My husband just got out of jail.....we haven't had sex .....he wont touch me.he wont talk about it....what can i do to let him know that im here for him..i dont understand why he wont have sex..our sex was good before.what gives?
2006-10-23 14:39:07 · 16 answers · asked by lilastevenson42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have no idea as to what has happened to him in jail to cause him to be acting like this. I think you should just let him know you are there for him and can talk to him about anything. THen just be patient and wait it out. It also may not hurt to accidently get caught wearing sexy underwear as you never know that may be enough to get things started.
2006-10-23 14:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you just need to give him some time and some space. Maybe something happened while he was in jail, or maybe it's just been so long since he's been with a women that he doesn't really know where to start. I'm sure that if you just make it clear that you love him and find him sexy, he will come around...just don't push him.
2006-10-23 21:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by missapparition 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him time and time Will tell. Did something happen in jail? Does he have a girlfriend some where or perhaps there is more and he can't bring himself to tell you. Counseling might be the place to start and if you can't work it out well then move on...there is love out there...it will find you if he doesn't want you.
~Good Luck~
2006-10-23 21:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something happened to him while he was there. Maybe he's ashamed of himself. Maybe things just feel a lot different & he's not sure about things anymore since he was in jail. I'm not sure but I really hope you figure things out & that it works out for the best. I'm praying for you!
2006-10-23 21:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Lady Beth*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh oh. when a guy gets out of jail he's usually hungry for female attention. Maybe a few times a day for a while.. I think something might be wrong... you gotta get him to open up to you. Maybe get him to have a couple drinks, and that might losen him up.
2006-10-23 21:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by Smitten_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably like the other thing now,or he found out that he had a disease when he went to jail and now he feels like he can't trust you.
2006-10-23 22:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by daniellesmith1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may feel ashamed of whatever landed him in jail and that he is not good enough for you anymore. Talk it out. Keep trying. Good luck.
2006-10-23 21:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kodoku Josei 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long has he been incarcerated? Maybe he feels awkward. Let him come around. The more you push him the further he is going to push away from you.
2006-10-23 21:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you love him and are committed to him. Encourage him to go to counseling.
He probably got punked and is afraid of telling you and/or is concerned for your health. Don't try to pressure him into telling you what happened.
2006-10-23 21:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by asperens 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say go to the store and buy somthing that will really turn im on. Make him remember why he fell in love with you and married you
2006-10-23 21:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋