we have always have had a healthy sex life up until a few weeks ago and he just seems to not want to have sex ever now. And I know he still masterbates. i just don't understand.
2006-10-23 15:30:46 · 18 answers · asked by Stacy L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you guys were together for awhile before you got married it is very possible he is just setteling in to the marriage. He is reaching the end of his sexual peak and if he is working more hours could just be tired at the end of the day. Masterbation requires less effort in many ways. Don't hound him with the subject. If all the other areas of your relationship are in order this will come back too. You will find that you may not be on the same wavelength as your spouse and when you are not in the mood he may be and vice versa. Don't think it has anything to do with you and if you are needing some release get some toys to play with and it may spark his interest enough to remind him of how much fun sex is.
2006-10-23 16:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by www.lindseysmith.pureromance.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him about it? Is he having issues with you or himself? Be sincere about it and let him know you really care.
Maybe you could try a little seduction. Buy a new "outfit", maybe some candles, fix him a good dinner, dessert, some music. Put on the romance and knock his sox off. Maybe he is just bored and he needs a little change of scenery. Go away for the weekend or just get a hotel room for a night.
About the masturbation thing, I personally don't agree, but to each his own.
Good luck!!
2006-10-23 15:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him about this? Maybe he's having some male or medical issues. You should talk to him and find out what is going on with him. Tell him how you are feeling and that you love him and miss your sex life. Tell him you are there for him and that you two can work on whatever is going on. Good luck.
2006-10-23 15:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it could be alot of thigs.. wait gain,stretch marks on any part of your bodyor he could be just interested in some one else especiallly if he is on the net alot i seen somthing like the question you ask on t.v. before but, the reason for her question was because she was ounce overweight and lost her weight and now she has obssive stretch marks, he was not interested into looking at the body anymore. for no sexual drive at this young age is definate a promblem.
2006-10-23 15:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by mandie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him about the lack of sex in your marriage? It could however be a stress related issue that has nothing to do with marrital problems. I would suggest talking with him about it. Tell him that you feel concerned with the lack of intimacy you have within your relationship, I wouldnt worry to much-- it will pass. :)
2006-10-23 15:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by amays068 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried to talk to him about it, if so, is there any thing going on that is preoccupying his time or mind, try to do something different go out and but something sexy,fix a good romantic dinner, some soft music and then try talking before getting busy so if this occur again you will have an ideal as to what's happening.
2006-10-23 15:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by regina f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we're in the same boat..It's really confusing and very frustrating. If anyone gives ya a really good answer..throw it my way! Good Luck to you.
2006-10-23 15:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you married too young. But....a young guy that's not interested in sex seems weird to me.
2006-10-23 15:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that is what he likes, give it to him, Take him in hand and get him to do what you like. It's called mutual masturbation, and great fun.
2006-10-23 15:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what it is he is fantasizing about and if it is reasonable then make his fantasy real. (Barring the inclusion of other partners and pain if your not into that).
2006-10-23 15:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by kane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋