well my friend is who i like and ever since he got into a fight he started acting a little differen like he is gay and just afraid to show it. Everyone has been saying that he is gay and im not sure what to believe . Im not the type of person to believe but when i was in 7th grade(last year) we were at a friends house and so we were trying to get close well i was cause my friend said that he liked me so i went for it and we played spin the control and we only hugged but he wanted to play 7 minutes in heaven but his friend that owned the house said no and who else would he do it with it was my friend and his girlfirend and well the guy i liked.I really dont see sign that he is gay but how do i know if i like a gay guy he is a great friend but sometimes i want to be more.
--love,
karen(aranacarola)
2006-10-23 15:41:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him you like him, and then ask him if he likes you and if he says no it doesn't matter if he is gay.
2006-10-23 15:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by Bruthaman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i wouldnt even try and find out right now- from the way you write, you appear to be younger. My opinion is just be firends with this guy and be that way even if he does turn out to be gay. There is no "true" way to be gay. You cant tell by what a person wears or acts like (unless they are WAAAAY out the closet), so give up trying to figure out... Just let things roll the way they are supposed to be!... good luck!
2006-10-23 22:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let things ride for awhile. If he is gay, sooner or later you will find out. If he is not, maybe someone started a bad rumor just to get even or something.
Hope all works out for you,
Darryl S.
2006-10-23 22:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by Stingray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was kinda in the same sitch. its hard to tell esp. if he doesnt act gay all the time. I was watching i think it was mtv once and they said that he didnt like girly guys but just guys. Its really weird if you find out, but maybe the best way to find out is to ask him. It will be wird and hard but not as weird if you find out he does and you are in love love with him
2006-10-23 22:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. He may have tendencies that may go either way. He is young and at that age friends can be very rude and "lets say" very rotton. Don't ruin this young mans life until you know for sure.
2006-10-23 22:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by P/T Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are confused and this letter is confusing!!
2006-10-23 22:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by Shena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are they taking a more than friendly interest in you.
2006-10-23 22:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by mescalin57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could ask him ,otherwise you won't know
2006-10-23 22:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Leah nora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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ask him, dammit.
2006-10-23 22:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋