I broke up and moved out on my last boyfriend in March because of major problems. Throughout the last 6 months, my ex's mother constantly kept telling me that she thought I should go out with her nephew because we had so much more in common. Her nephew had a short lived relationship with a woman who used him badly and he had held off dating after his divorce for 2 1/2 years until this user. Now he is scared. I called him and we began talking and I really feel his aunt is right. I've told him that. He says he loves talking to me and likes me but needs time and he doesn't know if he's interested in me yet. We started talking often. It's all depressing me because I want to spend time with him. My problem in past has been that I always jumped in rather than going slow. Now, here's a guy that steady and slow and it's driving me absolutely crazy. I am so fearful that he'll never want anything. Should I be patient? I think he is worth the wait but don't want to be stupid!
2006-10-23 15:26:41 · 3 answers · asked by hearts_and_thoughts_2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating