Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

well my friend is who i like and ever since he got into a fight he started acting a little differen like he is gay and just afraid to show it. Everyone has been saying that he is gay and im not sure what to believe . Im not the type of person to believe but when i was in 7th grade(last year) we were at a friends house and so we were trying to get close well i was cause my friend said that he liked me so i went for it and we played spin the control and we only hugged but he wanted to play 7 minutes in heaven but his friend that owned the house said no and who else would he do it with it was my friend and his girlfirend and well the guy i liked.I really dont see sign that he is gay but how do i know if i like a gay guy he is a great friend but sometimes i want to be more.
--love,
karen(aranacarola)

2006-10-23 15:41:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my gf and I starting going out in high school, 11th grade, and after high school we went to different colleges, but we are still together and the schools are not that far apart so we still see each other everyday and hang out. But recently I dont look at her the way I used to, I instead look at other girls at my school and wish i could go ask them out. Yet I cant break up with my gf cuz we are each others firsts and I dont think I have it in me to do it. Partly because im her escape from home and her shoulder when she needs help, so I cant leave her hanging. Am I just being shallow or something because i dont know what to do? =/

2006-10-23 15:40:58 · 16 answers · asked by d0ntbLink 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well my friend is who i like and ever since he got into a fight he started acting a little differen like he is gay and just afraid to show it. Everyone has been saying that he is gay and im not sure what to believe . Im not the type of person to believe but when i was in 7th grade(last year) we were at a friends house and so we were trying to get close well i was cause my friend said that he liked me so i went for it and we played spin the control and we only hugged but he wanted to play 7 minutes in heaven but his friend that owned the house said no and who else would he do it with it was my friend and his girlfirend and well the guy i liked.I really dont see sign that he is gay but how do i know if i like a gay guy he is a great friend but sometimes i want to be more.
--love,
karen(aranacarola)

2006-10-23 15:40:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-23 15:37:58 · 2 answers · asked by brunswick2006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I went out on Saturday and foolishly gave my number to a guy who asked. I say foolishly because I really was not into him at all I had just met him, talked for a little bit and he asked for my number. I don't really know how to say no to guys when they ask for my number. So he called me yesterday saying he really wanted to talk to me and he called me again today with a different number saying the same thing, all on my voicemail. I don't know what to do, I thought maybe if I ignore him it will just go away. What guy calls the next day?

My question is this 1) How can I deny someone my number without being mean the future who I am not feeling? and 2) what should I do about this guy?

2006-10-23 15:37:11 · 12 answers · asked by I carry your heart with me... 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 15:36:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-23 15:35:16 · 13 answers · asked by shasha 2 in Singles & Dating

im a fourteen year old girl, and ive never had a boyfriend, i have been asked out before , but never said yes beacuse i get so embarrassed or shy, all my friends try and make me feel better by saying that their boyfriends have never been serious but i still feel like im strange or that im weird, is it unusual for my age to never of had a boyfriend?

2006-10-23 15:34:23 · 6 answers · asked by tasha.x 1 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend is comming down to california to visit? What are some fun things that we could do to gether. I need a lot of ideas!!!!!!!

By the Way we are both 13

2006-10-23 15:33:51 · 14 answers · asked by *Music ♥ Love* 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, well i havent seen my dad since i was 3. and ive been having real problems w/ it. i feel lke part of me is missing. but then i met the one female teacher at my christian school and we have gotton pretty close. i starteed doing things w/ her and stuff and soon clinged on to her husband. she seemed perfectly fine w/ it too.

its been while now and im still really close to the both. ive slept over at there house for a week while my mom had to go to court and stuff. i have become really attached to this man. to the point where i actually act like hes my dad.
but lately i feel like hes almost been pushing me away. its been several years that weve been really close and now hes just kinda cutting himself off from me and i dont understand why. i miss him to death and i love him alot (not sexually.) why do i do? do i talk to him or just leave it be?

2006-10-23 15:32:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He was dating her 9 yrs ago. Wait no, he would meet up wih her and f*&^. She was living with his best friend. So we know why the lie but why continue contact and lie to the new wife. Knowing she sd it was ok to have exs as friends. . He bought her gifts took her to dinner but yeh, there was no hanky panky so he says. OOp and lies about taking her to a concert. HE sd she bought tickets, I did not care whatever, Then I found out he bought them. Weird..

She never made it to the wedding shower... and could never anae to go to dinner when the wife was ableto join. hmm Opinions anyone? I even did IVF asking him are you sure you never were with her.. I didnot wnat lies in to my marriage and my babies lifes. UHG FOund out when I was 5 months pregnant. People suck.

2006-10-23 15:32:40 · 8 answers · asked by Susan P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my family hates my bf because he's over too much. they think i'm spending too much time with him....WHY does it matter? i always thought bfs/gfs spend lots of time together....dont' they?

2006-10-23 15:31:49 · 19 answers · asked by yangie 2 in Singles & Dating

i recently got out of a very bad 3 year relationship. i've since moved on and am in relationship with a really great guy. our chemistry is unbelievable. a couple of weeks ago, i told him i need a new coat. he asked me why, and i told him that i never wear the same coat two years in a row. so i asked him to buy me a coat. he said okay, but he hasn't. i know that money isn't the issue cuz he's got plenty. (seriously, he lost $1600 last week betting on a game and he didn't even care) the next time i brought it up, he just brushed me off. he takes me out and treats me great, but this coat thing is bothering me. he mentioned a particular designer hoodie that he wanted saturday night at dinner and since it's only sold in certain stores, i rode the bus for 2 hours on sunday to get to the store to get it and surprise him with it. so would it be so bad for him to get me a coat? this morning i asked my ex for $200 and he dropped it off within hours. was i wrong for asking my ex for money?

2006-10-23 15:31:01 · 10 answers · asked by ~it's me~ 4 in Singles & Dating

we have always have had a healthy sex life up until a few weeks ago and he just seems to not want to have sex ever now. And I know he still masterbates. i just don't understand.

2006-10-23 15:30:46 · 18 answers · asked by Stacy L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you notice someone has bad breathe and you kiss them, can you actually like taste something gross or what? a person i might go out with has frequent bad breathe and ahh i just dont know what to do cuz i DEFINATELY could never tell him that he has it because i feel bad way to easily.

2006-10-23 15:30:17 · 10 answers · asked by Katie P 1 in Singles & Dating

what would my dad's cousin's son be to me?

2006-10-23 15:28:58 · 5 answers · asked by Megs 1 in Family

2006-10-23 15:28:48 · 25 answers · asked by Shina 1 in Singles & Dating

she likes me as a friend n just sees me as a regular person but ... i dont know what she realy thinks of me deep down... u see i kinda act like a bigmouth and im kinda a nerd... anyway i was afraid 2 ask her out or somtin b/c i ddnt no wat she wood do... n now shes goin out w this guy... see hes really nice bt not the guy you would expect ( hes friendly but has a learning disability)... how should i feel? what should i do? the girl is popular n good looking n were "friends" even though i dont no wat she really thinks of me. so mi question is: should i teel her wat i think of her? and what should i do?

2006-10-23 15:28:27 · 3 answers · asked by Michael G 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay I like this girl in my class I like her alot because I get jealous like damn when she talking to other guys and etc. I really want to ask her for her number but I am afriad of getting rejected.

Also I got a girl on the side who is feeling me and im not really feeling her. I don't know what to do. She is big and real motherly like she 22 and im 19 I just want a girl around my age like the girl in my class who im afriad to ask for her number.

2006-10-23 15:27:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Been dating this man on and off for 7 years. About 2 years ago we decided we were going to work towards marriage, and had planned on waiting until we finished college to start planning. He got a job out of the country for 6 months...and ends up cheating on me with someone he works with - and now claims he loves her and they're in a relationship. We've talked on and off since I found out about 3 months ago...but it's mostly fights. I asked him to give me space. We went about 2 weeks without speaking then on Oct. 15 he sent me an email asking me to pick him up from the airport on Oct. 29. He said he needs to talk to me in person, but he doesn't want to talk until he sees me. I have mixed feelings about the whole situation. I replied to the email telling him not to attempt to contact me if he is going to stay with this girl or if all he wants to say is that he's sorry. He told me to just show up and hang on until we have a chance to talk...should I pick him up or what?

2006-10-23 15:27:14 · 20 answers · asked by smanthajm 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes you're up, sometimes you're down, and sometimes you just go round and round. From " The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren. An awesome, life changing book.

2006-10-23 15:27:09 · 7 answers · asked by Jeanne D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife last feb. started to let me know that she needed the space thing. I was asked to move out for a few months. then she needed more space. We tried counsoling for a short time and i could never get a commitment from her as far as what im supposed to do. I kept pressing her and she finally told me she wanted a divorce. When I ask to reconfirm this she will say"right now yes I want a divorce" Can someone on here give me some idea of what I need to do next. No papers have been filed as of this time. Im still in love with her, but in the past negleted to show it the wa i should have,I have never cheated on her in 14 years, nor has there been any abuse. She no longer wants to try counsiling, So my question is Am i too late to let her have this space [definition of space is undefined] or should i go ahead and file the papers [this would be my final option] Any married women who have been here your perspective would be appreciated

2006-10-23 15:26:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up and moved out on my last boyfriend in March because of major problems. Throughout the last 6 months, my ex's mother constantly kept telling me that she thought I should go out with her nephew because we had so much more in common. Her nephew had a short lived relationship with a woman who used him badly and he had held off dating after his divorce for 2 1/2 years until this user. Now he is scared. I called him and we began talking and I really feel his aunt is right. I've told him that. He says he loves talking to me and likes me but needs time and he doesn't know if he's interested in me yet. We started talking often. It's all depressing me because I want to spend time with him. My problem in past has been that I always jumped in rather than going slow. Now, here's a guy that steady and slow and it's driving me absolutely crazy. I am so fearful that he'll never want anything. Should I be patient? I think he is worth the wait but don't want to be stupid!

2006-10-23 15:26:41 · 3 answers · asked by hearts_and_thoughts_2003 3 in Singles & Dating

We have two young kids and I will take care of them. I make more money, how do I just get him out of the house so I can get on with my life?

2006-10-23 15:26:22 · 17 answers · asked by Hualan L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I hate it I wish it was just go away.
so far it has caused deaths among lil girls break up's in realationship
its is a pedophiler haven I hate it.I wish it would go away or a least put a monthly charge on it Half the people on it would get off if they had to pay.

2006-10-23 15:25:57 · 19 answers · asked by SARAH HILL 1 in Singles & Dating

persanalities and characteristics

2006-10-23 15:25:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a very fun and outgoing group of friends. Many of who in teh group hav gone out with each other and some time or another. (I am the exception cuz I haven't had a bf that I can still talk to) And as soon as one of the ex's get a bf/gf the other one always becomes jeal;ous and it turns best friends into complete enemies. I have been told by many of my friends taht are not part of the group to just leave and not be in it at all. But it is really hard for me to do that cuz my best friend is in the group and when **** gets really tough I am teh only one she can turn to. I just want to know how I can help my group of friends from becoming a repeat of an episode of teh OC or Laguna Beach. Thank u

2006-10-23 15:24:49 · 4 answers · asked by Shayna S 1 in Friends

and you think you know that he still likes you back and your bestfriend has asked him to go back out with you so many times
what do you do when you cant get him off your mind

2006-10-23 15:24:48 · 3 answers · asked by C S 1 in Friends

i have a class with this girl who i think likes me, and that i like back, but i dont know the signs that she might be intersted in me. Plz HELP. leave a detailed description of the signs that i should look for, and what i should do to hint that i like her too

2006-10-23 15:24:48 · 4 answers · asked by cool boy 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-23 15:24:23 · 11 answers · asked by james w 3 in Singles & Dating