Hi, o.k so this is my 1st time on here, so I'm just gonna get to the point. O.k so this boy at my school, we've been friends since like 4th or 5th grade, and I've never really liked him more than a friend before, but this year we've just been hangin out a lot more and everyone says he likes me and we make a cute couple, so should I ask him out? If you think I should then how can I, I mean he's really shy, and so am I and I don't wanna look like an idiot or get embarrased, and I definately don't wanna make one of my friends ask him out that's so stupid, so how can I get up the courage to ask him? Please comment, thank you.
2006-10-23 14:35:08 · 6 answers · asked by Jo-Z 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well. i think you should find out if he truly likes you or not first. if he doesn`t, then i don`t think you should ask him cause it`ll be ackward between you guys after that. but if he does have feelings for you then that`s a different story, ask him as soon as possible cause you`ll never know if another girl has her eyes on him. try asking some of your friends or some of his friends to find out how he likes. good luck ! =]
2006-10-23 14:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take little footsteps... for instance, the next time someone tells you that you make a cute couple when he's around, look riht at him and say "we do dont we." The problem with girls your age is that you think " okay I want to go out with him, so I should just ask him." NOT TRUE! You need to WORK IT. You're a girl. Wars have started over our kind. Girls have the most power ever, they just dont know it. Crawl out of your shell and freakin' flirt with him a little. Randomly grab his hand. Poke him in the side a little. Tousle his hair. Touch his arm for a split second when you want to stress a word in a sentence. Believe me.... it works. I know from expierience.
2006-10-23 14:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by batgirlmeg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just be secure with yourself and talk to him about it, because, if you are both shy, then neither of you are going to make the first move and you will feel miserable. besides it will get the relationship off on a good note because he will know that if you have something to say that he can count on you to come right out with it, which will let him know that you really mean what you are saying because, it came from you and not a third party. good luck.
2006-10-23 14:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by smilingdick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple ask your friend out. Something like let's go together to the park feed the birds, kill some people...and so on. Be funny be creative but please don't be cryptic in showing that you like him. Most men prefer straigthfoward to jedispeak. And one thing you need to remember is...straightfoward is not the same as being easy... just don't confuse him, most guys can't take it. So good luck and happy hunting.
2006-10-23 14:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by et3rn4l_j0k3r 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i ask my best friend (boy) out with been friends 4 12 yrs and i told him straight how i feel and he told me 2 how he feels and we bin 2 gether 4 2years jus go 4 it u dnt no what might happen.
2006-10-23 14:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by linz172 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about "Hey, y'wanna get some pizza after the game?" Or, say, let's go to __________ whatever, concert, restaurant, whatever you like to do!
He can't eat you, and if he says, no, you've not done anything irrevocable!
Good luck!
2006-10-23 14:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋