My best friend started ignoring me for this other person and she keeps sayign we're best friends but as soon as that person comes on she like ditches me for them. she did it once but i let it go and then she did it again and i felt left out and broken so i put this stuff in my profile about best friends and trued avoiding her but it didnt work and she was like are you mad at me and she said she was paranoid which probly isnt true but oh well. And now i still feel hurt and idk what i should do? should i tell her im mad even tho im really hurt not mad, or tell her the truth even tho she probly wont understand? i need help please...
2006-10-23 14:37:57 · 8 answers · asked by A0I5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you tell her how you truly feel and she doesn't understand you, then she's prolly not a true friend here anyway. I don't have best friends, but i do have true, good friends that if i ever felt that way, then they would understand me 100% cuz they know me and care about me.
My advice is that if she can't understand you, then thing about whats happend to the friendship? Go friend new friends to understand you. you're better off.
2006-10-23 14:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by asiantomato84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur bestfriend how u feel, if she is ur best friend she will understand. These days people use the word friend very loosely, Personally i think ur BF should have more respect for ur friendship b/c that is what a BF does. Tell her exactly how u feel, if she gets offended that means that she knows that she is wrong. Do not be afraid of her reaction and remember that ur aim is not to hurt her feelings like she has urs. Keep ur head up and think long and hard before u express urself.
2006-10-23 21:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by HIGHLY FAVORED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more of a case of nuanced friendship and dwindling friendship. Your friend is eager to hang out with this other person mainly because this friendship is new and requires more attention to be catered to at this juncture in time. Schedule some friend time without said person and explain your feelings ,but don't sound needy or they may feel attacked.
2006-10-23 21:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it's hurting you don't lie about it. It'll get the point across that you don't want your relationship ruined. And maybe she'll get the point.
Good Luck,
Shorti241!
2006-10-23 21:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by shorti241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should explain to her how you feel and tell her the importance-nice thing
ditch her and make her feel how you felt-mean thing
2006-10-23 21:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your friend and you want to retain the friendship you need to be honest with her. Simple as that.
2006-10-23 21:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell u the truth i'm experiencing the same prob with my bff so idk wut to really tell u but if i could give advice i'd say to tell her the truth if she's a good enuff friend she'll understand...
p.s. u don't have to follo my advice but u might give it a try
2006-10-23 21:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by Newest Cullen member 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say mean stuff to her just tell her wat you feel like. this happened with me and my friend and now we are really close again.
2006-10-23 21:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by beachchica7272 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋