Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

I have a bf that I have dating for about 3 months. On our first date, we went to church. He bought me flowers, and still does so regularly. He also likes to take me shopping, and buys my kids stuff. I feel realy uncomfortable though, because I am not a materialistic person. When we first started dating, I told him that I didn't want to have a sexual relationship w/ anyone until I was married. However, that only lasted till about a month into our relationship. Due to our busy schedule we don't see each other alot outside of work, and it seems like when do, we have sex. Since I have never before had a man who was thoughtful enough to do the things he does, it kind of makes me feel like I am letting him buy me off. I really do love him, because of his thoughtfulness. He says he loves me too. I tell him I need love, and not things, but he says he wants to spoil me because noone else has ever done it before, and that I deserve it.

2006-10-23 14:40:28 · 9 answers · asked by vaasam 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 14:40:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like these three guys and they all give mr butterflys in my stomech i dont know what to do i think one of them likes me but i dont know what to do and i dont want to ask anyof them out cuz im way to scared so can some one help me?

2006-10-23 14:39:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy yesterday and I specifically told him I have kids so we have to be discrete until I know for sure we are going to be a item. We just met and I have respect for my sons not to bring guys around my home. I am very cautious about dating. This guy wanted to stop by today to see me and everyone was home. I told him that would not be a good idea and he hung up on me. Why isn't it hard for men to respect a woman who have kids. Although my boys are all teens it is not healthy to see their mom with different men in and out of my life. I don't date much but I am interested in meeting one guy who can be a great guy and eventually meet the rest of the family. Why is this guy so impatient? Please serious answers

2006-10-23 14:39:18 · 25 answers · asked by OMG I thought I saw A Kitty Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband just got out of jail.....we haven't had sex .....he wont touch me.he wont talk about it....what can i do to let him know that im here for him..i dont understand why he wont have sex..our sex was good before.what gives?

2006-10-23 14:39:07 · 16 answers · asked by lilastevenson42 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My father-in-law abandoned his house and moved in with one of his daughters(that's a seperate long story but still relates to this). He then had a heart attack. So everyone who could has pitched in to help with his bills. One of the other sisters continuely pulls the guilt tripo on my husband-who said he'd pay the storage fees. So even though things are tight she's calling here freaking out because this months is late. She and my husband start screaming at each other onthe phone. My five year old is cowering inthe corner. I've had it up to here and went to her house and told her to leave us alone and if she wanted things done on time in her way than she should be the one paying that bill. Was I wrong to go over there? If we paid the bill my kids wouldn't have winter coats this week(it's 35* here already) and my van wouldn't be drivable because it had bad brakes - I wouldn't have been able to get my kids to school. Hence now you know why we're late on the bill.

2006-10-23 14:37:58 · 19 answers · asked by puzzleraspie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend started ignoring me for this other person and she keeps sayign we're best friends but as soon as that person comes on she like ditches me for them. she did it once but i let it go and then she did it again and i felt left out and broken so i put this stuff in my profile about best friends and trued avoiding her but it didnt work and she was like are you mad at me and she said she was paranoid which probly isnt true but oh well. And now i still feel hurt and idk what i should do? should i tell her im mad even tho im really hurt not mad, or tell her the truth even tho she probly wont understand? i need help please...

2006-10-23 14:37:57 · 8 answers · asked by A0I5 2 in Friends

If you went to oakland elementary school? And lived on Highpoint Drive in Lindenhurst, Illionis.

What high school would you go to???

I went to oakland elementary school until 3rd grade when i moved to massachusetts and now i want to see the high school's myspace kids.

2006-10-23 14:37:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi, o.k so this is my 1st time on here, so I'm just gonna get to the point. O.k so this boy at my school, we've been friends since like 4th or 5th grade, and I've never really liked him more than a friend before, but this year we've just been hangin out a lot more and everyone says he likes me and we make a cute couple, so should I ask him out? If you think I should then how can I, I mean he's really shy, and so am I and I don't wanna look like an idiot or get embarrased, and I definately don't wanna make one of my friends ask him out that's so stupid, so how can I get up the courage to ask him? Please comment, thank you.

2006-10-23 14:35:08 · 6 answers · asked by Jo-Z 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 14:34:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 14:33:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the previous answers provided me with websites that cost and gave me wrong info

2006-10-23 14:33:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She says she doesn't want a ring, but I think deep down she does. We've been together for over four years. How much should I spend on a ring? I don't make a whole lot of money, but she's put in time with me and I want to get her something. What do I do?

2006-10-23 14:32:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well, my husband and I have been together for almost 4 years. We have an 18 month old daughter. It seems here recently, that he's not really wanted much to do with me. We been going through spells like this for around 4 -5 months. Only now, our sex life has almost come to a stop. I caught him looking at porn, the sad part, I was laying right there on the couch and this isn't the first time. So he wants to look at porn, but not have sex. I try to talk to him and he says, "y is it so important?" I remember he use to get mad at me when I didn't want to, so what's up with that? what guy says that anyway. He's told me since the first time that I was the best he'd ever had. The other day he said that it was the same thing over and over, then yesterday he said that there was to much stress about it. I'm sexualy frustrated. I'm confused, do u think he's cheating or not interested anymore? He has to go to Iraq soon, is he just really stressed? I change things up, I'm very flesible, is it me?

2006-10-23 14:32:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-23 14:31:30 · 14 answers · asked by Hualan L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-23 14:30:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how many people out there say stupid things without thinking about it and then wish they never would have said it...this seems to be a reaccuring thing for me and I always manage to scew thing up...

2006-10-23 14:29:52 · 10 answers · asked by Han Solo 3 in Friends

Need to speak with these people...

2006-10-23 14:29:37 · 2 answers · asked by teddymont 1 in Friends

2006-10-23 14:29:19 · 30 answers · asked by Yuliza S 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom got sick because she's so stressed out... Thinking a lot of problems instead of solutions to her problem. What's the best thing to do to help her?

2006-10-23 14:28:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Who is this person to you or should I say was this person?
Do you still have contact? If so why don't you tell them?

2006-10-23 14:28:04 · 16 answers · asked by Trouble 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't want to dump her cause i couldn't stand it myself and i know she would be heartbroken, however i want to have a awesome senior year since i might enter the navy, I know a lot of girls that want to hook up with me i just am reserved because of my girlfriend of 1 1/2 years please help me.

2006-10-23 14:27:59 · 12 answers · asked by Joe S 1 in Singles & Dating

Being in love, with no drama and no problems. Being with your loved one and sharing good laughs and crys, fighting about stupid things and making up over and over again. Comfronting them when their hurt or lonely, sharing slow passionate kisses, and telling them you love them .Tell me what is it like because i cant seem to find out since im afraid to open up to people because im afraid or reject and pain. So tell me. Please!!!

2006-10-23 14:27:15 · 8 answers · asked by Micka 2 in Singles & Dating

ok.. so i broke up wit my ex-gf a couple of yrs ago.. we still talk n all but as friends.. but i want her back.. is it possible that we can try it again? we both grown from the past and are more mature about things.. so is there a chance? help me out.. wat can i do to have her back?

2006-10-23 14:26:53 · 7 answers · asked by stballazfinest87 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend Lane broke up with his girlfriend of 1 year Annie. Well, technically she broke up with him. She didn't even have the decency to break it off face-to-face. She wrote him this stupid letter saying that she felt tied down and owned. It turns out that she was two-timing him with one of his good friends. He knows that she isn't worth gettin upset over but he's still not himself. How do I cheer him up, but still let him have some time to get over her?

2006-10-23 14:26:00 · 6 answers · asked by Bethany 2 in Singles & Dating

my dad and mom are divorced and remarried, my dad said he would take me to get my permit, but my mom doesn't approve, she says im not ready. she is way overprotective and i need help on how to convince her!!!

2006-10-23 14:25:49 · 16 answers · asked by ♥snapple♥ 1 in Family

reggie really love me??

2006-10-23 14:25:47 · 10 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-23 14:25:04 · 6 answers · asked by WiLL . 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a hole in my wall and i dont know how to hide it from my mom or tell her.and i knowif she finds put she will send me to live with my dad.GODhelp

2006-10-23 14:24:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

its all the bonage and tieing up he wants and i do not like that all of not knowing i can move around i feel that he does not like it go somewhere else and i will divorce him after 14 years and it doe snot bother me to that and i figure they be many anwer each one has their opinion and i like that but still does not anwer my question any way i just think i should be enough but i am not i will not stay with someone who thinks i am not enough for them and yeah he is sorta addicted to it ????!!!!!

2006-10-23 14:23:32 · 4 answers · asked by kandie g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships