I like this girl a lot and she likes me, but my friends dont like her because she is kinda bitchy and likes to start drama. The problem is IM tired of my friends constantly giving me a hard time about, should I just ignore them or give up and leave the girl?
2006-10-26 16:40:30 · 5 answers · asked by Mike89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look at exatly why they say she's so "bitchy" If they are your real friends they want what's best for you so look it up further.
2006-10-26 16:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's bitchy and likes drama? See i would've been turned off by that from the get-go. But i mean, for the sake that that's the kind of woman you like, your friends opinions don't mean ****. But if they are your 'friends' they're just trying to look out for your best interest....and theirs as well.
So here's my solution for what it's worth. YOu can either
Stay true to yo girl, if you like those kind of women, and make a compromise wit yo boys, to have time for the lady, and time for the boys....get things worked out so they don't have to deal wit her attitude, and you don't have to deal with yo boys bitchin either. Don't want them together cause it's obvious they can't get along. That's one way.
OR
You can listen to your friends, especially if you don't want drama yourself in your life, and give homegirl the boot, or do just the opposite and get rid of your friends, becaus if they can't respect your lovelife, then how can they respect you?
That';s my 2 cents, take it or leave it.
2006-10-27 00:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, your friends will be with your forever, but girlfriends tend to give up and go. See what your friends think of her and why, and find out what she thinks of your friends and why. This could all be just one big misunderstanding. I know this one guy that was really loud and annoying, and my friends started leaving because of him. I liked him as a friend and considered taking him to homecoming, but decided not to because he wasn't going to pay for tickets...the point is, I confronted them and told them I was upset and they understood that this was my friend too and I want to hang out with all of them. Now, he hangs out with us and we have lots of fun, and my friends tolerate him after I confronted him about his...er...unnecessary volume. I told him that I was having problems handling that much noise that early in the morning [when we hang out]. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-26 23:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by Melanie P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, in all my experiences i've found my friends are just selfish and out for themselves, if u really like the girl stay with her ur friends can deal with it if there really your friends, if they walk away from u because your girl thats weak bro, u also shouldnt walk away from them either though, if u have some of the same feelings ur friends have about her call her out on it then, you'll know if she's the one
2006-10-26 23:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by hennys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her than keep her, if it would a ruin a good friendship, dump her.
2006-10-26 23:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋