I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and I've met and hung out with all of his guy and girl friends with no issues. They've all been friendly and welcoming, except for one. She's an old acquaintance, and they almost ended up going out but she wasn't interested. We've met up a few times for a double date with her bf, and the whole time she ignored me and talked to my bf. That made me uncomfortable. Then whenever she seems him, they hug because they're friends, but she nevers says "Hi", "How are you?", NOTHING! Its like I'm invisible to her and she only wants him to pay attention to her. I know they go back, and I want him to have healthy relationships with the opposite sex, but she's the only one who makes me feel that way. What's her deal? I've tried to be friendly and accomodating, but she still seems to have a problem with me. She has lots of guy friends, like I do, but am I a threat to her? Help!
2006-10-26 15:54:09 · 13 answers · asked by Felecia S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ITS NOT THAT YOU ARE A THREAT TO HER BECAUSE YOU ALREADY WON. SHE IS JEALOUS OF YOU AND SHE IS TRYING TO MAKE YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE BY ACTING LIKE HIM AND HER ARE SUCH GOOD FRIENDS...IF SHE WAS HIS "GOOD" FRIEND AND NOT JEALOUS OF YOU SHE WOULD NOT TREAT YOU THAT WAY. IT IS OBVIOUS THAT SHE IS PURPOSEFULLY (IF THAT'S A WORD) TRYING TO GET UNDER YOUR SKIN. DO NOT FEEL THREATENED BY HER. SHE IS SEEING WHAT SHE IS MISSING OUT ON AND IM SURE SHE TRIES TO MAKE HERSELF FEEL BETTER BY SAYING OR THINKING THAT SHE COULD HAVE HAD HIM FIRST BUT "SHE" DIDNT WANT HIM, IM SURE AFTER SEEING THE TWO OF YOU TOGETHER SHE REGRETS THAT DECISION. IF YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND ARE COMMITTED TO EACHOTHER, YOU HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT. NEXT TIME YOU ARE AROUND HER, YOU IGNORE HER AND FOCUS ON YOUR MAN. WHEN SHE TRIES TO CONVERSATE WITH HIM AND NOT YOU, START KISSING HIM. THIS WAY SHE CANT GET OVER ON YOU. THIS WILL MAKE HER SO MAD THAT SHE WONT TRY IT AGAIN. FOR SURE THE NEXT TIME SHE WILL BE KISSING YOUR A**, AND BEING MORE FRIENDLY WITH YOU. DO NOT FEEL INTIMIDATED BY HER OR ANY FEMALE, AND MOST OF ALL DO NOT TRUST YOUR MAN AROUND HER!!!! MEN ARE WEAK!! AS MUCH AS HE LOVES YOU, YOU NEVER KNOW. AND SOME GIRLS DO IT JUST TO PROVE THEY CAN. SO MY ADVICE IS TO JUST HOLD YOUR MAN CLOSE AND SMILE REALLY BIG IN HER FACE. GIVE HER MORE OF A REASON TO BE ENVIOUS OF YOU. DONT EVER LET HER MAKE YOU FEEL SMALL.!! YOU GOT WHAT SHE DIDNT WANT!!
2006-10-26 16:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by jaylove209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 00:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me she is very jealous. She has deep feelings and they aren't returned. Avoid her.
2015-04-19 12:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible that you are a threat to her because since they are friends and he is dating you she may want him now but honestly if you two have been together for almost two years and all he has is "girl" friends and nothing else, just dont worry about her she's just jealous,you got a good man girl and nowadays a good man is hard to find.
2006-10-26 15:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by 2hot2handle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you talked to your boyfriend about this situation and how it makes you feel? try being nice to her - speak first , be friendly things of that nature. if she still gives you the cold shoulder, than i would say she is jealous of you. thats her problem. i would probably ask her what her problem is, but thats up to you. as long as you and your boyfriend are doing well, i would try not to let it bother me. you have him. seems to me shes trying to make you jealous. good luck!
2006-10-26 16:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sense a tad bit of jealousy here, she is a bit jealous, in my opinion, believe me , you're not the only one that's experiencing that! there's a lot of people that had the same thing as you have! talk to your bf about it and tell him how you are feeling about his friend.
2006-10-26 15:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look it's time for you to put this chick in her place because she has overstepped her boundaries. It's time for you to lay down some ground rules for him and her about what you will and won't accept
2006-10-26 15:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by NEET29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably jealous u can try talkin to y bf or act like u don't care then she might stop or get frirndly with her bf
2006-10-26 16:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by shaday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't trust her she has alterior motives that's for sure. but you will still have to be nice to her. kill her with kindness, if that doesn't work, very carefully find a way to show her out. she is jelious of your relationship,and can't stand you.. be very carefull with this one
2006-10-26 15:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by sillyredhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get really friendly with another guy, ..so he can see what he's been doing to you!
2006-10-26 15:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋