Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

What should i do on my first DATE!!!!!!!!????????

2006-10-21 15:00:27 · 5 answers · asked by haloexecutioner 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

does my TA likes me or?
hi all, i have a problem recently.
i am a undergraduate student, and i am very much attracted to my teach assistant. And I implied him that and told him that i would like to hang out with him,and . I sent him an email address him as "hun" honey, he replied me and that said that it is best we both conduct ourselves professionally.... i know there is rule in university that such affair is not accepted. Today i went to talk to him apologize for being offensive, and he said it is just the rule of the school and requires him to be" professional" and he said he doesn't feel bad at all about my initiation. I am not sure if he is interested in me... he is pretty mature boy and knows what he should do and what he is doing.
he glanced at me in class sometime but when i catch his glance he looks away

2006-10-21 14:59:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 16 years old i like this girl in my english class. i talk to her once in a while but wen i asked her if she liked me she said NO !!! but the problem is that now she looks at me with a smile on her face. like for example i was talking 2 my friend b4 class and i was standing by the door and she was looking right at me smiling. like one time i gave her a note and told her 2 stop calling me chi chi, because i dont like it. anyways i saw her walking in the hallway and instead of saying HI chi chi she called me by my first name and wen she said it she had a smile on her face. then the other day she asked me if i can lend her a pencil. then after class she was about to give it back but she was about to call me chi chi then she smiled and called me by my 1st name. i don't what is happening does she like me or she doesnt or is playing with me and one time i asked her to get 2 class just playing around or either she ignored me or she just ignores me i think she thinks i lost interest in h

2006-10-21 14:58:17 · 12 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Singles & Dating

We broke up after 1yr 5months becuz she started drinkin nd smoking. Soon after she kept messaging/calling me telling me she missed and lovd me.She said she would wait for me even tho i told her i didnt know if or wen i wuld go bak to her nd quit smoking.A week ago she tells me shes over me after 5months. Now shes been dating this guy a couple days later and it hurt me alot so then i realized that i always loved her and i missed her.i told her to comeback to me but she wont becuz she says shes having fun and hes difrent. I told her its always fun in the begining and she should just come back to me becuz i love her nd i never wronged her.So wat ive been pretty much doing is reminding her of past fond memories so maybe she would realize to stop wasting her time and comeback to me.she waitd for me now im waiting for her. So now im feeling wat she had to go through and its terrible. Wat shuld i do to get her back? or should i just wait it out? shes only been w/him for a wk

2006-10-21 14:58:13 · 3 answers · asked by underoathprophet 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad has been acting like he doesnt "like" me. he avoids me and he is so rude towards me. everytime i say something he gets an attitude with me. i watch how he interacts with my other susters and brothers and it is way different form how he treats me. ive tried telling him how i feel but he acts like he doesnt care. what should i do?

2006-10-21 14:58:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i love a girl and she is my friend she dont know that i love her,so how should i get closer to her heart and she should consider me as her love

2006-10-21 14:57:38 · 9 answers · asked by jalib s 1 in Singles & Dating

if anybody says hi could you please something the world needs to hear and could you also say your name because i wantto see wat kind of creative names people have. What can i say, im kinda bored.

2006-10-21 14:57:23 · 23 answers · asked by odd one 1 in Friends

OK- so it is kind of a long story. I have a friend who has a lot of issues. He is sometimes very immature, and often times seemed to try to push our other friend and me away. I thought he had detachment issues, because he has moved around a lot in his life, and has never had a very stable life. I thought that he was just keeping us at arm’s length to avoid getting hurt again if he moved, but what I finally figured out is that he was testing us to see at what point we would leave because he was being all insecure. Well, it usually is an impassable, never ending test, but somehow I passed. He called me one night and said to me that he was a major pr!ck, and that this was usually when people abandoned the relationship, and that I was the nicest person he had ever met.
Well, it is great that he acknowledges that and all, but he still has other issues, such as he doesn’t enjoy life and tries to slowly starve himself to death while disguising it as “eating health,” but the point is he doesn’t eat enough. He just has a lot of issues, and is selfish and immature. But, he has become better recently, and especially after the long discussion we had, he has realized this and has made somewhat of an effort to change. I know I cannot change him, but by sticking around and being a constant in his life he is changing himself. The difficulty with this is that at timed he drives me absolutely insane, and sometimes it has a negative impact on MY life. So the question is this, am I doing anyone a favor by sticking around, am I being nice and helping him, or am I stupid to be putting myself in that situation?

2006-10-21 14:57:05 · 2 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a really close friend, and he recently completely shut me out of his life...no contact with me. I've been going through symptoms, if you will, of the typical addict. I can't stop thinking about him. Dreaming about him. I am physically sick, I throw up, and get horrible headaches. any help would do...

2006-10-21 14:56:16 · 14 answers · asked by vtrachel2000 2 in Friends

i asked this boy the exact question he didn't know help me out here!

2006-10-21 14:55:57 · 10 answers · asked by hot stuff 1 in Singles & Dating

Friend of mine is going through some trouble with his sex life with his wife. He seems to be deep in love with her and reaches out for her a lot, but she rarely seems inclined to having sex. If he doesn't ask her to have sex, she might go a week or two without any of it. What can I advice my friend in order to help him?

2006-10-21 14:55:47 · 11 answers · asked by Marcelo A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this person i dated just once 2 months back. I asked her out for she flirted with me for a long time. I am positive me and her really enjoyed. Then i asked her very shortly after the first date if she would like to go out seriosly. She said she was "kinda seeing someone" and that she would like to casually go out. I took the refusal extremely well and behaved extremely calmly and said it was not a problem. I walked away.We exchanged some emails over the summer. I met her again a few weeks back and she behaved really "nicely" with me. What is all this supposed to mean? Both of us are in the same high school but this sem i got no classes with her. What do i do? I kinda like her still

2006-10-21 14:54:22 · 15 answers · asked by Arjun C 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to this guy Peter for awhile and i rly love him but his dad took the computer away from him for work so he can't talk to me much any more. I don't want to give up on him but i don't know what to do. I love him but i never talk to him much.

2006-10-21 14:53:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 14:52:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is a talker and tells me exactly what he wants. I have a hard time doing that. He wants me to tell him what I like and what feels good. I'm a little shy and don't feel comfortable talking like that. I know I should, so he can understand and satisfy me better.(which needs to be done). How can I get up the nerve to talk to him that way? We have been together for 4 years and you would think the shyness would be over, but it is just hard for me for some reason. Can anybody help me communicate better sexually? I want to tell him that I hardly ever reach orgasm, I think he knows that. But the truth is, I really don't know what to say to help him help me. I don't know how he can make things better, because I actually don't know what it would take for me to reach orgasm. We are supposed to get married in November, but he has a case and may do some time in the County Jail. I like to be loved on and kissed and held and he's not really into all that. He's getting betterat that now. please help

2006-10-21 14:52:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 14:51:39 · 21 answers · asked by miss_unique16 2 in Singles & Dating

a guy, middle 20s, with no kids, doesnt smoke, or do drugs, has not been in jail, lives in a 3 bedroom, two bathroom house with a portch, owns 3 vehicals, has basically a steady but not overly high paying job but a paycheck everyweek, and his own insurence?

2006-10-21 14:51:35 · 9 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2 in Singles & Dating

Iasked question awhile back and gave him the benifit of the doubt,but recently found condoms in his pocket again, and now he told me they were his friends. I think I am a fool Any one Please Help Me

2006-10-21 14:51:33 · 27 answers · asked by Sariee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are not intimate. We argue all the time. The only thing keeping us from separating are the kids. Some people say that is a good thing to stay together because of them and some people say we are doing more harm than good. What should I do? We have already done the counseling thing, didn't work. HELP!

2006-10-21 14:51:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please give me good advise

2006-10-21 14:50:43 · 9 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay this boy i like might like me to because when i talk to him on yahoo he always ask to come over and i make a lame exuse not to.
Is that a good idea and does any one know how to get him to like me?

2006-10-21 14:50:29 · 11 answers · asked by Shelby 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 14:50:23 · 15 answers · asked by Quique 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont wanna be noticed for bad things... so i keep my best side on everywhere i go.... but at home!! So why do guys still seem to look past me??

2006-10-21 14:50:05 · 6 answers · asked by limey 2 in Singles & Dating

I like 2 boys, roody and will, and they're both really hot! and i think they both like me!

roddy is liked by most girls because his older brother is hot, but i like him the way he is!

will is a football star, and not the brightest bulb! but other than that, he's perfect, he tall dark and handsome!

who do i choose?

2006-10-21 14:49:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can't understand why i feel so alone. any advice on how to snap out of it?

2006-10-21 14:49:40 · 11 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6 in Friends

I know their is a way I just need help finding it?

2006-10-21 14:48:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would love to hear guys perspective on what they'd like to get, and girls on what they think would be sweet and romantic, thanks!

2006-10-21 14:48:52 · 4 answers · asked by Mrs. O'Neill 2 in Marriage & Divorce

allright well theres these two girls ive been intrested in for awhile i dated one and am now intrested in the other. the girl im intrested in has a boyfriend but her and i have been keeping up with this banter for awhile now and she seems to be intrested in me but im not quite sure how to approch this i usualy have a rule to never go after any one with a boyfriend or significant other and never to date friends but so far she has broken every other rule ive had i dont want ot hurt the other girl but also i dont want to mess with there friendship so help would be appreciated

2006-10-21 14:48:30 · 5 answers · asked by pow_neverforgotten 1 in Singles & Dating

I work with this woman, i'm actually HER boss, she is constantly on an ego trip and takes every opportunity to make my life miserable. It hasn't been too bad but now all of a sudden she's cracked again, and this time its bad. She's talking s*** about me to co-workers and i've had it, i know this because ppl have come up to me and said, wow, whats going on between you and ____. I've tried talking to her, ask her what her problem is, she just gets more ticked off and it doesn't work. I can't really do too much because she does her job, perfectly actually, and I can't get her fired for talking...what should I do?

2006-10-21 14:47:01 · 6 answers · asked by hgenesis423 1 in Friends

Can you trust a man that continully goes behind your back and talks to other people online, wanting to meet? When you ask him about it, he gets mad and yells out the truth, after you ask him a few times to get him to tell you the truth? Can you trust him, or should you just leave him and save yourself from being hurt over and over again?

2006-10-21 14:46:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce