is the man of my dreams.

Is there a way to separate sex and my feelings for him?

2006-10-26 15:49:03 · 11 answers · asked by raynejacien 1 in Singles & Dating

i've heard a lil of both....
but which does the majority of guys perfer?

2006-10-26 15:48:48 · 16 answers · asked by BrutallyHonestMe! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 15:48:30 · 12 answers · asked by Enoch G 2 in Singles & Dating

I believe that love just is; it is the highest point and once you are up there, looking down on everyone else, you are there forever.

2006-10-26 15:48:01 · 16 answers · asked by Ohay 3 in Singles & Dating

If a great looking girl, you did not know, walked up and open mouth kissed you?

2006-10-26 15:47:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I correspond with my daughter on yahoo?

2006-10-26 15:46:45 · 2 answers · asked by puzzledamipuzzled 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i like this since the begin of this school year but i known her for about 2yrs she has a bf but i dont care about him but the thing is that i got to know her more over the last few month and she been flit when me but i think she just teased me beacuse she also started filtin with some of my friend but she run back to me all the time. But i think she know i like her but i ask her wat she doing tomorrow and she said she was doing nothing then i ask her to goto the movies and she told me something else and she said maybe wat does that mean ? (btw she said i was a really good friend)

2006-10-26 15:46:10 · 9 answers · asked by mikelarryh2o 2 in Singles & Dating

How can I correspond with my daughter on yahoo?

2006-10-26 15:45:58 · 1 answers · asked by puzzledamipuzzled 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you find a female pastor/minister appealing for your wedding?

2006-10-26 15:45:55 · 3 answers · asked by createdorjustcrap? 2 in Weddings

2006-10-26 15:45:41 · 1 answers · asked by stupidreplier1 2 in Singles & Dating

so me and my bf have been dating for 10 months, recently he went back to school for his 3rd year in college, i live 3 hours away. so he has been having troubles in his classes, he says that all he can think about is me and he cant consentrate, he is on scholarships so he has to do well and he isnt, what should i do, should i let him go, so he can get his marks up or what, please help

2006-10-26 15:45:27 · 11 answers · asked by t l 1 in Singles & Dating

To add on in a way to another question I have posted, with another question, As I said in my previous posting I let my daughter go to Washington before my divorce was final, now that the divorce is final and I have sole custody how can I make them send her back. I am willing to pay for the ticket, but if she won't come on her on can I legally make her.

2006-10-26 15:44:43 · 6 answers · asked by ms_attitude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 15:44:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 15:42:38 · 28 answers · asked by carolianian85 2 in Family

I just spent time explaining to my ex how much he hurt me when he had an affair and left me for another woman AND how concerned I am that he is moving in with this woman AND introducing her to our son who is eight. He acknowledges this fact and we both agree that we have to establish a civil relationship for our son's sake - which I agree to. Then he sends me an email joke about a man who is having an affair and his wife finds out! How would you feel? Is he deliberately trying to hurt me or is he just clueless?

2006-10-26 15:42:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been thinking of doing this through an online ordination. It would be wonderful to officiate over weddings and I don't want to preach, but I just wondered if people would have a problem with a female preacher officiating. What do you think?

2006-10-26 15:42:04 · 7 answers · asked by createdorjustcrap? 2 in Marriage & Divorce